Lil_Jenni's Adventures, Past and Present...

[Purple_Fronds]

Thanks! I'm happy and Hubby is very happy. But I'm not sure he remembers the mood swings and massive variation in sexual desire I had last time. After about the fifth month, he never knew if he was coming home to a sex-starved nympho or a frigid prude. Well, until the last month... Intercourse was uncomfortable so he only got BJs that month...

Yeh, I’m not going to feel sorry for him, only BJs for a month the horror. . Thrilled for both of you.

 

[bobb_sledd]

Congratulations to All! I for one, am looking forward to your postings about pregnancy sex. High on my list of fetishes.

 

[lil_jenni]

As I posted in another thread, my attempt at flirting with my half Brazilian crush at the New Year's Eve did not go well. I can blame some of it in the intermittent nausea cause by some smell at the party, but a lot was me being tongue tied. She looked fucking gorgeous.

Imagine, a tall woman, naturally tan, dark hair up. Carmel eyes stare down at you as you do the best not to let your eyes lock on to her half visible, clearly undertrained, breasts. Fuck.

As I suspected, she wore a tight dress (a shimmering silver color) with a plunging neckline. I had not expected it to plunge to her waist, however, not for it to be a micro mini. I mean, her boyfriend is a partner and most of the guests work at the law firm. But hey, when Hubby worked there, I was the most risque significant other.

Anyway, I wore a medium blue backless dress that came to about mid thigh. It was not super tight, but it clung nicely to the right places. I wore my hair down, but had it cut to shoulder length before the party. I finished off my look with gray with blue stitching cowboy boots (I bought the dress to go with the boots).

A couple guys said they miss Hubby working at the firm because the missed seeing me at firm events. That was nice, considering everyone else was mesmerized by my crush. And I don't blame them. She is

God, I want her...

 

[JustDave478]

As I posted in another thread, my attempt at flirting with my half Brazilian crush at the New Year's Eve did not go well. I can blame some of it in the intermittent nausea cause by some smell at the party, but a lot was me being tongue tied. She looked fucking gorgeous.

Imagine, a tall woman, naturally tan, dark hair up. Carmel eyes stare down at you as you do the best not to let your eyes lock on to her half visible, clearly undertrained, breasts. Fuck.

As I suspected, she wore a tight dress (a shimmering silver color) with a plunging neckline. I had not expected it to plunge to her waist, however, not for it to be a micro mini. I mean, her boyfriend is a partner and most of the guests work at the law firm. But hey, when Hubby worked there, I was the most risque significant other.

Anyway, I wore a medium blue backless dress that came to about mid thigh. It was not super tight, but it clung nicely to the right places. I wore my hair down, but had it cut to shoulder length before the party. I finished off my look with gray with blue stitching cowboy boots (I bought the dress to go with the boots).

A couple guys said they miss Hubby working at the firm because the missed seeing me at firm events. That was nice, considering everyone else was mesmerized by my crush. And I don't blame them. She is

God, I want her...

Everything about this post is erotic AF...

 

[lil_jenni]

Everything about this post is erotic AF...

Even the smell nauseating me? That didn't seem that erotic to me...

Luckily, the nausea was not an issue by the time we got home. The kiddo was at a friend's house for the night, so we were barely in the door before I was all over Hubby. We didn't get to sleep until after 4:00am. Let's just say I was horny AF. I blamed it on the pregnancy hormones, but that was not the real reason I was so worked up.

 

[JustDave478]

Even the smell nauseating me? That didn't seem that erotic to me...

Luckily, the nausea was not an issue by the time we got home. The kiddo was at a friend's house for the night, so we were barely in the door before I was all over Hubby. We didn't get to sleep until after 4:00am. Let's just say I was horny AF. I blamed it on the pregnancy hormones, but that was not the real reason I was so worked up.

OK, minus the nausea.

 

[ShaneoD]

As I posted in another thread, my attempt at flirting with my half Brazilian crush at the New Year's Eve did not go well. I can blame some of it in the intermittent nausea cause by some smell at the party, but a lot was me being tongue tied. She looked fucking gorgeous.

Imagine, a tall woman, naturally tan, dark hair up. Carmel eyes stare down at you as you do the best not to let your eyes lock on to her half visible, clearly undertrained, breasts. Fuck.

As I suspected, she wore a tight dress (a shimmering silver color) with a plunging neckline. I had not expected it to plunge to her waist, however, not for it to be a micro mini. I mean, her boyfriend is a partner and most of the guests work at the law firm. But hey, when Hubby worked there, I was the most risque significant other.

Anyway, I wore a medium blue backless dress that came to about mid thigh. It was not super tight, but it clung nicely to the right places. I wore my hair down, but had it cut to shoulder length before the party. I finished off my look with gray with blue stitching cowboy boots (I bought the dress to go with the boots).

