Prostate Orgasm

[dschuetz68]

https://evolvednovelties.com/playboy-come-hither/

Just bought this one to replace the first "massager" I bought. The first one didn't hit my spot and produced the wrong kind of sensations.

The Helix also misses the mark. I'm hoping to find the right spot with this one. The remote is a nice feature since I don't have to reach down and disturb whatever position the toy is in to change modes/speeds. Instead of just vibrating/pulsing it wiggles like a a finger to actually "tap" the prostate. I just need to find it.

This process has been disappointing and frustrating. I wish I had the time to actually play but I only get about an hour a week to experiment.

It’s frustrating trying to figure out what works and what doesn’t.I had about given up on it.

 

[ZfrkS62]

It’s frustrating trying to figure out what works and what doesn’t.I had about given up on it.

But you managed to get something to work?

 

[dschuetz68]

But you managed to get something to work?

Finally yes

 

[artslut86]

Finally yes

Details.... or it didn't happen

 

[dschuetz68]

Details.... or it didn't happen

It took a hour or so of playing to get it just tight,there was a ton of pre cum,then a while later it just started dumping out,like everything it seemed.I’ll add,you MUST be totally relaxed and have your mind empty

 

[ZfrkS62]

Hit a good spot today but THE spot. Felt a little precum leak out but nothing spectacular. Got bored and finished off manually.

 

[dschuetz68]

Hit a good spot today but THE spot. Felt a little precum leak out but nothing spectacular. Got bored and finished off manually.

It’s not a race,perseverance pays off here seriously

 

[docisin]

Hit a good spot today but THE spot. Felt a little precum leak out but nothing spectacular. Got bored and finished off manually.

exactly my experiences….

 

[eroticspank]

Hit a good spot today but THE spot. Felt a little precum leak out but nothing spectacular. Got bored and finished off manually.

Great you found the spot.

I may be crazy but I think the prostate orgasm is similar to the female orgasm. I will explain. First, you must be really turned on for it to happen, both body and mind ready. (You can't just rub one out.) So that means a lot of foreplay. Next, the stimulation needs to be varied and gradual. Sometimes the stim that gets you close is not the stim needed to get you over the edge. The actual orgasm spreads throughout the body starting in your crotch area. Each orgasm is not the same, some are mild, and others are very intense. Once you get to the point of having prostate orgasms, your body remembers and it is much easier to achieve.

When you do prostate play next time, I would plan at least 2 hours of time. That does not include foreplay.

Get a room or place that is private with no distractions. Pets, kids, etc.

Do an enema or make sure you are clean so you can feel everything inserted.

I am not sure what people have said about "hands-free" orgasms. Using your hand to get yourself aroused, during play to keep an erection, and to bring yourself to the edge is okay and a great help to play.

During play, you may feel yourself get close to orgasm several times but not get there. Don't worry, it will eventually happen, however, you may need to change the stimulation. What got you there may not propel you over the edge.

If you feel like it's not going to happen, using your hand to finish is a great idea and will still give you a good orgasm, especially if you are doing the prostate stim at the same time. In some cases, you are actually having a prostate orgasm and a regular one(ejaculation from manual) at the same time, you just don't notice it because of the intensity.

I hope this helps. Just my thoughts. I know everyone is different.
ES

 

[AG31]

I may be crazy but I think the prostate orgasm is similar to the female orgasm. I will explain. First, you must be really turned on for it to happen, both body and mind ready. (You can't just rub one out.) So that means a lot of foreplay. Next, the stimulation needs to be varied and gradual. Sometimes the stim that gets you close is not the stim needed to get you over the edge. The actual orgasm spreads throughout the body starting in your crotch area. Each orgasm is not the same, some are mild, and others are very intense. Once you get to the point of having prostate orgasms, your body remembers and it is much easier to achieve.

My post.I beg to differ. Being a female who has experienced an orgasm almost certainly do to a storm of testosterone. See my post earlier in this thread. A typical female organism involves contractions in the genital area. The orgasm I experienced several times, did not. It involved contractions of the thigh and pelvic and abdominal muscles (different combinations at different times). I do agree about the degree of stimulation required (in normal circumstances). But a prostate orgasm doesn't start at your crotch. Anyway, as I experienced the testosterone storm. And check out the video in my post. (Not of me...)

