Cock Talk

[__Nathan1968]

Ahh yes I see what you mean. I don't like that either, it's stimulating in the wrong way. I get the cringe factor of that.

 

[Deleted member 6607120]

Yes!! That.. flicking it back and forth, twisting, pushing like a button.. But just.. in a way that is.. cringing, toe curling.. grating on your nerves.. annoying..

.... Did I say it, how I meant it.. yeah..

Oh yes, I totally get it. It's not intentional touch. Touch me like you mean it and want it, not like I'm a fidget spinner.

 

[Cat]

@Cat I’m willing to learn this “right attention” you speak of if only there were nipples to learn on.

I think it is much the same technique as when we give those mind-numbingly good bj's - just be present, pay attention.. listen to the breathing and all those cute small moans and groans..
Find your rhythm, have fun... Play your partner like an instrument! Slowly finding the crescendo.. and then, enjoy!

... Well, that would be my style at least.

 

[Cogan]

Or cat... You should always sleep with your cat!!

The nights our cat decides to share bed with us, I always end up in a curled up position and the cat sleeps like a starfish taking up more space than I do.

Awwww!!! On the other hand, this is truly precious!!

Tickle me, and I will strike you.. it is a reflex. I am not even sorry!!

I found out the hard way that mrs Cogan is ticklish. That discovery got me new glasses and a nose bleed.

 

[jason28053]

I think it is much the same technique as when we give those mind-numbingly good bj's - just be present, pay attention.. listen to the breathing and all those cute small moans and groans..
Find your rhythm, have fun... Play your partner like an instrument! Slowly finding the crescendo.. and then, enjoy!

... Well, that would be my style at least.

Also, I slept with my cat once in my youth, I woke up to her batting my morning wood like a piñata

 

[Cat]

The nights our cat decides to share bed with us, I always end up in a curled up position and the cat sleeps like a starfish taking up more space than I do.

That is what they do.. they know the hierarchy!

I found out the hard way that mrs Cogan is ticklish. That discovery got me new glasses and a nose bleed.

Hahahaha!! Oh gosh, undskyld!! But this made me laugh really loud!!

So I take it, you never tried the tickling thing again?

 

[Cat]

Also, I slept with my cat once in my youth, I woke up to her batting my morning wood like a piñata

Bwhahahahahaha!!!! .. sorry... Bwhahahahahaha!!!

Cats are pretty darn fun!!

 

[ShyGuy68]

Bwhahahahahaha!!!! .. sorry... Bwhahahahahaha!!!

Cats are pretty darn fun!!

I remember when I was a kid I had a cat on my pillow next to my head and a dog in the foot of the bed.

 

[Cogan]

That is what they do.. they know the hierarchy!

Oh yes they do!
It's always my fault that the winter is so damn cold and windy.

Hahahaha!! Oh gosh, undskyld!! But this made me laugh really loud!!

So I take it, you never tried the tickling thing again?

No problem. We laugh about it these days too.
Not like that, no. I surprised her from behind. Never again!

 

[morelikeasong]

But you should always sleep with your dog!

Pets in the bed is a hard no for me

 

[SassySheDevil]

@Cat I've seen enough pictures of your beautiful self to know that if you told a guy that nipple play wasn't really your thing. They'd cry. You have beautiful nipples.
But I agree. Nipple play is often hard for me. My nipples are bipolar. Sometimes they like attention. Sometimes it's the quickest way to dry me up.
I guess similar to how you've described. It depends on how they are getting attention.

I also hate my ears being licked or sucked. My husband loves it so he doesn't understand why I dislike it.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Bed sharing. My husband goes away on occasional weekend getaways and I enjoy those breaks where I have the bed to myself for two or three days. But then I start to miss him being in the bed. I talked at one point about getting a split bed so we could do the adjustable bed and he just freaked out at the idea of not being able to cuddle with me like normal.