A couple guys said they miss Hubby working at the firm because the missed seeing me at firm events. That was nice, considering everyone else was mesmerized by my crush. And I don't blame them. She is

God, I want her...

Damn now I have a crush on her and I've only seen her in my mind's eye

 

[lil_jenni]

Damn now I have a crush on her and I've only seen her in my mind's eye

Oh, she's extremely crush worthy. If I can't have her, I wish Hubby would fuck her (I'm about 90% sure she was into him back when she was a college intern at the law firm) and tell me all about it. But I have not told him that, because that's the kind of thing that makes him worry about me...

 

[ShaneoD]

Oh, she's extremely crush worthy. If I can't have her, I wish Hubby would fuck her (I'm about 90% sure she was into him back when she was a college intern at the law firm) and tell me all about it. But I have not told him that, because that's the kind of thing that makes him worry about me...

Worry, god damn it, that's what most guys dream of

 

[lil_jenni]

Worry, god damn it, that's what most guys dream of

Yeah, he rarely thinks like most guys... It's one of the reasons I fell for him when I never even had relationships before. On the other hand, it can be a bit annoying when it comes to kinks most guys would kill for.

 

[ShaneoD]

Yeah, he rarely thinks like most guys... It's one of the reasons I fell for him when I never even had relationships before. On the other hand, it can be a bit annoying when it comes to kinks most guys would kill for.

Maybe a role play might help, plant the idea, tell him to think about her body while you've got his cock in your mouth

 

[lil_jenni]

Maybe a role play might help, plant the idea, tell him to think about her body while you've got his cock in your mouth

Oh, we've done that. And we've had FFM threesomes (he only does those because I want them). His thing is that he won't do anything I'm not a participant in.

I know he finds my crush attractive, but he'd never act on it on his own.

But hey. Who knows? She might find preggo women hot, and that could be my in with her. And who knows where it might lead...

 

[ShaneoD]

Oh, we've done that. And we've had FFM threesomes (he only does those because I want them). His thing is that he won't do anything I'm not a participant in.

I know he finds my crush attractive, but he'd never act on it on his own.

But hey. Who knows? She might find preggo women hot, and that could be my in with her. And who knows where it might lead...

Damn this sounds like something I read on Reddit recently where the lady always found the pregnant lady hot but didn't know how to hot on her until she needed sexual release

 

[lil_jenni]

I had my first OBGyn visit of the pregnancy this afternoon. Hubby had asked if I wanted him to come with me, but I said no because I figured it would be really routine. Nope. I got three surprises.

I knew being pregnant at 36 was going to be tougher than the first one. But my OBGyn told me we had to be careful because it could be a high risk pregnancy, and she wanted to do an ultrasound. So surprise #1.

Surprise #2 was the vaginal ultrasound. I didn't know they existed. When she told me she had to put it up my vagina, I laughed. I thought she was joking. She was not.

The ultrasound revealed surprise #3. Evidently, at my age, and having had a baby already, I'm at a higher risk of having multiples. Can you guess where this is headed? Yep, twins.

I have not told Hubby. That needs to be done in person. I just told him everything looked good, which is true. Yet, I cried in my car for a good ten minutes after leaving. I never dreamed I'd have twins. They don't run in either of our families. Plus, I'm fucking too small to have twins. One Baby was bad enough.

But my doctor assured me I'll be fine, that twins are usually a lower birth weight, and that, given my size, they might consider an early C-section if the babies are getting too big. None of that kept me from bawling, and I'm a little scared, despite her reassurances.

On the plus side, Hubby wanted three kids, and this way I will get that done with only two pregnancies.

 

[13Fantasies]

Congratulations on the pregnancy!

We had our third late too. I think, overall, it was the easiest.

One thing to remember, C-section or natural birth, twins almost always go to the NICU. They are smaller and need that extra time to grow their lungs and such. Might be good to ask your doctor about the NICU unit. Our last two kids had stays there. It was scary, but the staff was great.

Not trying to scare you, but good to know.

 

[lil_jenni]

Congratulations on the pregnancy!

We had our third late too. I think, overall, it was the easiest.

One thing to remember, C-section or natural birth, twins almost always go to the NICU. They are smaller and need that extra time to grow their lungs and such. Might be good to ask your doctor about the NICU unit. Our last two kids had stays there. It was scary, but the staff was great.

Not trying to scare you, but good to know.

Thank you! And yeah, she mentioned the NICU as a possibility, especially if we do it early.