 

[eroticspank]

My post.I beg to differ. Being a female who has experienced an orgasm almost certainly do to a storm of testosterone. See my post earlier in this thread. A typical female organism involves contractions in the genital area. The orgasm I experienced several times, did not. It involved contractions of the thigh and pelvic and abdominal muscles (different combinations at different times). I do agree about the degree of stimulation required (in normal circumstances). But a prostate orgasm doesn't start at your crotch. Anyway, as I experienced the testosterone storm. And check out the video in my post. (Not of me...)

I guess you can call me crazy like I said, or just wrong

And I get that everyone is different. I am trying to come up with ideas that help the guys out there who are trying for the elusive prostate orgasm.

My prostate orgasms start in the crotch area with a warm feeling that spreads throughout my body. In some cases, it continues to a full-blown orgasm with anal contractions--amazing to watch/feel I have been told by my Domme fucking me with a strapon--and strong ejaculations.

ES

 

[live4thebj]

When my prostate orgasms happen they just appear. No buildup just my body reacting as one unit. Sometimes my hips thrust on their own and sometimes my shoulders and head lift off the bed and I feel myself making an O face. The sensations just build from there and it is one after the other. And if you are lucky you get that one big huge final O and that makes it all worth it. Then just like that it is over.

 

[Tessinwales]

Every time I have given a man a p-gasm (usually a combination of oral sex and prostate massage) he has told me that it was one of, if not the actual best orgasm he has had.

 

[JusticeGrey]

Every time I have given a man a p-gasm (usually a combination of oral sex and prostate massage) he has told me that it was one of, if not the actual best orgasm he has had.

Lucky guys

 

[ZfrkS62]

Great you found the spot.

I may be crazy but I think the prostate orgasm is similar to the female orgasm. I will explain. First, you must be really turned on for it to happen, both body and mind ready. (You can't just rub one out.) So that means a lot of foreplay. Next, the stimulation needs to be varied and gradual. Sometimes the stim that gets you close is not the stim needed to get you over the edge. The actual orgasm spreads throughout the body starting in your crotch area. Each orgasm is not the same, some are mild, and others are very intense. Once you get to the point of having prostate orgasms, your body remembers and it is much easier to achieve.

When you do prostate play next time, I would plan at least 2 hours of time. That does not include foreplay.

Get a room or place that is private with no distractions. Pets, kids, etc.

Do an enema or make sure you are clean so you can feel everything inserted.

I am not sure what people have said about "hands-free" orgasms. Using your hand to get yourself aroused, during play to keep an erection, and to bring yourself to the edge is okay and a great help to play.

During play, you may feel yourself get close to orgasm several times but not get there. Don't worry, it will eventually happen, however, you may need to change the stimulation. What got you there may not propel you over the edge.

If you feel like it's not going to happen, using your hand to finish is a great idea and will still give you a good orgasm, especially if you are doing the prostate stim at the same time. In some cases, you are actually having a prostate orgasm and a regular one(ejaculation from manual) at the same time, you just don't notice it because of the intensity.

I hope this helps. Just my thoughts. I know everyone is different.
ES

I get one day a week to play and I don't always even have time for that. 2 hours is a big ask.

The last time I did it, I actually worked myself up prior to inserting and found it difficult to maintain a hard on.

I do notice a big difference in the ejaculate between just stroking and stroking with the massager going. I may need to use this approach while chasing the hands free result. So far, the only way I think I know I've found my prostate is by the intense feeling in my cock that is somewhere between needing to pee and ready to cum. I've only really gotten that when flaccid though.

 

[HottieOlwen]

I been away for awhile from here and just recently started back up. I already collected a shit load of stories to read and trying to force myself to stop looking for more because I have enough to last me months.

With that said I miss something so much that I only done 3x's: prostate orgasm. Now guys let's get a few things straight before you think about contacting me. I am NOT gay or bi-sexual. I love anal play either with myself or another woman (I done both).

First time I had a prostate orgasm it was purely by accident. I came home horny, and bought a new anal toy to mess with. Basically a very small vibrator and I mean small. So I go take a shower, and while in the shower I turn on the toy and put it in my ass. Nothing fancy about this toy but I decide to move it around and then it happens: I hit my prostate. I don't know what made this happen so easily or so powerful but all I know and not realizing it at the time that it was my prostate I hit and I wanted more of that. So I pushed as hard as I could and left the vibrator right on that spot. I won't go into too much detail but I can say the orgasm was nothing like I experienced before. I came so hard I almost dropped to my knees and didn't touch my cock once. In short I didn't even ejaculate, not even sure if I was hard.

