More young men fucking older women would solve so many problems

[Brroklynguido]

I love taking my time and finding that erotic part that makes her body shiver as I lightly brush my tongue over it.
The best please in life

 

[Dad4u1970]

My best experiences have been with older men.

Caroline I’m glad you had a good experience I’m sure he did too.

 

[writerzblok92]

I had a chance to be with an older woman once a long time ago but I was too stupid to follow up on it.

 

[Rockwell12]

One of my wife's fantasies is to seduce a much younger man, perhaps sexually inexperienced. One of the scenarios she told me about is the fantasy of going to a college reunion and going out with friends to one of the bars they used to frequent. The friends want to move on to another location but she's talking with people and stays at the bar. A young college athlete start talking with her and he takes her home and fucks her and she spends the night at his place. I found it to be a very hot fantasy. She's just into younger guys. I'd welcome her pursuing this if the opportunity ever arose.

 

[R34D]

One of my wife's fantasies is to seduce a much younger man, perhaps sexually inexperienced. One of the scenarios she told me about is the fantasy of going to a college reunion and going out with friends to one of the bars they used to frequent. The friends want to move on to another location but she's talking with people and stays at the bar. A young college athlete start talking with her and he takes her home and fucks her and she spends the night at his place. I found it to be a very hot fantasy. She's just into younger guys. I'd welcome her pursuing this if the opportunity ever arose.

I would love for my wife to be with a much younger guy. I would need to persuade her a bit I think. I love the idea of her going out to a college bar or maybe finding a guy on spring break.

 

[Conquen69]

Definitely one of my go to fantasies

 

[Sgts19]

My wife's biggest fantasy was to have 2 younger hung studs pick her up bring her to a close by hotel and spend the afternoon fucking her. It would be the only time she'd ever see them again.

She'd never do it in real life, I don't think?

 

[LL_RS]

In my head it’s not so much age that is the issue. It’s just being able to fuck whenever you want to. If you are married and your partner has revoked access rights then it’s particularly applicable. Why live miserably when there could be alternatives available? Such a pity the whole profession is frowned upon

 

[Susannah3]

My wife has done the much younger guy thing more times than I can count. She loves it. They absolutely worship her despite her age and body imperfections.

 

[Scotchlander]

My wife has done the much younger guy thing more times than I can count. She loves it. They absolutely worship her despite her age and body imperfections.

Your wife is every younger guys dream come true that they will never forget.

I have one nice memory from my younger days when my aunts friend taught me lots. Something I have never forgot

 

[Scotchlander]

I agree a man should know how to please a woman before engaging into sex

But how will they ever learn? Fumble about in the dark with someone their own age is not good education.

Although I only had one older woman to educate me in my early days. I soon learned quick what she precisely wanted and enjoyed.

It held me in good stead when I met up with females of a similar age and I felt like a bit of an experienced stud

So I say give these younger guys a chance. Tune them into your likes and dislikes and you will end up with a win / win situation.

 

[TheVegasMark]

Cougared at 24/25 by a 44/45 y/o for fifteen months who believed there is/was no boundaries in the topic of eroticism....It was life altering...Finding a young partner after that experience turned into an impossible mission because young women didn't / don't possess the skill set of turning men on mentally for explosively erotic sex...

 

[MakeMeWetAF]

Cougared at 24/25 by a 44/45 y/o for fifteen months who believed there is/was no boundaries in the topic of eroticism....It was life altering...Finding a young partner after that experience turned into an impossible mission because young women didn't / don't possess the skill set of turning men on mentally for explosively erotic sex...

I've heard that from a fit AF 32 year old construction worker I fucked. He was a great learner and kept coming back for more. God I enjoyed his body, enthusiasm, strength and stamina

 

[eroticspank]

Here are some more thoughts on this. We all have completely different experiences and I mention that because both older women and younger women have different experience levels and as I mentioned in my earlier post I did have great experiences with older women.

The women I met were in their 40s to 60s. They were recently divorced or widowed and looking for a nice guy for sex. They were emotionally mature, had no desire for kids or a long-term relationship, and in most cases wanted to experiment in the bedroom. Several ladies liked to take control in the bedroom. This meant telling me what to do next, and in some cases trying new techniques and toys on me. I embraced their need for exploration and hunger for sex. I really enjoyed it.

My personality might have to do with the fact that I met mostly dominant women and ladies who liked to experiment. Compared to my dates with younger women, I liked the older women much better. They knew what they wanted in the bedroom and were mature about their emotions and feelings. That does not mean that all young women were immature or emotionally unstable. That was my experience from the start so I continued to seek out older women when I was dating.

I did learn a lot from my experiences. Most of what I learned was watching and paying attention to my partners. I suppose if I had dated mostly young women, I would have learned from those experiences too. When I started and was young I did get specific directions in the bedroom but it was not a long discussion, just "lower, higher, faster, or slower". Later on, when met older women that liked to take control in the bedroom I was fine with it. I also learned a lot during our after-sex discussions. We talked about all kinds of things to try, what worked and what didn't, and even feelings.