I am a weird cuddler I like to control the cuddling. I can flop on him and be perfectly comfortable. But as soon as he flops on me I start feeling claustrophobic. But I do toss and turn a lot so I feel bad for him trying to cuddle because it doesn't really last very long.

 

[Cat]

@SassySheDevil that makes so much sense to me! Both the bed sharing (it made me giggle imagining you flipping and turning your husband, much like a teddy bear), the nipple play.. again.. yes! You are right.. the attention needs to be done the right way!

Honestly, right now, I am only capable of thinking of you cuddling your husband, that might just be the most wholesome thing I have heard in a long time!!


Edit: oh yes yes yes!! Do not suck, lick or go near my ears.. just, no!

 

[SassySheDevil]

I will say that because my husband and I have been together since I was 16. We definitely have a lot of the cutesy stuff still. Married 32 years and together 36.
We still hold hands. He has to kiss me at bedtime and before he goes to work in the morning.
But kind of like you mentioned earlier. Full on make or sessions have a time limit. I only want to swap spit for a while. He'd go all night though.

 

[Cat]

I will say that because my husband and I have been together since I was 16. We definitely have a lot of the cutesy stuff still. Married 32 years and together 36.
We still hold hands. He has to kiss me at bedtime and before he goes to work in the morning.
But kind of like you mentioned earlier. Full on make or sessions have a time limit. I only want to swap spit for a while. He'd go all night though.

Even more wholesomeness!! You two are definitely making me all sappy and warm.

Maybe it is a thing for some of us, and we are not as weird as we think! the: that was fun, please.. No more swapping spit! I want to go and do something else, or.. sleep!

Still, congratulations!! Hearing these adorable details, it just paints the picture I have of you even prettier in my mind.

You are good people, and you attract good people!

 

[SassySheDevil]

Even more wholesomeness!! You two are definitely making me all sappy and warm.

Maybe it is a thing for some of us, and we are not as weird as we think! the: that was fun, please.. No more swapping spit! I want to go and do something else, or.. sleep!

Still, congratulations!! Hearing these adorable details, it just paints the picture I have of you even prettier in my mind.

You are good people, and you attract good people!

Thank you. That is sweet of you. ⚘️

 

[hotwords229_A]

This actually looks kinda hot.

 

[SassySheDevil]

This actually looks kinda hot.

If anyone flicked me like that I'd kick.

 

[hotwords229_A]

Is it safe to say that things like ear nuzzling, light touches, ball sucking, nipple sucking, licking parts, etc. are perfectly fine in light, quick flashes, but become an issue when it is the focus of the giver?
Better to do a little of everything than a lot of anything?

 

[hotwords229_A]

If anyone flicked me like that I'd kick.

If anyone flicked me like that I’d get hard.

 

[Apisto42]

If anyone flicked me like that I’d get hard.

Yeah, but pretty soon I’d want some kisses there.

 

[MindYaBitness]

This actually looks kinda hot.

You got problems
https://media.giphy.com/media/1vZepLv7L9dTRJ7y9M/giphy.gif

 

[PersonalFavors]

I think it is much the same technique as when we give those mind-numbingly good bj's - just be present, pay attention.. listen to the breathing and all those cute small moans and groans..
Find your rhythm, have fun... Play your partner like an instrument! Slowly finding the crescendo.. and then, enjoy!

... Well, that would be my style at least.

Yes that too. When she knows more about my pleasure than I did. I like if she makes it feel a little naughty too. That would be that feeling like when she backs up to my face and lowers her pussy where she wants it licked. Kind of like telling me what to do without saying a word.
Realizing she has complete control over me and not taking advantage of it.

 

[MindYaBitness]

Pets in the bed is a hard no for me

I tried, but I love them too much! I just change my sheets 2-3 times a week. Look at this face, how could you not snuggle her!

 

[jason28053]

I tried, but I love them too much! I just change my sheets 2-3 times a week. Look at this face, how could you not snuggle her!