Discovering your wife or girlfriend having an affair

[Nellie60]

I did not find out about my wife and a couple of affairs until years later. It was hot to hear her describe the sex and I would have enjoyed it just as much knowing about it at the time. In fact I would have suggested that she look for more men and let me watch. She does do that now but we could have been enjoying this for an extra 20 years.

If my ex had allowed me to watch after the fact back then I may have accepted that given the fact I now fantasied about her with other men now.

 

[phil1955]

If my ex had allowed me to watch after the fact back then I may have accepted that given the fact I now fantasied about her with other men now.

I think it is easier for older men to accept. Perhaps when we are younger we worry about losing her to a better lover but we become more secure as we get older and realize she likes a strange cock just as much as we like some strange pussy.

 

[Nellie60]

I think it is easier for older men to accept. Perhaps when we are younger we worry about losing her to a better lover but we become more secure as we get older and realize she likes a strange cock just as much as we like some strange pussy.

When you are younger the jealousy aspect hit hard at the time cause as you say maybe he was a better lover...but it was also the fact that she was pleasing him.

 

[Cuddlycarebear]

I think it is easier for older men to accept. Perhaps when we are younger we worry about losing her to a better lover but we become more secure as we get older and realize she likes a strange cock just as much as we like some strange pussy.

I like your description and agree. I would love to find a couple and begin by chatting with both.

 

[Jeph77]

I like your description and agree. I would love to find a couple and begin by chatting with both.

Chat them up through the whole thing.

 

[phil1955]

When you are younger the jealousy aspect hit hard at the time cause as you say maybe he was a better lover...but it was also the fact that she was pleasing him.

That is a thing you need to get used to. Her cumming hard and doing her best to please him.

 

[van_delay]

Nothing has ever made me harder than finding evidence.

 

[Nellie60]

That is a thing you need to get used to. Her cumming hard and doing her best to please him.

But imagining her working on him gets me really hard.

 

[van_delay]

But imagining her working on him gets me really hard.

Same

 

[Nellie60]

Nothing has ever made me harder than finding evidence.

Liked soiled panties...I did find one pair as you do when you are suspicious in the laundry basket of this particular ex

 

[van_delay]

Liked soiled panties...I did find one pair as you do when you are suspicious in the laundry basket of this particular ex

Dirtier the better

 

[Nellie60]

Dirtier the better

When you are suspicious things do look different..

 

[Justfantasies]

When you are suspicious things do look different..

When you find real evidence you'll know it

 

[Justfantasies]

It's only sex after all

 

[easyoff]

Move over, and let's make it a 3some

 

[Crownvic]

It's only sex after all

All the more reason...

 

[R34D]

Through out our marriage, six other men have fucked my wife. There were actually two other men around that same time as her first tryst. The first guy took her to a hotel, as he was married too. The other two were single men in our smallish apartment building. They fucked her in their bedrooms. She won’t talk about those hook ups much. But I’ve stroked my cock many times thinking it!

That is really hot!

 

[wifewatcher1997]

At this point, I want her happy and if she needs it on the side, go for it. Just remember I am laying next to you and need your intimacy as well!

 

[phil1955]

But imagining her working on him gets me really hard.

And even harder when you see her actually doing it.

 

[Nellie60]

And even harder when you see her actually doing it.

Oh yeah..fly on wall I say

 

[phil1955]

Oh yeah..fly on wall I say

Yes. Just sit back out of the way and enjoy the show.

 

[Justfantasies]

Bump ...

 

[SPARTAN047]

I wouldn't care in the slightest if we weren't together or agreed to fuck others anyway. I'd be doing the same as much as I could.

In a real loving and (formerly) monogamous relationship? Not acceptable.

 

[artgorden]

As long as her boyfriend lets me blow him

 

[pace_purr]

My wife had a couple of affairs but due to the fact we were in the swinging lifestyle and I knew about it I wasn’t bothered just as long as she was enjoying herself and not hurting anyone.