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We tried it one time in the bedroom here, she laughed after she said it, which made me laugh, and it just didn't work.

That being said, I could see it working with a different person and dynamic, just didn't work for me with her.
For me it was worse. I have two people call me "daddy" in the moment, as it were. On both occasions, I lost concentration. In a bad way. It was ... a deflating experience.

Def not my kink.
 
It wasn't necessarily a role playing thing for us, it was just a heat of the moment submissive kinda thing. But ya.

And I'm all in for the spanking. Never have done the costume thing though. I'm 100% not opposed at all though. I have a badge and handcuffs, so... 😁😆
I’m not the submissive sort at all, so yeah, that’s another reason the Daddy thing is NMK 😂

Costumes can kind of be like an extension of lingerie in my opinion.
 
For me it was worse. I have two people call me "daddy" in the moment, as it were. On both occasions, I lost concentration. In a bad way. It was ... a deflating experience.

Def not my kink.

Ya, I don't think it would bother me that much as long as it wasn't in a role-playing sense. I'm not into that kind of role-playing, but if it was in the context of being submissive I don't think it'd make me break concentration.
 
I’m not the submissive sort at all, so yeah, that’s another reason the Daddy thing is NMK 😂

Costumes can kind of be like an extension of lingerie in my opinion.
Fair point. And I guess I was wrong, there was a masquerade mask brought in not long ago, so I guess that is kinda costume-ish.

And perish the thought of you ever being submissive. 😉😁
 
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Ya, I don't think it would bother me that much as long as it wasn't in a role-playing sense. I'm not into that kind of role-playing, but if it was in the context of being submissive I don't think it'd make me break concentration.
It wasn't really in a role playing context. It just happened. Then, it didn't happen. Heh.
 
I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to spring ANY kink on anyone in the moment. But I get it can be…daunting to discuss it without the heat of passion. Anyway, daddy kink ain’t my thing either, I’m a bit chaotic to be too much into any sort of power dynamic play on my own, but I sorta get the why it might be appealing. And with the right person, could certainly be convinced to explore it.
 
Fair point. And I guess I was wrong, there was a masquerade mask brought in not long ago, so I guess that is kinda costume-ish.

And perish the thiugh of you ever being submissive. 😉😁
I’m not against the idea of being submissive…just my brain can’t go along with it for long before I think, “fuck this shit. I’m going to do what I want.” 😂
 
Anyway, daddy kink ain’t my thing either, I’m a bit chaotic to be too much into any sort of power dynamic play on my own, but I sorta get the why it might be appealing. And with the right person, could certainly be convinced to explore it.

I don't mind the power dynamic stuff. Our difficulty tends to be she doesn't do well with the verbal stuff with it. Doesn't know what to say, has a hard time taking me seriously when I say something, etc.. So we have to lean more into the physical aspect of it, which is fine, but I think it'd be more fun with more verbal stuff.
 
I don’t think it’s ever a good idea to spring ANY kink on anyone in the moment. But I get it can be…daunting to discuss it without the hear of passion. Anyway, daddy kink ain’t my thing either, I’m a bit chaotic to be too much into any sort of power dynamic play on my own, but I sorta get the why it might be appealing. And with the right person, could certainly be convinced to explore it.
I don't mind the power play dynamic. I rather enjoy that. It is that power play dynamic I apparently have an issue with. Not that it bothers me when anyone else does it. I have no problems with the jokes, or any of it. It just, for whatever reason, is my absolute anit-kink. Which I find interesting in its own way.
 
I’m not against the idea of being submissive…just my brain can’t go along with it for long before I think, “fuck this shit. I’m going to do what I want.” 😂
Haha, fair.

Bondage tends to help with that. That's what tends to get her into that mindset. And the struggle against the restraints reinforces it, or so I've been told. 😁😆
 
Chiming in on the Daddy thing…

I used to think I wasn’t into it at all. Turns out I’m sometimes into it. In the right context, with the right person.
Not as a role play thing. It’s not in an incest “father” type way. It’s a submission thing. Power dynamic. Also represents some other elements of the relationship. Idk. Works sometimes, other times not.
 
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