Jumping ahead MANY years later I researched for more anal toys and discovered the Aneros. I think that is how it is spelled. I bought many toys from them but the one that is most dearest to my heart is the Vice. That thing I used twice and both times HOLY SHIT! Guys you want multiple orgasms buy that fucking thing!


So I am sitting here on Easter Sunday thinking about some anal play but no lube. So it will have to wait but for months now my ass feels so tight versus how it was then and I know how much it hurts first getting that toy in but once it is in hang on for the ride.

Any others experienced prostate orgasms?

I have been married for 30 years, and a Hot Wife for all but 2 of those years. Since I made my husband a cuckold (his suggestion, btw) he only ever experiences prostate orgasm. I milk him weekly on a Saturday afternoon, always to a ruined orgasm. It usually takes between 15 and 20 minutes to drain him fully. I also peg him regularly, but he is under strict instructions to warn me when he is on the edge. He's allowed one cum a week, and if he cums when I'm pegging him, his Saturday afternoon milking is cancelled. This is all consensual, and we both love our chosen roles with our lifestyle.

 

[van_delay]

I'm always horny, guess I'm ready to have a guy undress me...

Great pics

 

[eroticspank]

I get one day a week to play and I don't always even have time for that. 2 hours is a big ask.

The last time I did it, I actually worked myself up prior to inserting and found it difficult to maintain a hard on.

I do notice a big difference in the ejaculate between just stroking and stroking with the massager going. I may need to use this approach while chasing the hands free result. So far, the only way I think I know I've found my prostate is by the intense feeling in my cock that is somewhere between needing to pee and ready to cum. I've only really gotten that when flaccid though.

I get it that 2 hours is a lot. Work with the time you have and it sounds like you are getting close. Needing to pee is a good sign and make sure you have emptied your bladder prior and cleaned out your backside.

I rarely keep an erection throughout prostate play. However, when I start it is important because my prostate is easier to touch when I am excited. Yes, the same is true for me. If I am doing prostate play and stroking my dick, the ejaculation and orgasm are stronger, and I even squirt further. So consider bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm with your hand and then continue prostate play for a while and then back to your hand. Remember to use lots of lube.

ES

 

[ZfrkS62]

I get it that 2 hours is a lot. Work with the time you have and it sounds like you are getting close. Needing to pee is a good sign and make sure you have emptied your bladder prior and cleaned out your backside.

I rarely keep an erection throughout prostate play. However, when I start it is important because my prostate is easier to touch when I am excited. Yes, the same is true for me. If I am doing prostate play and stroking my dick, the ejaculation and orgasm are stronger, and I even squirt further. So consider bringing yourself to the edge of orgasm with your hand and then continue prostate play for a while and then back to your hand. Remember to use lots of lube.

ES

It's been off and on but there have been some wild swings between positive and negative experiences.

Let me start with the negatives as I have not found anyone discussing this one anywhere.

The enema bulb takes time to get right, apparently. I've had issues where going through two full bulbs still didn't get me cleaned out well enough. I may need to find one with a flexible house, because the one from Aneros is awkward to use. I'm not expecting to be spotless everytime I remove either device, but there are times I i wonder why I bothered.

This leads me to the issue I'm not find any info on.

I have had this issue with both massagers where I'm starting to feel something intense and pleasurable all around my pubic area, and even my nipples start to feel sensitive (not typical for me), but all of a sudden, that feeling vanishes and is instantly replaced with a familiar, urgent feeling that causes me to clench everything below my navel requires rushing into the bathroom and not relaxing anything until I get on the toilet. What follows is an emergency evacuation of everything that must have been higher up in my lower intestinal tract. Mood is immediately dead. My theory is that the massager is too deep and stimulating the next sphincter muscle causing my brain to interpret the signals not as sexual stimulation, from below, but an urgent request from above to be let out. The problem with this, is that I can't feel that muscle being touched. It happens often enough that I think twice before engaging.

Now the positive.

