Sex & Shenanigans

[Bbl87]

I didn't use to squirt much. I wasn't even sure if I squirt or not. But the relationship I have now is something totally else compared to my past vanilla relationships, even the best sex that I had before. And the biggest difference is the level of trust. It goes deeper than I could imagine.

I feel like that's almost necessary if not actually necessary. For whatever reason, I don't think she's comfortable fully opening up her sexuality with me, but it's not something to push on. Right now because it's a point of contention in our relationship, I'm sure that doesn't help. She doesn't seem to "want" me the same way I "want" her, I think that'd be a jumping off point to everything else.

 

[Bbl87]

Only if I'm being fingerbanged do I squirt. And no, it isn't blue...

I'm curious, is it a huge turn on if your partner can make you squirt? For both parties? Or, is it just a huge mess and then you have to clean everything?

Speaking for myself, the act of squirting itself isn't what is the turn on for me, but rather the enjoyment and absolute comfort of my partner to get to that point.

 

[Strixaluco]

I feel like that's almost necessary if not actually necessary. For whatever reason, I don't think she's comfortable fully opening up her sexuality with me, but it's not something to push on. Right now because it's a point of contention in our relationship, I'm sure that doesn't help. She doesn't seem to "want" me the same way I "want" her, I think that'd be a jumping off point to everything else.

Sometimes the lack or level of trust is about the partner, sometimes about oneself. Sometimes just about the dynamic.

And you indeed cannot change someone not willing to change. You cannot force someone to let go - which squirting requires.

 

[morelikeasong]

I'm curious, is it a huge turn on if your partner can make you squirt? For both parties? Or, is it just a huge mess and then you have to clean everything?

I have sadly never squirted. I have no idea if I’m capable of it. I get really wet but no squirt. I’ve had chat partners who seemed pretty confident that they’d be able to get me to but idk if it’s something that everyone can do?

I think my husband would likely not like it

 

[Wand3rlust]

I have squirted, but not in like a majestic arch to the sky. More of a flooding. Mainly on my own and with clit and g-spot stimulation.

I don't have a partner so I don't know if it's a turn on or not. I like the feeling it brings me. I could care less about the by product.

I dunno. People, is it a turn on if your partner squirts?

Edited to include everyone. My bad.

 

[Deleted member 1498366]

I have sadly never squirted. I have no idea if I’m capable of it. I get really wet but no squirt. I’ve had chat partners who seemed pretty confident that they’d be able to get me to but idk if it’s something that everyone can do?

I think my husband would likely not like it

I don’t know if everyone can either and I also have only made myself squirt… None of the women I’ve been with have but also they never had before either.

 

[lavendersilk]

I have sadly never squirted. I have no idea if I’m capable of it. I get really wet but no squirt. I’ve had chat partners who seemed pretty confident that they’d be able to get me to but idk if it’s something that everyone can do?

I think my husband would likely not like it

I personally am not a fan. Especially when the guy leaves and I'm left to clean up the mess. Least he can do is offer to help make the bed, asshat.

 

[jason28053]

I have squirted, but not in like a majestic arch to the sky. More of a flooding. Mainly on my own and with clit and g-spot stimulation.

I don't have a partner so I don't know if it's a turn on or not. I like the feeling it brings me. I could care less about the by product.

I dunno. Men, is it a turn on if your partner squirts?

It would be a turn on

 

[Friendlyneighboorhoodperv]

I have sadly never squirted. I have no idea if I’m capable of it. I get really wet but no squirt. I’ve had chat partners who seemed pretty confident that they’d be able to get me to but idk if it’s something that everyone can do?

I think my husband would likely not like it

Can we see if your husband would like it or not? evidence based testing

 

[lavendersilk]

It would be a turn on

And you would help clean afterwards? I can tell you are a gentleman.

 

[SalaciousMonkey22]

My particular experience is that the more expectations I put on the act the less likely it is to be pleasurable. So I don’t worry about the outcome, focus on the process and trust that will work out well for everyone.

 

[morelikeasong]

Can we see if your husband would like it or not? evidence based testing

Can we see if I can just get laid at all? I think that’s the first step

 

[Friendlyneighboorhoodperv]

I have squirted, but not in like a majestic arch to the sky. More of a flooding. Mainly on my own and with clit and g-spot stimulation.

I don't have a partner so I don't know if it's a turn on or not. I like the feeling it brings me. I could care less about the by product.

I dunno. Men, is it a turn on if your partner squirts?

It would probably get old cleaning sheets, but towels are easy.

I swear my wife did once, but she says she just feels like she needs to pee when I try…and she isn’t comfortable.

 

[BrendaBear]

I personally am not a fan. Especially when the guy leaves and I'm left to clean up the mess. Least he can do is offer to help make the bed, asshat.

Can somebody make a meme of that? We need it…

“make the bed, ass-hat”

 

[Friendlyneighboorhoodperv]

Can we see if I can just get laid at all? I think that’s the first step

I shamefully didn’t read the full question. So, I was assuming you were speaking of the men trying and your husband not liking it.

I do understand your pain. It seems like my peak years will be gone before I can use them.

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

It would be a turn on

Welcome back!

 

[Friendlyneighboorhoodperv]

Welcome back!

Am I the only one clicking on emojis?

 

[jason28053]

And you would help clean afterwards? I can tell you are a gentleman.

Of course!

 

[jason28053]

Welcome back!

Thanks, Covid sucks

 

[lavendersilk]

Am I the only one clicking on emojis?

Thanks for reminding me...

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

It would probably get old cleaning sheets, but towels are easy.

I swear my wife did once, but she says she just feels like she needs to pee when I try…and she isn’t comfortable.

From what I’ve read, that seems to be a major mental block most women have when trying to squirt.

 

[Friendlyneighboorhoodperv]

From what I’ve read, that seems to be a major mental block most women have when trying to squirt.

Yeah, I tried to tell her to let go…but yeah

 

[Kitty_so_frisky]

Am I the only one clicking on emojis?

Always click every emoji! Except @BrendaD ’s, who abuses the fuck out of them

Thanks, Covid sucks

Ohnooooes! Hope you’re all better now?

 

[BrendaBear]

Always click every emoji! Except @BrendaD ’s, who abuses the fuck out of them

Yeppers! That’s how I roll.

 

[lavendersilk]

Yeppers! That’s how I roll.

Your emojis are broken.