More young men fucking older women would solve so many problems

[KatieDoes]

There's no reason the term young man has to apply to only 18-20 year old "pups". By the time I was 25 I was pretty damn skilled in bed and was still a young man. That's the sort of guy I'd think would be attractive to an older woman. Out of school, working, has a trade and is starting to make his way in the world. He's had a few relationships and is confident and capable. But is still a young man.

(in order to comply with forum rules [EDIT: thank you for the clarification in terms], specific ages will not be mentioned)

There are some taboos that are probably worth keeping in place - older men seducing younger women is fraught with peril, which means that even when it goes right, it probably shouldn't be encouraged. Increasingly, however, I find myself wondering if there is in fact much of a downside to the opposite - older women seducing younger men.

The number one difficulty young heterosexual couples face is that the man has absolutely no idea how to please the woman - how to lick and kiss and fuck. This provides a needless burden on the young woman to educate the young man when she may not even be experienced enough to know what she likes herself, and can delay her achieving sexual satisfaction for years if not decades. An older woman being the man's first partner, when he is as young as morally acceptable, would do wonders - she could teach him the ropes, giving him the stamina, sensitivity, and confidence needed to go back and make love to younger women as they deserve to be. It's practical feminism in action!

This thread is about his expectation that older women provide our bodies for inexperienced young men to practice on. So I would like to know what he thinks the benefit is for the older woman in this scenario.

I understand the benefit to having sex with a younger man who has enough experience to be competent in bed.

 

[policywank]

This thread is about his expectation that older women provide our bodies for inexperienced young men to practice on. So I would like to know what he thinks the benefit is for the older woman in this scenario.

I understand the benefit to having sex with a younger man who has enough experience to be competent in bed.

To the extent that a younger man is competent in bed or is otherwise appealing then the age factor is pretty much eliminated isn't it? We are with him because we want him, not because he is younger. Meanwhile if a younger guy is having trouble appealing to women of their own age, why should I feel differently about him as an older woman.

Sure there might be scenarios where I have a broader perspective than a young woman and might see something in a man that they don't. And if so I might choose to go the extra mile to teach him, but that is for my benefit as well. I am not looking to do charity work.

I support removing any ageist barriers to romance. But to me that means removing age from the equation of people who are otherwise attracted to one another. I have no desire to take on the role of sexual mentor to unappealing men simply because they are younger.

 

[Unblemished]

Nobody should feel obliged to be providing anything to anyone.

Now, people shouldn’t be judged for being inexperienced, and if a person slags off their inexperienced partner for said lack of knowledge while refusing to actually show them anything then yeah, they’re being an ass and their partner deserves better. But nobody’s required to grab people off the street and ‘teach’ them. It can be fun, and you shouldn’t sneer at people who’ve yet to figure out what they’re doing…but they can’t make it your problem, either.

Everyone has to learn somewhere, but it’s generally done with someone who likes you for other reasons already.

(Now, communication and problem solving skills are IMO the most important factors in sex. They’re unfortunately not sexy a lot of the time, is all. Pretty much anyone can have a healthy sexual relationship (though not with every person), not through having porno sex-powers or some nebulous quality of ‘trying hard’, but through the ability to constructively deal with obstacles and coordinate with their partner. You could lose your dick in a car accident and still please a partner if you have, say, good taste in sex toys. The problem there isn’t some inherent inability, it’s what happens if your partner feels uncomfortable dating someone with a lump of scar tissue between their legs…)

 

[BackwoodsMama]

Anyone feel like older men fucking younger women might also accomplish the same goal?

 

[pagrampa]

Anyone feel like older men fucking younger women might also accomplish the same goal?

I agree wholeheartedly!

 

[CuriousinPennsylvania]

I'm a firm believer that - more older men fucking older women would solve many more problems too.

 

[cuck72]

I have always had fantasies about guys I've known over the years fucking my wife. As I've gotten older and older, I love getting off thinking of younger men fucking my wife. We are 69-71 now so I love to think of guys 20, 30, 40 years younger than us cuckolding me.

 

[vanquished005]

cuck72, know the feeling well. i am 68 and my catholic wife is 60.

