Sex & Shenanigans

For me, it’s on par with those. In my early 20s I moved really far away and knew no one. I really like live music. It was either never go to concerts, or go by myself. I figured, fuck it, I’ll just go. I’ve seen some great shows like that. At one I even ended up making out with someone and then going on a couple dates with him 😂.


This is my husband’s view. He really wanted me to get my SIL to go with me for my safety. But I guess I’m just not that concerned about it? I’ve never felt unsafe at a show.
I'm still laughing that the show you saw last night on your side of the world was the show I saw last September on my side when they were starting the tour.
 
To be honest, not the orgasm part but the memory part is a thing I think about a lot. If you remember something vividly and clearly does it really matter if your body actually did it or not? I’m not sure it does.

If something is real in your mind, that makes it real
 
If something is real in your mind, that makes it real
And so begins the the heart felt memories of things past beyond...
Someone once said, "just because it isn't real life, doesn't mean the feelings aren't real"
And that's when I knew he felt it too...
*Sigh*
 
have any of you ever had an orgasm in a dream?
A few nights after the love of my life passed away, I had a very vivid dream of us making very passionate love. Like we did when we were first together and much younger. I don't normally remember dreams, but I remembered this one in detail for years. Was it real? It certainly was to me. Now my strongest recollection was the emotional connection we always felt - which is what making love is about to me anyway.

Now... I think I'll go have a good cry. 🥹🥹🥹
 
A few nights after the love of my life passed away, I had a very vivid dream of us making very passionate love. Like we did when we were first together and much younger. I don't normally remember dreams, but I remembered this one in detail for years. Was it real? It certainly was to me. Now my strongest recollection was the emotional connection we always felt - which is what making love is about to me anyway.

Now... I think I'll go have a good cry. 🥹🥹🥹
Big hugs Brendabear
 
few nights after the love of my life passed away, I had a very vivid dream of us making very passionate love. Like we did when we were first together and much younger. I don't normally remember dreams, but I remembered this one in detail for years. Was it real? It certainly was to me. Now my strongest recollection was the emotional connection we always felt - which is what making love is about to me anyway.

Now... I think I'll go have a good cry. 🥹🥹🥹

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This is not an accurate statement imo... Maybe it makes it real to you is more accurate.
Okay.... for any one of us.... does it actually matter if something is real to someone else? So what if my neighbor doesn't believe it if it was real to me, then that's enough. After all - everything we see, feel, do, know, believe... it all just our own experience. I suggest "real to you" is just... real.
 
Okay.... for any one of us.... does it actually matter if something is real to someone else? So what if my neighbor doesn't believe it if it was real to me, then that's enough. After all - everything we see, feel, do, know, believe... it all just our own experience. I suggest "real to you" is just... real.
Just because something is real to you and part of your personal experience doesn't make it real to others. And our personal experience can profoundly affect the people around us and in our lives. I care about that. So, yes. To me it matters.
 
Okay.... for any one of us.... does it actually matter if something is real to someone else? So what if my neighbor doesn't believe it if it was real to me, then that's enough. After all - everything we see, feel, do, know, believe... it all just our own experience. I suggest "real to you" is just... real.
How do I know if any of you are real?
 
To be honest, not the orgasm part but the memory part is a thing I think about a lot. If you remember something vividly and clearly does it really matter if your body actually did it or not? I’m not sure it does.
It cuts down on laundry if it is just a memory.

It also ends, in my opinion, the whole ‘if you die in your dream, you die in real life’ Nightmare on a Elm Street argument. 👍
 
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