Where do you define infidelity in the digital era?

[Paddydrack]

I read an interesting letter in the UK Guardian news paper where a woman said she didn’t mind her husband looking at porn or using porn in their sexual life however he has now begun to pay for online cam girl sex were he talks to the woman using web cams etc. she feels this is a step to far for her. What about you guys and gals? Whats the difference between hustler and onlyfans?

 

[live4thebj]

My exwife had an issue with me watching cam girls but no issue with porn. I never understood it myself. As for hustler and only fans are they in real time chat? If not it is basically porn that you are paying for. But note if you google that persons account you can find a lot of their images on Google for nothing. There is this hot woman loves showing her legs on Instagram that I learned of having an onlyfans site. So I google it and found her having sex on the images section that you would normally have to pay to see.

 

[Noor]

I read an interesting letter in the UK Guardian news paper where a woman said she didn’t mind her husband looking at porn or using porn in their sexual life however he has now begun to pay for online cam girl sex were he talks to the woman using web cams etc. she feels this is a step to far for her. What about you guys and gals? Whats the difference between hustler and onlyfans?

Traditionally anything that you have to keep secret from your partner and/or falls outside of the agreement between you, can be considered infidelity. Anything you have to lie about. It can be physical and/or emotional.
Partners also have agreements about finances, so using money to pay for cam sex may also violate those.

 

[ToPleaseHim]

People will define what is and isn’t cheating differently, but if you have to hide it or choose to hide it, you know it’s infidelity.

I also understand the distinction between looking at porn and reading Hustler vs cam girls & OF. One feels completely anonymous and the other involves interaction. Interaction with a specific person easily leads to feelings unlike wanking to the hottie in the magazine (paper or digital zine).

 

[Rob_Royale]

People will define what is and isn’t cheating differently, but if you have to hide it or choose to hide it, you know it’s infidelity.

I also understand the distinction between looking at porn and reading Hustler vs cam girls & OF. One feels completely anonymous and the other involves interaction. Interaction with a specific person easily leads to feelings unlike wanking to the hottie in the magazine (paper or digital zine).

Yep. This.

 

[DoctorSmith8]

Traditionally anything that you have to keep secret from your partner and/or falls outside of the agreement between you, can be considered infidelity. Anything you have to lie about. It can be physical and/or emotional.
Partners also have agreements about finances, so using money to pay for cam sex may also violate those.

How about the wife that is no longer interested in sex? I read so many testimonies on here about that.

 

[Noor]

How about the wife that is no longer interested in sex? I read so many testimonies on here about that.

People need to talk to their wives and renegotiate their agreements/marriage vows.