Straight guys who like gay sex

[Run4fun2]

Such a mid searching thread with many interesting viewpoints. I too try to rationalise in my old age and end up going round in ever expanding circles. I always considered myself "straight" although I secretly enjoyed wearing lingerie for solo pleasure. In my mind that just made me weird.

In latter years whilst still enjoying M-F sex I started to yearn for partial sex with other dressers and had a few very limited dressing experiences. By partial I mean BJ, JO relationships so I suppose that made me bisexual. However I have never had any wish for anal play either giving or receiving and I cannot decide if that precludes me from being gay or homosexual.

I now have no idea what I am label wise but as I age I really couldn't care less either way and neither should others be bothered by their own feelings. Just do what you enjoy and feels right for you, obviously within the confines of legality.

Very well put, you sound lovely

 

[Run4fun2]

Lucky you. I have a vanilla wife and I get zero kink from her. We still fuck twice a week but only missionary and nothing else.

I want more but I don’t want to hurt her. I feel incomplete by not experiencing more of my bi side.

Too bad for me right as I realize that I have it better than many.

Thanks for letting me vent

Thanks for sharing your situation. I feel very similarly and consider my self lucky to have the wife I do. But obviously I here on this forum for a reason…

 

[Nekidinaz]

I befriended a gay man after my divorce (from a woman) and decided to let myself go sexually. In the privacy of his home where there was trust and respect.. I was his wife for two years. But I never felt an attraction to him or any other man. I just liked the sexual attention - and his control over me

I think it's the same for me...I have zero attraction to men but I do like and enjoy the sexual attention, which is one reason why I so enjoy chatting on Sk.ype...I love the attention and I can be nude and open to suggestions of those I'm chatting with...

 

[PG564E]

The thrill of blowing a horny man with a nice hard dick overwhelms me each time I suck a cock. The man can be straight, bi, or a faggot like me, all that exists in the world in his need to cum, his dick, and my mouth to insure my pleasure is served also. A man has to blow another one to feel the intimacy of a swollen cock pouring warm semen into his mouth to understand how one craves to do this for the sake of giving sexual pleasure. One time and your addicted. A thousand blow jobs just makes you want more.

 

[Ciceri]

The thrill of blowing a horny man with a nice hard dick overwhelms me each time I suck a cock. The man can be straight, bi, or a faggot like me, all that exists in the world in his need to cum, his dick, and my mouth to insure my pleasure is served also. A man has to blow another one to feel the intimacy of a swollen cock pouring warm semen into his mouth to understand how one craves to do this for the sake of giving sexual pleasure. One time and your addicted. A thousand blow jobs just makes you want more.

For three years or so I sucked myself until I was in college. I thought I'd found perfection. Fast forward ten years when I found myself on my knees, head cradled in a man's hand... different story entirely. As you said - can't get enough

 

[PG564E]

For three years or so I sucked myself until I was in college. I thought I'd found perfection. Fast forward ten years when I found myself on my knees, head cradled in a man's hand... different story entirely. As you said - can't get enough

Very well said. I'm deeply closeted, but all I can think about is being a raving homosexual in plain sight. So many lucky men like us find ourselves worshipping dicks later in life. PM me anytime, I'm queer and love talking to other men.

 

[BizTrav]

I'm not completely happy with the bisexual label either.

While many people don't, I have always looked at love and sex separately. So, I like to use bi-amorous to describe someone who has romantic feelings towards both men and women; while I think that bi-sexual should be more closely associated with the act of having or wanting to have sex with both men and women without having romantic feelings towards the same sex.

In the case of male to male sex, the MSM label is accurate, but doesn't take into account someone who likes to have sex with both sexes.

I can't ever envision becoming romantically involved with another guy, but I have enjoyed many blowjobs from other guys, and although I've never returned the favor, I'd certainly like to if the situation was right. The guy would have to be ST disease free, decent looking and not a jerk. However, it would not involve kissing, hugging or other romantic gestures.

So, I guess that I'm stuck with a bisexual label, both in my definition and that found in dictionaries.

Fuck labels!

 

[dkak001]

In the case of male to male sex, the MSM label is accurate, but doesn't take into account someone who likes to have sex with both sexes.

MSM is more of a clinical/medical term. As I understand it, that one was created for Dr's/researchers to refer to the group of men who identify as straight but have sex with men. From a pathology perspective STI incidences are higher in the MSM group than others. Thus the creation of that label, and in that context it makes sense.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

From what I have heard, once a guy tries cock, he's hooked for life. I know for a fact I have been.

They aren't really trying cock though. These guys want mouth and ass. They don't want to suck. In fact they won't. They don't even want to see it.
They aren't searching for masculine men, they are searching for feminine sissy bottoms who love to please, and don't want reciprocation.

 

[Chi_Guy_68]

I'm a firm believer that most men will let another guy suck his cock, if they know nobody will find out.

100% this...

I'd go so far as to say most men are naturally bi. They just are hung up on society's labels. I truly think if no one cared about anyone else's sexuality, almost everyone would have sex with all genders

 

[Harvini2465]

Agree

I agree I think my wife knows I’m bi, me her, and my buddy are always talking risky, naughty, I’m always talking about sucking Rogers dick and they both call me gay I think Roger really knows that I want to I would love to suck his cock in front of my wife

 

[J1biboi]

I'm a firm believer that most men will let another guy suck his cock, if they know nobody will find out.

