Sex & Shenanigans

[Nicefella]

“ For science!

Uncut, grower. “

with a biographical descriptive to start

 

[RaineDrops]

Hello everyone and happy Monday!

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[BrendaBear]

I’m with you, known some annoying hippies but the ratio of kind hippy to annoying hippy is way better than the ratio of kind white collar employee to absolute asshole white collar employee by quite a wide margin.

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[MischiefMakerAlways]

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Lived on Colorado for awhile, experienced the full spectrum of hippies and am better for it. I've become a slightly "crunchier" or granola hippie now.

 

[BrendaBear]

Lived on Colorado for awhile, experienced the full spectrum of hippies and am better for it. I've become a slightly "crunchier" or granola hippie now.

Years ago, I worked in Salem, Oregon and a guy there referred to "granolas" which I thought was one of the funniest interpretations I had ever heard. Still makes me laugh... but I wouldn't eat granola even if you paid me.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

Years ago, I worked in Salem, Oregon and a guy there referred to "granolas" which I thought was one of the funniest interpretations I had ever heard. Still makes me laugh... but I wouldn't eat granola even if you paid me.

Love granola, but I'll also eat raw oats so...

 

[BrendaBear]

Love granola, but I'll also eat raw oats so...

For what it's worth, I don't like most foods. I truly think there has only been one discussion about food here that I have seen, that was of something I would eat. It isn't easy being the one who doesn't eat anything (almost anything)... I don't recommend it at all.

 

[UnquietDreams]

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I was at a baseball game for the eclipse in 2018. I have a tee-shirt that says "Total Eclipse of The Park "

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

For what it's worth, I don't like most foods. I truly think there has only been one discussion about food here that I have seen, that was of something I would eat. It isn't easy being the one who doesn't eat anything (almost anything)... I don't recommend it at all.

It's probably a great weight loss plan. Unfortunately, I enjoy most things I eat.

 

[BrendaBear]

It's probably a great weight loss plan. Unfortunately, I enjoy most things I eat.

That is true - I've never had weight problems. Just thin and lonely.

But! I have Lit friends so life is good!!!

 

[UnquietDreams]

Great. Now after reading that, I can smell the inside of "Music Millennium" in Portland as though I'd been in there yesterday instead of 30 years ago.

For me, it was that crappy cherry incense Chandra would always burn to fight the patchouli...

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

That is true - I've never had weight problems. Just thin and lonely.

But! I have Lit friends so live is good!!!

Then you can't be that lonely

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

ouch

 

[lavendersilk]

I'm currently thinking about Billy Corgan and Robert Smith making out thanks to this article.

 

[vagrantx]

For what it's worth, I don't like most foods. I truly think there has only been one discussion about food here that I have seen, that was of something I would eat. It isn't easy being the one who doesn't eat anything (almost anything)... I don't recommend it at all.

As someone who eats almost anything, with an SO that eats barely anything, I find it super interesting (and a little bit sad that she doesn't enjoy the things I do). Can I ask, are you a flavor person or a consistency person? My SO won't eat anything that feels wrong. Nothing too mushy, nothing too crunchy. Steak works. Fried tofu works. Boiled potatoes work, but mashed ones do not. Pasta, if al dente, is alright, but lasagna just gets flung out the window.

 

[Deleted member 6592667]

I'm currently thinking about Billy Corgan and Robert Smith making out thanks to this article.

If I got the offer to make out with Robert Smith I feel like I might, at least for just a minute. Because a) what a story b) that's some serious cred to put under your belt c) I wouldn't really have a reason not to.

 

[BrendaBear]

As someone who eats almost anything, with an SO that eats barely anything, I find it super interesting (and a little bit sad that she doesn't enjoy the things I do). Can I ask, are you a flavor person or a consistency person? My SO won't eat anything that feels wrong. Nothing too mushy, nothing too crunchy. Steak works. Fried tofu works. Boiled potatoes work, but mashed ones do not. Pasta, if al dente, is alright, but lasagna just gets flung out the window.