There were a couple of days maybe around April, where I put the Evolved toy in and wore it while running errands. Usually about an hour and a half. The Evolved toy is remote controlled so i can switch it off when near people. It's not silent, so anyone who picks up on strange noises could likely hear it. I kept it on its lowest vibrating setting and did not turn on the come hither motor.

No orgasms of any kind while out, and I'm still not getting aroused by it, but when i got home and took it out i couldn't help but fondle my still mostly limp cock to the point where I could feel the early tingle of an orgasm. I stopped before the point of no return, or so i thought. The feeling was different somehow though.

When i pulled my pants up, they slapped the frenulum and i had to race to pull them back down again because i was going to cum and hard. I wasn't able to get my cock clear and ended up dropping a couple of big pearls in my pants and several more down my thigh. The actual orgasm was the most intense I've had in a very long time.

I repeated this again a week or two later, though not as strong, and was prepared for it. I take it as a good milestone. Hoping the next one
is getting and maintaining an erection during play.

 

[artslut86]

Two bulbs? Try six.
Or more. Until it's clear. Then wait. Then go again.
I now do 2 bulbs back back hold it. Then let the go Then clear again 2 or more times.

Or just take an enema to be sure.

As u r releasing its freeing stuff all way in your colon. So it's messy sometimes.

 

[ZfrkS62]

Two bulbs? Try six.
Or more. Until it's clear. Then wait. Then go again.
I now do 2 bulbs back back hold it. Then let the go Then clear again 2 or more times.

Or just take an enema to be sure.

As u r releasing its freeing stuff all way in your colon. So it's messy sometimes.

Certainly seems like i should be referring to my colon as a TARDIS at times.

 

[eroticspank]

Two bulbs? Try six.
Or more. Until it's clear. Then wait. Then go again.
I now do 2 bulbs back back hold it. Then let the go Then clear again 2 or more times.

Or just take an enema to be sure.

As u r releasing its freeing stuff all way in your colon. So it's messy sometimes.

I agree. Try a regular enema vs taking the bulbs. An enema does take a while for you to evacuate everything. I had Domme give me one at her dungeon. It was unique since the toilet was in the middle of the dungeon with no privacy walls. Anyway, it took about an hour to do the enema and sit to evacuate. You will feel the cramps etc, just keep sitting there until they are gone. I would say about 30 min to completely evacuate.

Another option is Colon Hydrotherapy. You can go to a place and they give you an enema with a machine. It is typically done by an RN and the whole thing is automatic and cleans you out completely. Actually, it is kind of erotic since you are naked under a towel while a lady nurse hooks up the hose to your anus. I had it done several times years ago and she lightly massaged my stomach during the process.
ES

 

[artslut86]

I agree. Try a regular enema vs taking the bulbs. An enema does take a while for you to evacuate everything. I had Domme give me one at her dungeon. It was unique since the toilet was in the middle of the dungeon with no privacy walls. Anyway, it took about an hour to do the enema and sit to evacuate. You will feel the cramps etc, just keep sitting there until they are gone. I would say about 30 min to completely evacuate.

Another option is Colon Hydrotherapy. You can go to a place and they give you an enema with a machine. It is typically done by an RN and the whole thing is automatic and cleans you out completely. Actually, it is kind of erotic since you are naked under a towel while a lady nurse hooks up the hose to your anus. I had it done several times years ago and she lightly massaged my stomach during the process.
ES

I guess I meant more like a self inserted saline laxative. Takes about 30-40 minutes. Don't eat junk food day b4. Don't eat after 8pm nite b4. Ideally depending when activity is fast prior. It's actually changed my eating habits.

As my domme prefers my to flush most days and be ready on command

 

[ZfrkS62]

I guess I meant more like a self inserted saline laxative. Takes about 30-40 minutes. Don't eat junk food day b4. Don't eat after 8pm nite b4. Ideally depending when activity is fast prior. It's actually changed my eating habits.

As my domme prefers my to flush most days and be ready on command

One day every couple of weeks is usually when I try. Though if I really want a rush, I'll sneak a toy into the shower in the evening for a couple of minutes of exploration. Chances of her catching me putting it back are really low.

 

[artslut86]

Lol. I'm on a new program with My Domme. Every time I use a plug for 1 hr the next time.has to be an hour longer. For the month of July. She has me craving to use them but im trying to pace myself as I cant wear one like all day.
Last nite I had to wear one to bed. That happens once a week.