I would like to believe this, but in my younger days I had two guys turn me down before I found one guy that let me suck his cock. The first two got all bent out of shape like I wanted them to suck my cock!

 

[sicpup72]

I agree I think my wife knows I’m bi, me her, and my buddy are always talking risky, naughty, I’m always talking about sucking Rogers dick and they both call me gay I think Roger really knows that I want to I would love to suck his cock in front of my wife

Love it since my name is also Roger

 

[Biguy77578]

Love it since my name is also Roger

Roger that!

 

[klippert]

I miss the old days. I know exactly what he’s talking about. The entire idea of sexuality has gone alphabetically insane… or some other piechart-gender theory is why I think he expressed himself. And then Someone responded “I confused”. Ya you are, because he didn’t check the boxes.
I’m 54, Back in the late 80’s to this day. I enjoy m/m sex. As a matter of fact I have an active buddy. It’s just sex between men. We’re not meeting to join a parade… or watch musicals. It’s our way to enjoy our kinks that the wives are not into. But we have a deeply seeded desire for women that’s a natural driving factor.
As far as I’m concerned.. all the Gender Theory has become boring and irrelevant

 

[ChrissyCD64]

They aren't really trying cock though. These guys want mouth and ass. They don't want to suck. In fact they won't. They don't even want to see it.
They aren't searching for masculine men, they are searching for feminine sissy bottoms who love to please, and don't want reciprocation.

I'm a feminine sissy, but I'm want mouth and ass too, especially if it's from another sissy.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I'm a feminine sissy, but I'm want mouth and ass too, especially if it's from another sissy.

I will do that with another sissy, but never a masculine man. All I want from a masculine man is for him to use my two holes. I'm just there to please him and make him cum.

 

[ZacharyFagg]

I would like to believe this, but in my younger days I had two guys turn me down before I found one guy that let me suck his cock. The first two got all bent out of shape like I wanted them to suck my cock!

Oh, I've had several turn me down over the years, but I think it was probably the circumstances, or they were scared someone would find out.

 

[Harvini2465]

Love it since my name is also Roger

Come get it I’ll suck it

 

[Harvini2465]

Roger that!

No problem I’d love to suck all you, Rogers

 

[Harvini2465]

I am a straight man however I occasionally have gay thoughts that really turn me on

I’m a great cock sucker you would love it

 

[chapter6plan]

I’m always talking about sucking Rogers dick and they both call me gay I think Roger really knows that I want to I would love to suck his cock in front of my wife

Love it since my name is also Roger

Roger that!

No problem I’d love to suck all you, Rogers

My neighbor, who I met on Sniffies is also Roger. We haven't sucked yet, but I'm thinking there's something in the name.

 

[guns4444]

https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=659ae57675040
I want this so bad

 

[J1biboi]

Oh, I've had several turn me down over the years, but I think it was probably the circumstances, or they were scared someone would find out.

That might have been part of the reason, but in those days nobody wanted anything to do with a cocksucker.

 

[Thin59]

(this is my first post on LGBTQIA+ forum)

There is such a thing as heterosexual people who can enjoy homosexual activity. I've been strongly heterosexual my entire life, but I have also shared BJ, HJ, and even anal intercourse with other guys, and enjoyed it (sometimes). I say "strongly" heterosexual because ever since I was a child, from before I even knew what sex was, girls made me feel a certain way. When I was young, I got nervous and tongue tied. They seemed like a magically fascinating, magnetically attractive, other species. Boys seemed unremarkable, like simply the same species. As I got older, I felt soul-wrenching emotional pull towards women, in addition to raging physical desire. Holding a woman in my arms can feel like "being whole." I never have, and never could, feel anything remotely like that towards a male.

But some years ago I started j/o to porn with a friend. At first we just got naked, watched (straight) porn, and masturbated. But eventually we started sharing BJs. It was easy to immediately enjoy the feeling of slowly kissing and licking a hard cock. It took a bit longer to get accustomed to cum, but eventually I loved that too. I can definitely get turned on by feeling cum shooting into my mouth, or all over my face, or splashing on my body. Also, I have many times experienced frotting, with him and others. That is my favorite MM activity. It's so sexy masturbating with another guy, with a bit of massage oil and our cocks rubbing together. It's an absolutely amazing feeling, just breathtaking. It makes me hard as a rock feeling another warm, erect, oiled cock slipping and sliding against mine. And it is so delicious cumming that way, and seeing and feeling another cock throbbing and squirting all over mine and his. I've also penetrated another guy a handful of times, and had OK-to-excellent orgasms that way. I've also felt a guy cum inside me, but didn't get much sexual feeling from that. But sex with another man, no matter how great, feels like masturbation. It doesn't feel like making love, and never could for me.

I hesitate to call that "bisexual" because "bi" implies some kind of equivalence. To me, they are not remotely similar. One is an emotional, spiritual attraction, with many dimensions. The other is like an enjoyable sex toy, with one dimension. I love it and sometimes crave it, but it's still one-dimensional. I don't know the proper word for this orientation, or if there even is one.

There are some who deny that this is even a thing. But it is. And I'm not sure how to respond when I try to explain my sexuality, and somebody who isn't me, and doesn't have my orientation, tells me I am incorrect. What does that even mean? I'm telling them firsthand my experience, and they're telling me my experience doesn't exist? It defies logic, I just give up.

Me too !!