Wife found my stash

[Ciceri]

A cooling off period for it to all sink in? Or a it's over, good-bye first move?

She's been there for two months. No idea what will happen

 

[TrailerHitch]

She's been there for two months. No idea what will happen

Have you communicated at all?

 

[TrailerHitch]

Let me understand this. She is freaked out over Gay porn? Have you been with a man or just porn and fantasize?

 

[Ciceri]

Let me understand this. She is freaked out over Gay porn? Have you been with a man or just porn and fantasize?

A little of both. She still doesn’t know about my experiences before we met. But she knows about my arousals now

 

[dodgeboy2]

Mine found mine so to speak, she came home one day when she was supposed to be at work all day and found my computer on and open to a gay porn site, my wife never knew about my younger days when I had been with quite a few guys. I had not been with a guy for a while before I married her and was/am faithful but several years ago I started visiting sites watching a bit of Hetro porn and after a while began viewing some tame bi porn and then began binging gay porn, now that I am retired and she still working I watched it often daily. It was awkward for a while when she confronted me about it and she finally told me I could watch what I wanted when she is gone but if I ever acted on it things would not be ok, so I continue to watch and be a good boy, the benefit is great for both of us as I get to live out in fantasy which makes me so horny and she gets the benefit of that which she did confess to me that sex hasn't been this good since those 1st years of our marriage.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

Mine found mine so to speak, she came home one day when she was supposed to be at work all day and found my computer on and open to a gay porn site, my wife never knew about my younger days when I had been with quite a few guys. I had not been with a guy for a while before I married her and was/am faithful but several years ago I started visiting sites watching a bit of Hetro porn and after a while began viewing some tame bi porn and then began binging gay porn, now that I am retired and she still working I watched it often daily. It was awkward for a while when she confronted me about it and she finally told me I could watch what I wanted when she is gone but if I ever acted on it things would not be ok, so I continue to watch and be a good boy, the benefit is great for both of us as I get to live out in fantasy which makes me so horny and she gets the benefit of that which she did confess to me that sex hasn't been this good since those 1st years of our marriage.

We should talk. Perhaps what you need is a phone playmate. It can be super hot! PM me if interested.

 

[dodgeboy2]

We should talk. Perhaps what you need is a phone playmate. It can be super hot! PM me if interested.

Thanks, don't know if that is something I would do, somehow on a computer screen anonymously it to me seems ok but add a phone to the mix with a voice on the other end and it might begin to actually start to seem real which I worry might put the fantasy so close to the breaking point I might just want to make the fantasy a reality.

 

[Smoothshavendad]

You do want to make it real. Call me. I’m here, naked and hard.

 

[TrailerHitch]

A little of both. She still doesn’t know about my experiences before we met. But she knows about my arousals now

So she is upset about what is now essentially a fantasy life while being totally unaware of your previous sexual experiences. Well my only advice is don't say a word about your sex life previous to meeting her unless you want your marriage 100% to be over. Although at this point I'm not sure your marriage is salvageable if she is not communicating with you at all. I could suggest counseling but both parties have to have a stake in making it work for counseling to be successful.

My wife and I each have our own computers and we each have them passworded. It's not that we don't trust each other but what we do, posting here on lit, talking to potential playmates and whatever else is personal and private. Unlike you though my wife knows and supports my being Bi-sexual.