 

[ShaneoD]

Congrats on the pregnancy, that was some good advice from a good place from 13. I'm sure you're pregnancy will go well, you've wanted it and I'm sure your husband is very supportive. And like you implied this saves you almost a year of trying to have the third one. You'll do awesome just take your time getting used to the idea.

 

[lil_jenni]

Congrats on the pregnancy, that was some good advice from a good place from 13. I'm sure you're pregnancy will go well, you've wanted it and I'm sure your husband is very supportive. And like you implied this saves you almost a year of trying to have the third one. You'll do awesome just take your time getting used to the idea.

Thank you. And yes, I'll be fine once I get used to the idea of twins. But it may take a bit. I mean, I want to my appointment happy to be pregnant and left not at all happy to about it being twins...

 

[ShaneoD]

You did get a scare and a couple of surprises too(Maybe that should be a surprise and an invasion?). So it's more than understandable that your mood changed. I'm sure you'll get happier as soon as you've adjusted. Think happy thoughts like maybe the twins need a Brazilian godmother because, erm, stability or something

 

[13Fantasies]

Thank you! And yeah, she mentioned the NICU as a possibility, especially if we do it early.

And I know twins can be scary. They run in my family and I escaped them. But twins can be a lot of fun, especially allowing their older sibling a chance to bond differently with each.

Please keep us posted!

And if you ever need to talk more as you go, reach out.

 

[lil_jenni]

Hubby is ecstatic about the twin thing. So is the Kiddo, my parents, Hubby's parents, and even Misty. I am not. It's better than yesterday when I found out, but... I'm still not in a good place yet.

Is it selfish for me to be worried about how this will impact my body afterwards? It took me a long time to get even close to back to my old figure last time, and that was only one baby.

 

[ShaneoD]

Hubby is ecstatic about the twin thing. So is the Kiddo, my parents, Hubby's parents, and even Misty. I am not. It's better than yesterday when I found out, but... I'm still not in a good place yet.

Is it selfish for me to be worried about how this will impact my body afterwards? It took me a long time to get even close to back to my old figure last time, and that was only one baby.

It's not selfish, it's your body and you're going to be the one going all of the work. Both before and afterwards. Maybe talk to your husband about your feelings, possibly with a few statistics from Google, men are very visual and fact based.Let him know you're happy you're pregnant but you'll need both physical and emotional support during and afterwards. It's real to you because you're experiencing it and already have it's a bit abstract for guys as it can become a memory and might be hard for him to empathize without it being laid out for him

 

[Purple_Fronds]

I had my first OBGyn visit of the pregnancy this afternoon. Hubby had asked if I wanted him to come with me, but I said no because I figured it would be really routine. Nope. I got three surprises.

I knew being pregnant at 36 was going to be tougher than the first one. But my OBGyn told me we had to be careful because it could be a high risk pregnancy, and she wanted to do an ultrasound. So surprise #1.

Surprise #2 was the vaginal ultrasound. I didn't know they existed. When she told me she had to put it up my vagina, I laughed. I thought she was joking. She was not.

The ultrasound revealed surprise #3. Evidently, at my age, and having had a baby already, I'm at a higher risk of having multiples. Can you guess where this is headed? Yep, twins.

I have not told Hubby. That needs to be done in person. I just told him everything looked good, which is true. Yet, I cried in my car for a good ten minutes after leaving. I never dreamed I'd have twins. They don't run in either of our families. Plus, I'm fucking too small to have twins. One Baby was bad enough.

But my doctor assured me I'll be fine, that twins are usually a lower birth weight, and that, given my size, they might consider an early C-section if the babies are getting too big. None of that kept me from bawling, and I'm a little scared, despite her reassurances.

On the plus side, Hubby wanted three kids, and this way I will get that done with only two pregnancies.

That’s exciting but yes probably terrifying do you have the option of a scheduled c section?

 

[Purple_Fronds]

Hubby is ecstatic about the twin thing. So is the Kiddo, my parents, Hubby's parents, and even Misty. I am not. It's better than yesterday when I found out, but... I'm still not in a good place yet.

Is it selfish for me to be worried about how this will impact my body afterwards? It took me a long time to get even close to back to my old figure last time, and that was only one baby.

Not at all selfish, it is after all your body and this impacts it, regardless. My advice is share your concerns and make sure your people (husband, doctors, family etc) are listening to you when you voice them, “you’re going to be ok” is not a satisfactory answer. “I understand why you’re concerned and these are some of the things we could do” is a better response.

I think I’ve said this before but it’s always worth repeating try to address the mental side early and before as well as after the birth, waiting until afterwards to see if there are issues is like playing a bad game of catch up. With that said very excited for you.

 

[lil_jenni]

That’s exciting but yes probably terrifying do you have the option of a scheduled c section?

Yeah, she is going to schedule me for early August and adjust as needed.