I know plenty of guys who have cut the tips of their fingers off, but none of them brag about cutting off the tips of their cocks.
Maybe my brain is wired weird?
My girl thinks her pussy smells revolting. Takes all the fun out of going down on her.Oh, honey, bless your optimistic heart. It took him 10 years of marriage to come out of a shower in a towel, instead of fully clothed. I think we've got another 15 years before he's comfortable letting me swallow. He wasn't even raised religious, so I have no idea where his reserve comes from. But, I do offer occasionally, and always will, just to let him know it's on the table.
I have a quirk that I think a lot of somewhat submissive women do, @Photog1rl mentioned it as well, and that is that it is a huge turn on for me that I'm doing whatever it is that turns him on. If he's not turned on by an act, or worse, disgusted, it loses its joy for me. So I can day dream about threesomes, hot wife-ing, and BJ's galore, but the moment I let the reality of it not turning him on invade my mind, *poof*, it's no longer hot.
In summary: I'm bored AF, so now I'm on Lit constantly
I’d say all men, straight or gay, but I suppose there’s always oddballs.
Giving up control *or* taking control. It really depends on on the blow job.
Likely only the sexually repressed or liars.
They’ve been told they are taboo so either avoid them or say they do to appear chaste.
Amazing - eye contact, enthusiasm, hunger/thirst. If the giver comes across as enjoying it as much as the recipient, it’s going to be awesome. If it’s a chore, it’s just going to be good
Accidental teeth. Intentional/playful teeth can be hot, however. If it’s tedious it’s going to be disappointing for both parties.
Don’t neglect the balls.
️ ️Where the semen goes is irrelevant, as long as there’s no stopping at climax, or when the giver is afraid of getting a load in the mouth the giver’s enthusiast will definitely wane as the receiver’s excitement builds. I dated a girl who said spitting just meant it had to pass over her tongue a second time, so she’d rather just swallow.
Maybe not a snowball, but kissing after swallowing? Hell yes.
Is your sister near PA and available?
Probably something of a buzzkill when the balls smack your eyes/nose
I'm just a guy. Typing at a keyboard, who loves getting blown
The #1 thing for me is the power. Someone is on their knees and sucking my dick for my pleasure. It's irreplaceable
Something I don't like is having my balls sucked. If she wants to lick them, sure go for it. It doesn't do much for me, but I loathe getting them sucked. It either tickles or hurts
Using your hands. Or just getting creative. Put a piece of an ice cube in your mouth first.
Low effort or lack of confidence
Must is desire. Make me believe that you need it.
Swallow is better but it's far from a deal-breaker
I'm a 'yes' guy. I like to show my appreciation if you get that far
So ^^^ these raise a good question:Something I don't like is having my balls sucked. If she wants to lick them, sure go for it. It doesn't do much for me, but I loathe getting them sucked. It either tickles or hurts
I cannot stand being touched in a gentle tickling way. It creeps me the fuck out. I get a shiver down my spine just thinking about it. You can touch me gently with your whole hand, but do not dance your fingers across my skin unless you want this oasis to dry up like Mojave!
This is why communication is so important. I’m a touchy-feely kind of guy and I would totally do the fingers across the skin technique if I didn’t know you didn’t like it.
No different then me sucking my own nipples. Doesn't do anything for me sensation wise. It's the mental part.
Oddly, you sucking your own nipples does something for me.
I'd say that everybody should sleep in a way tat works for them.I think this makes sense.
Not every couple is meant to be in the same bed, or room.
Sleeping together should be more of a special thing than an every night thing.
But you should always sleep with your dog!
Yeah, this guy gets it. I’m the same on pretty much every answer.I'm just a guy. Typing at a keyboard, who loves getting blown
The #1 thing for me is the power. Someone is on their knees and sucking my dick for my pleasure. It's irreplaceable
Something I don't like is having my balls sucked. If she wants to lick them, sure go for it. It doesn't do much for me, but I loathe getting them sucked. It either tickles or hurts
Using your hands. Or just getting creative. Put a piece of an ice cube in your mouth first.
Low effort or lack of confidence
Must is desire. Make me believe that you need it.
Should never cry or say 'ohhhhhh deefalt it's too big, I could never' <--major turn off also heavy on sarcasm
Swallow is better but it's far from a deal-breaker
I'm a 'yes' guy. I like to show my appreciation if you get that far
Sometimes being tickled is for your own good…Okay.. I will bite.
So, we all got our own shares of kinks and quirks, and I cannot claim to be much different.
What I do not like..
- Ugh, there is a list!!
Generally, I like having my own space, quite a lot.
- Sleeping together all night.
- Sorry, but I need my own bed, preferably room even.
- Too much kissing.
- Dry, cracked and swollen lips, exchanging all the spit and mouth stuff. Yup.. that is luckily a thing of the days of being a teenager.
- Cuddling all evening on the couch/bed.. maybe even watching a movie.
- I would rather read a book, go for a run.. why are people not dating more while running? That would be way more fun!
- Sucking my nipples/too much attention "fidgeting" with them.
- Just uncomfortable, not sexy or stimulating.. it only annoys me and turns me off.
- Tickling and gentle touching (feathers, fingers.. And so on)
- Just. Do. Not. Do. It.
I resonate with all of this Cat, but I love attention to my nipples.Okay.. I will bite.
So, we all got our own shares of kinks and quirks, and I cannot claim to be much different.
What I do not like..
- Ugh, there is a list!!
Generally, I like having my own space, quite a lot.
- Sleeping together all night.
- Sorry, but I need my own bed, preferably room even.
- Too much kissing.
- Dry, cracked and swollen lips, exchanging all the spit and mouth stuff. Yup.. that is luckily a thing of the days of being a teenager.
- Cuddling all evening on the couch/bed.. maybe even watching a movie.
- I would rather read a book, go for a run.. why are people not dating more while running? That would be way more fun!
- Sucking my nipples/too much attention "fidgeting" with them.
- Just uncomfortable, not sexy or stimulating.. it only annoys me and turns me off.
- Tickling and gentle touching (feathers, fingers.. And so on)
- Just. Do. Not. Do. It.
I swell giving attention to nipples.I resonate with all of this Cat, but I love attention to my nipples.
Don't rush or force it. I dislike the givers need to deep throat. I find it little painful. It is a sensual act. Much like when I lick pussy.Don’t neglect the balls.
Where the semen goes is irrelevant, as long as there’s no stopping at climax, or when the giver is afraid of getting a load in the mouth the giver’s enthusiast will definitely wane as the receiver’s excitement builds. I dated a girl who said spitting just meant it had to pass over her tongue a second time, so she’d rather just swallow.
I think this makes sense.
Not every couple is meant to be in the same bed, or room.
Sleeping together should be more of a special thing than an every night thing.
But you should always sleep with your dog!
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... If you have ever seen them on YouTube, moving and spinning weirdly around, yup, that is me!
it is a reflex. I am not even sorry!! I resonate with all of this Cat, but I love attention to my nipples.
Yes!! That.. flicking it back and forth, twisting, pushing like a button.. But just.. in a way that is.. cringing, toe curling.. grating on your nerves.. annoying..
@Cat I’m willing to learn this “right attention” you speak of if only there were nipples to learn on.
Yep. I like my balls held caressed moved around including the taint and sensitive curve of my butt. Please don't lick them. Only twice do I remember actually liking that. Its a trust thing to. Most of the time it hurts and ruins the moment.