 

[LongWood619]

I love older women, at the age of 19, I had some great fun with a 37 year old woman (in front of her husband). The oldest I’ve been with was 48 years old, and I would love to go even older

 

[Titidemonta]

Pour avoir fait pas mal de partouzes et de gang bang avec de jeunes hommes le très gros avantage est qu'ils rechargent vite. Maintenant que j'ai le statut de MILF j'adore me faire baiser par trois ou quatre potes entre 18 et 22 ans, et même si ils manquent d'expérience ils me font jouir et rajeunir

 

[conoflex]

I was seduced by my mother's friend when I was 18 , she taught me a lot ,she was 37 at the time , I became her toy , she was heavily into getting rimmed and would always demand this from me , I never refused lol.
She would show me around her body , where her erogenous zones were , how to touch , lick,suck and rub her pussy and clit to get her off ,an amazing time in my life and I still love to pleasure an older gal to this day

 

[maturegentlman]

I was doing maintenance work at a house. The married housewife was about 45, I was 25. She took a shine to me and stopped by my house every Friday night for sex, after grocery shopping. Great body!! My buddies knew I didn’t go out on Fridays. They didn’t know why!!

 

[Luv2bnaked4u]

Need to teach them that it’s not a race. Until the finish line is in sight. Then don’t hold back!

 

[Hipshot1554]

As a young man I was lucky enough to be instructed by an older woman, and she will always be remembered!

 

[desire30]

(in order to comply with forum rules [EDIT: thank you for the clarification in terms], specific ages will not be mentioned)

There are some taboos that are probably worth keeping in place - older men seducing younger women is fraught with peril, which means that even when it goes right, it probably shouldn't be encouraged. Increasingly, however, I find myself wondering if there is in fact much of a downside to the opposite - older women seducing younger men.

The number one difficulty young heterosexual couples face is that the man has absolutely no idea how to please the woman - how to lick and kiss and fuck. This provides a needless burden on the young woman to educate the young man when she may not even be experienced enough to know what she likes herself, and can delay her achieving sexual satisfaction for years if not decades. An older woman being the man's first partner, when he is as young as morally acceptable, would do wonders - she could teach him the ropes, giving him the stamina, sensitivity, and confidence needed to go back and make love to younger women as they deserve to be. It's practical feminism in action!

you are a 1000% correct I had the pleasure of helping a young man understand his relationship and the difference between a groping attach and a skilled touch .

 

[UtilityCurve]

Need to teach them that it’s not a race. Until the finish line is in sight. Then don’t hold back!

Sprint to the finish, huh? I like the way you think!

 

[eroticbum]

I've always had a thing for older women. And not just by a few years when I was much younger. They were 3 times my age - best time ever.
I'm still looking for an older than me fun time - I love to make sure she's well satisfied first.

 

[DennisB]

I've always had a thing for older women. And not just by a few years when I was much younger. They were 3 times my age - best time ever.
I'm still looking for an older than me fun time - I love to make sure she's well satisfied first.

Three times my age and she would be dead, lol!

 

[eroticspank]

This is a great discussion and of course, everyone has had different experiences.

I was with an older woman when I was in my late 20s and she was about 30 years older. I was not good in bed but I was not terrible either. She taught me many things including how to give cunnilingus, extended foreplay, and lasting intercourse. I think the key point is that she enjoyed being in control and instructing me. She was fresh off a divorce coming from a sexless marriage.

I don't know this for a fact, but I feel like she searched the singles bar and picked me out because I was in good shape, young, and someone she could take in and train. What did she get out of it? A lot. She enjoyed my body, got the orgasms and kinky play she wanted, and had no objections from me. Plus she did a great job at guiding me in a positive respectful way.

I know it is not for everyone, but some women enjoy taking control and training their partners to do the things they enjoy. It is important to pick the right partner, someone who will listen, learn, and not be hurt by corrections or sexual comments. Some guys are okay with tips, comments, or corrections at any time of their life. However, some guys--especially when they are older--do not like any corrections or tips in the bedroom and will be out the door asap.
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[Matt3427]

While in college I had an experience that was wonderful. While in second year I was doing work experience and having sex with a 54yo woman who worked there. She was widowed and her son was 2 years older than me in the same college.

 

[spooz3x6]

When my wife was in her mid-30's, she was the "older woman' for several men in their early 20's. She only had sex one time with each one, and she said they had a lot to learn about pleasing a woman. She enjoyed being desired by younger men, and the sex was okay after she guided them a bit.

meine Frau hatte viele Jahre lang einen jungen Liebhaber. sie begann mit 40, er war 21. Sie war dann schon 55 und hat er sie immer noch gefickt. sie hat es sehr geliebt.

 

[Caroline_BR]

Anyone feel like older men fucking younger women might also accomplish the same goal?

My best experiences have been with older men.

 

[Dreamer110]

I'm all for my wife training young men how to properly treat a woman. The more the merrier actually.

 

[staylate]

My best experiences have been with older men.

Well, you'll have lots of offers from them here!

 

[staylate]

I'm all for my wife training young men how to properly treat a woman. The more the merrier actually.

Oh, to be a young man again...unless 47 is still young. I mean, I feel better now than I did when I was in my 30s!