Sex & Shenanigans

[MissLabelled]

If I had a dollar for everytime someone told me……..

Sorry, this isn’t about me. I think just being honest that you really enjoyed your experience and time with them, but just not sure it’s what works for you going forward, should work for any folks who are actually decent people. It’s good to know what works for you, and just telling people up front is the best thing.

Let's make it about you. I want to know how many dollars you would have!

And that was beautifully said, thank you for the reassurance.

 

[MissLabelled]

Well, and that is also fluid over time. As I have said, I am 97.5% cis, but obviously there have been a couple of times where I was happy to try another...type of wine, to use the Schitt's Creek metaphor.

Just as long as you are happy.

And you deserve to be incredibly happy.

That wine analogy was one of the best ways I've ever seen it described on television. We have a bunch of metaphors we use to try and explain this to others but that show succeeded in making that land with such a huge audience, it was beautiful!

And thank you

 

[UnquietDreams]

That wine analogy was one of the best ways I've ever seen it described on television. We have a bunch of metaphors we use to try and explain this to others but that show succeeded in making that land with such a huge audience, it was beautiful!

And thank you

And that was, as a cis man, the one that explained it the best to me as well. It cemented it as one of my favorite shows for the writing alone, much less the stellar cast.

And I used it to explain the same thing to my teenage daughter.

 

[Bry1313]

Let's make it about you. I want to know how many dollars you would have!

And that was beautifully said, thank you for the reassurance.

So definitively, $1, my Senior year HS GF is a married woman with a wife now. I’m sure there are others, and actually she came out of the closest years after we lost touch, so maybe $0

Glad my words helped in some way. You deserve joy and shouldn’t compromise on it.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Just got home from what I assume is my last day of subbing for the school year.
I have one phone call I have to be on at 6pm.
After that I'm getting hammered.

 

[BrendaBear]

Just got home from what I assume is my last day of subbing for the school year.

Yay!!!

I have one phone call I have to be on at 6pm.

I hope that is over quick.

After that I'm getting hammered.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/2VTpH7oiJb8AAAAC/sounds-like-a-good-plan-roscoe-conklin.gif

 

[MissLabelled]

After that I'm getting hammered.

Remind me, are you one who records vocas of yourself singing when you're hammered? AFAF

 

[SherlockianMan]

Got off work early for the weekend. Let the shenanigans begin!

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Remind me, are you one who records vocas of yourself singing when you're hammered? AFAF

I'm sure I've done it once or twice. But it's probably been a couple years, and I wouldn't say it's my thing.

 

[UnquietDreams]

If I had a dollar for everytime someone told me……..

I could probably buy lunch, maybe a drink for you as well. Being in the NYC theater scene in the late 80s may have skewed that

Or I may have a fetish for unattainable women...

 

[UnquietDreams]

Remind me, are you one who records vocas of yourself singing when you're hammered? AFAF

Oh no, I do that too...

 

[MissLabelled]

I'm sure I've done it once or twice. But it's probably been a couple years, and I wouldn't say it's my thing.

I'll check in again later, see if we can't convince you once the drinks have started

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I could probably buy lunch, maybe a drink for you as well. Being in the NYC theater scene in the late 80s may have skewed that

Or I may have a fetish for unattainable women...

I find most women unattainable

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

All good, afterall I put myself in this situation. From the convos we've had, he will understand.

But I'm happy with where I landed. I thought maybe there was some bi-ness to me (remember I had said 95% gay, 5% bi) but, nope, I was clearly wrong lol

Even in the short time we’ve been friends it’s been awesome to see you blossom . It’s alway great to know oneself!

Innuendo like 50% intended!

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

I'll check in again later, see if we can't convince you once the drinks have started

You’re the best influence.

 

[Amanda330]

I'm sure I've done it once or twice. But it's probably been a couple years, and I wouldn't say it's my thing.

I vote for it being your thing! Lol

 

[Bry1313]

I vote for it being your thing! Lol

Me too!

 

[UnquietDreams]

I'm sure I've done it once or twice. But it's probably been a couple years, and I wouldn't say it's my thing.

I vote for it being your thing! Lol

Me too!

And me as well.

 

[BrendaBear]

I'm sure I've done it once or twice. But it's probably been a couple years, and I wouldn't say it's my thing.

I vote for it being your thing! Lol

Me too!

And me as well.

https://media1.tenor.com/m/N6nGvxRDKmwAAAAC/toddlers-and-tiaras-reality.gif

 

[LupineOne]

That wine analogy was one of the best ways I've ever seen it described on television. We have a bunch of metaphors we use to try and explain this to others but that show succeeded in making that land with such a huge audience, it was beautiful!

And thank you

That is the key to the whole thing: as long as you are happy. Life’s too short for anything else

 

[Whiskeyjack]

I vote for it being your thing! Lol

Spoken like someone who's never heard me sing.

 

[Amanda330]

Spoken like someone who's never heard me sing.

I'll drunk sing if you do.

 

[UnquietDreams]

Spoken like someone who's never heard me sing.

Oh, like that matters!

 

[UnquietDreams]

So it is about 80 here, clear as a bell, and beautiful. The apple orchard across the street is blooming, someone just mowed their grass, and the air is just...alive. I put my hammock together on the balcony, and I am doing some comfort reading with my favorite novel for an hour or so.

"I urge you to please notice when you are happy, and exclaim or murmur or think at some point, 'If this isn't nice, I don't know what is.'"
-Kurt Vonnegut

So, if this isn't nice, I don't know what is.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

That wine analogy was one of the best ways I've ever seen it described on television. We have a bunch of metaphors we use to try and explain this to others but that show succeeded in making that land with such a huge audience, it was beautiful!

And thank you

Yes! I loved the wine analogy because its so true. Also I totally crushed on David. And Alexis. And what's her name with the dark hair. There are some crush worthy people on that show really.

I think that was actually the final push to realizing I was full on bi/pan. I look back in my life and I've had a lot of "maybe I'm curious" kind of moments. Over the years I've flirted with dudes. I've had online experiences with dudes. A dude kissed me once and I was into it. I flirted with a drag queen at the record store I worked at. (Sold them a Cher CD lol, they were super cool), and I've always felt a little queer. I'd paint my nails and stuff like that. Even with those things in mind I never really considered I could be full on bi. I've predominantly had relationships and sexual experiences with women, so I figured thats all I was sexually. Straight but shamelessly curious. Plus a not-so-enlightened environment growing up can keep you in the closet. But self reflection and examination can be eye-opening. The people I'm attracted to ARE my sexuality. I've never had a real full-on relationship with a penis-owner but I realize now I absolutely could.