The consistency is definitely important, but so is the flavor and the smell. Any of those three being wrong is enough for me to be kind of grossed out.

Oh yeah - I hate having people tell me "try it - you'll like it!!". Because in my over half century of life, I have never tried something and "liked it".

And it is astounding how often women will make it into an ego thing about them - "oh, she'll like this because everyone likes my blah blah blah".

So - since it is considered rude not to try stuff, or finish what is on my plate (good way to teach people to over-eat), I just avoid it all.

Edit: I just realized it says "I have never tried something and liked it"... that isn't what I meant. I have never tried something someone was shoving in my face saying "try it!!" and liked it. I have tried stuff because I was curious and wanted to try it, and liked it. I just don't react well to being bossed around.

 

[dawn_of_night]

Happy eclipse fuckers... It's been a morning
So this is all you get

 

[BrendaBear]

As someone who eats almost anything, with an SO that eats barely anything, I find it super interesting (and a little bit sad that she doesn't enjoy the things I do). Can I ask, are you a flavor person or a consistency person? My SO won't eat anything that feels wrong. Nothing too mushy, nothing too crunchy. Steak works. Fried tofu works. Boiled potatoes work, but mashed ones do not. Pasta, if al dente, is alright, but lasagna just gets flung out the window.

I used to work for a guy who literally would eat anything. And after working for him for years, and him giving me shit for not eating "anything", I found out his wife (who I had known for years) actually was just like me and didn't eat much. He just took his aggravation about it out on me. Thanks boss.

 

[dawn_of_night]

You are a true cockoisseur

Aah, dreams of career day coming true

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

finish what is on my plate (good way to teach people to over-eat)

I grew up poor, now somewhere in the middle, and I still think like this, and I try so hard not to pass it on to my kids. I just tell them they can have as many small portions as they like, so as not to waste, but stop when you're full (or sooner). Saturday night, out to eat with my folks, and my mother just had to eat every bit of the appetizer so it didn't go to waste.

 

[BrendaBear]

I grew up poor, now somewhere in the middle, and I still think like this, and I try so hard not to pass it on to my kids. I just tell them they can have as many small portions as they like, so as not to waste, but stop when you're full (or sooner). Saturday night, out to eat with my folks, and my mother just had to eat every bit of the appetizer so it didn't go to waste.

I totally get it. Just, after a lifetime of watching other people who enjoy food eat... it is very obvious to me, they don't stop eating when their body says they are full (like I do). They stop eating when there isn't food in front of them.

As someone with no dog in the fight, it just seems to me to be how to disrespect what your body is telling you - or how to teach your kids to disrespect what their body tells them. Just my little observation, I'm not saying I am right.

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I totally get it. Just, after a lifetime of watching other people who enjoy food eat... it is very obvious to me, they don't stop eating when their body says they are full (like I do). They stop eating when there isn't food in front of them.

As someone with no dog in the fight, it just seems to me to be how to disrespect what your body is telling you - or how to teach your kids to disrespect what their body tells them. Just my little observation, I'm not saying I am right.

I 100% agree with what you just said.

 

[morelikeasong]

As someone with no dog in the fight, it just seems to me to be how to disrespect what your body is telling you

I don’t disagree that teaching that you MUST clear a plate is not the healthiest.
But I do think there’s a place for eating past full sometimes because the food is so fucking good.

My body tells me I’m done after one (sometimes two) orgasms. But that doesn’t mean that it’s bad to push it for another one or two sometimes

 

[MischiefMakerAlways]

I don’t disagree that teaching that you MUST clear a plate is not the healthiest.
But I do think there’s a place for eating past full sometimes because the food is so fucking good.

My body tells me I’m done after one (sometimes two) orgasms. But that doesn’t mean that it’s bad to push it for another one or two sometimes

That's a whole different appetite discussion!
I e eaten food so good I had a mouthgasm and just couldn't stop. To me, that should be the exception and not the rule - eating more than you, that is.