That was my experience years ago. Now in the 2020s maybe things have changed for younger and older women. This was my experience.

ES

 

[Hipshot1554]

It's an education like no other.

 

[spooz3x6]

meine Frau hat einige jüngere entjungfert. Die haben sie viele Jahre noch besucht und bis ins Alter immer wierder gefickt. Die waren ganz wild auf sie und sie hat es genossen.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Benjamin Franklin and Esther Vilar agreed with this.

 

[Easyvirtue]

At 51, I wish I could find an “older woman” to explore their growing sexual reawakening, and at 51, finding a lovely woman in her early to mid 70’s in my true desire!

 

[eroticspank]

At 51, I wish I could find an “older woman” to explore their growing sexual reawakening, and at 51, finding a lovely woman in her early to mid 70’s in my true desire!

They are out there, keep looking!
ES

 

[Easypeter]

I know my wife cheats on me with a few younger guys the nights she has girls night out . She knows how to use that pussy

 

[LisaMayTurner]

It looks like the age of thinking about people in massive assumptive generalisations is still strong in some parts of the world. Maybe thinking about potential variables is a way forward and a way out of this?

 

[Noor]

(in order to comply with forum rules [EDIT: thank you for the clarification in terms], specific ages will not be mentioned)

There are some taboos that are probably worth keeping in place - older men seducing younger women is fraught with peril, which means that even when it goes right, it probably shouldn't be encouraged. Increasingly, however, I find myself wondering if there is in fact much of a downside to the opposite - older women seducing younger men.

The number one difficulty young heterosexual couples face is that the man has absolutely no idea how to please the woman - how to lick and kiss and fuck. This provides a needless burden on the young woman to educate the young man when she may not even be experienced enough to know what she likes herself, and can delay her achieving sexual satisfaction for years if not decades. An older woman being the man's first partner, when he is as young as morally acceptable, would do wonders - she could teach him the ropes, giving him the stamina, sensitivity, and confidence needed to go back and make love to younger women as they deserve to be. It's practical feminism in action!

Why would older women have any more interest in training inexperience younger men than younger women do?
Why would they waste their time when there are perfect good, already trained men of their age?

This sounds like an incel wet dream.

In old westerns, young bucks went to prostitutes, which at least provide income for the women.

 

[policywank]

(in order to comply with forum rules [EDIT: thank you for the clarification in terms], specific ages will not be mentioned)

There are some taboos that are probably worth keeping in place - older men seducing younger women is fraught with peril, which means that even when it goes right, it probably shouldn't be encouraged. Increasingly, however, I find myself wondering if there is in fact much of a downside to the opposite - older women seducing younger men.

The number one difficulty young heterosexual couples face is that the man has absolutely no idea how to please the woman - how to lick and kiss and fuck. This provides a needless burden on the young woman to educate the young man when she may not even be experienced enough to know what she likes herself, and can delay her achieving sexual satisfaction for years if not decades. An older woman being the man's first partner, when he is as young as morally acceptable, would do wonders - she could teach him the ropes, giving him the stamina, sensitivity, and confidence needed to go back and make love to younger women as they deserve to be. It's practical feminism in action!

I think that the underlying premise here misses the mark. This isn't all about the man's performance, skill and training. And to the extent that it is, young men are often their own biggest impediment.

Let's step back and look at the reality of things. A woman's orgasm is much more complex and elusive than the male orgasm, but finding that pleasure is as much about her own exploration of her sexuality as it is about the man's performance. Meanwhile young men expect women to have limited sexual experience (not as limited as it used to be but the double standard is alive and well), are often intimidated by a sexual adventurous woman who wants to explore herself and are often too insecure to take direction in the bedroom.

If young men can see that whole picture with an open mind then they can learn their way along side young women. And young women would feel more free to explore their own sexuality, which is just as important (if not more so) than the man's performance.

The notion of recruiting older women to train young men how to be better lovers seems like it rewards the young men with additional sexual opportunity while maintaining the traditional restrictions on young women and denying them full latitude to explore their sexuality. Even if he becomes a sexual virtuoso that is only half the equation from a female point of view. She needs to feel unrestricted in her own exploration. Whether that means other men, experimentation or a man who can take direction or all of the above depends upon the woman.

 

[policywank]

How about this as a thought experiment to fuck with your head?

Older married women train the young men on the condition that the young men accept that their wife will do likewise when she is more mature. And those older women continue to have sex with those younger men for some period of time after they are trained to make it worth her while, especially if her husband's sexual virility has started to wane (which it usually does). Then it wouldn't be all about finding ways for men to hang on to their antiquated notions of female sexuality. Any takers, lol?

 

[Dreamer110]

For my own personal reasons I'd want her to take a younger or two. But she seems drawn to guys within ten or so of her age.