Masculine men, this is your thread.

I was in the military for 20 years. We were all in shape and hyped up doing cool shit . We would spend the evening winding down and drinking and partying. The aura of confidence and energy was very attractive. I am attracted to men like me. I am a bit rough around the edges, blunt and some would say a bit mean. My dream is to have some friends that get pissed off during frisbee golf. Threaten to hurt each other and maybe fool around a bit watching the NFL. Been looking for ways to find it or build it
 
I'm hesitant to define "masculine" as well, so I tend to go with the famous Potter Stewart line, "I know it when I see it."
I'm with you (always loved that Potter Stewart quote). Yes, I want my men to be masculine. That's not a criticism of sissies, trans, etc., etc. Just a simple statement of my own desire, with plenty of room for everybody to enjoy themselves in their own way.
 
Really good point. I don't want to change my life, and I still love my wife. Mostly sexless marriage for many reasons, mainly her health issues. But I would still be bisexual if we were having lots of sex, just less interested in pursuing it very often.

The married guys I play with, all masculine, are in similar situations with varying amounts of sex with their wives. You['re right about


It's just two (or more) men looking to get their rocks off.

I do like the mutuality of regular buddies. It's not a romance, or even a bromance. But there is a history with each other, an understanding of each other's situation and desires. It's not a friends with benefits, either. We don't socialize or have any connections outside our sexual relations with each other. But there is an unspoken . . . well, "caring" may be too strong a word. But something is there that's less than a friendship and more than a nameless hookup.

For myself, the moment I see certain terms (sissy, boi, mancunt, manpussy, lingerie, etc.), it's a total turnoff for me. Give me a naked man, maybe with a jockstrap, and it's instant boner. My cock is ready to play.
Wow, Rob, well put. It's a penis thing.
 
Definitely a penis thing. I'm happily married, love sex with my wife on the rare occasions we have it and I don't find men sexually attractive. I certainly don't want to kiss and cuddle them. But show me a hard, cut cock and my mouth opens automatically.
 
Definitely a penis thing. I'm happily married, love sex with my wife on the rare occasions we have it and I don't find men sexually attractive. I certainly don't want to kiss and cuddle them. But show me a hard, cut cock and my mouth opens automatically.
If it's in a locker room or some kind of situation where I see other guys bodies, I don't get the least bit aroused or curious, but in a context of mutual, sexual interest, I'm ready to suck.
 
Absolutely. But being pleased comes a close second.
Yeah in the right context
That male post orgasm mood can be a little ... awkward
I take a while to build up and may not reciprocate at my best, with the tension gone after cumming.
There was another thread on here about sucking dick can making you cum spontaneously. Maybe that's ideal.
 
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Good morning men.. all this dry weather and working outside has turned my hands into 80 grit sandpaper, and these painful crack around my finger tips... are not making J/O any easier... :rolleyes: I'm trying to find a good lotion. have just been using Vaseline at night
my buddy and I were texting abut this... We got each other laughing; "guess its hands free B/J's until spring."
 
Good morning men.. all this dry weather and working outside has turned my hands into 80 grit sandpaper, and these painful crack around my finger tips... are not making J/O any easier... :rolleyes: I'm trying to find a good lotion. have just been using Vaseline at night
my buddy and I were texting abut this... We got each other laughing; "guess its hands free B/J's until spring."
!ol...the Vaseline lotion is good enough for your dick but upgrade to Cetaphil for your hands
 
Good morning men.. all this dry weather and working outside has turned my hands into 80 grit sandpaper, and these painful crack around my finger tips... are not making J/O any easier... :rolleyes: I'm trying to find a good lotion. have just been using Vaseline at night
my buddy and I were texting abut this... We got each other laughing; "guess its hands free B/J's until spring."

I use Duke Cannon's Bloody Knuckles hand cream in the evenings. It's fantastic for cracking/dry hands.
 
I am attracted to people I have a connection with first I have had long time friends that I found attractive as a whole. Really depends on the person for men and women. I wish people put up profiles pics other than their dicks
 
This is where I am at too. I am definitely more attracted to masculine men. However, I have to be honest, beards and facial hair weird me out.
The facial hair thing throws me off too… same with bald guys. I usually just keep my eyes closed with them.
 
The facial hair thing throws me off too… same with bald guys. I usually just keep my eyes closed with them.
I LOVE facial hair! Major turn on for me. Although I do prefer it trimmed. Making out with ZZ Top is not on my list of turnons.
 
This is where I am at too. I am definitely more attracted to masculine men. However, I have to be honest, beards and facial hair weird me out.
Facial hair? Doesn't bother me in the least. My focus is further down.
 
Good morning men hope you are all well... I am pretty stiff from splitting wood for several hours ... these day it would be nice to have a good long trip to a sauna or massage.
 
I play piano for a living, and my hands got so dry and cracked from some landscaping work at home that I couldn't bear to touch the piano keys with a few of my fingers. Curel for extreme dry hands did the trick. Within two days, my fingers were back to normal.
 
I play piano for a living, and my hands got so dry and cracked from some landscaping work at home that I couldn't bear to touch the piano keys with a few of my fingers. Curel for extreme dry hands did the trick. Within two days, my fingers were back to normal.
Ill have to try that... I was hands deep in diesel fuel yesterday. My hand dried out as soon as I was in the heated garage. I have to triple up on lotion and Vitamin E oil before my evening edge
 
On the LGBTQIA+ forum, there are many threads about "sissydom" and the desire to be a sissy. This desire is foreign to me, and, I think, to many gay and bisexual men. On one thread, the comment was made that masculine men don't post on forums like this and are mainly concerned with getting their rocks off. Suck, fuck, cum, go. Maybe that's true for many, but from my own personal experience of sex with other men, the best sex has been relational, even if it was only a brief relationship, The emotional side of sex is, in my opinion, powerful.

I would like to see posts from other masculine men who also have no desire to be a sissy, or even to be with a sissy. I'd like to test the waters to see if the comment referenced above is true, or if, as I suspect, other masculine men do actually post on forums like this.

So, masculine men, are you out there? And are you in touch with your emotions without losing your sense of masculinity? It will be interesting to see if this thread goes anywhere.
Well said. And yes we're out here.
 
was looking for a video clip of a "straight" guy who get straddled by a muscled power bottom and nuts almost immediately. Anyone have a link?
 
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