Women on here?

[Bellinah]

As a woman who is somewhat active posting things in the forum it is sad to me that we have so little contact amongst eachother. Other sites I’ve been apart of often have womens only sections/groups. If you wanna reach out and discuss please feel free. Maybe we can even start a group if we are many.

/Love

 

[Bellinah]

We're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...

Haha they can be really horrible sometimes

 

[LoneMilf]

Actually, at the other sites I’ve been on, the women where quite actively .. interacting To the point of many men feeling left out even.

 

[Bellinah]

Actually, at the other sites I’ve been on, the women where quite actively .. interacting To the point of many men feeling left out even.

Obviously I don’t want anyone to feel left out. I just think this can be a very hostile environment especially if you’re a woman posting pics and stories. And it’s always comforting to have recognition in a group.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

Preach. Don't get me wrong, I've met some really amazing men through here. But the ratio of them compared to the creeps and assholes is way heavy towards the latter category unfortunately

Gurl, as of two days ago, I'm on a forced hiatus from interacting with these online "men." I mentally & emotionally can't anymore.

 

[ericalauren]

Not all of us are creeps or assholes or horrible.

A #NotAllMen man strikes again.

 

[Bellinah]

Gurl, as of two days ago, I'm on a forced hiatus from interacting with these online "men." I mentally & emotionally can't anymore.

I toatally get that. It often feels like you’re drowning in disappointing messages and never find real connection. That’s why I think solidarity is so important on here.

 

[KatieDoes]

What’s a decent man lol

One way to tell that a man is decent is if he doesn’t try to shift conversations between women to himself.

 

[Bellinah]

One way to tell that a man is decent is if he doesn’t try to shift conversations between women to himsePreach

Preach girl

 

[sammyIammy]

We're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...

This made me laugh

 

[UtilityCurve]

We're all hiding from the men until we can find a decent one to interact with. That's where we're all at...

Ouch.

 

[sexywriterfla]

Preach. Don't get me wrong, I've met some really amazing men through here. But the ratio of them compared to the creeps and assholes is way heavy towards the latter category unfortunately

As someone who's been here for a long time, and have met some amazing women over the years, I'm not at all surprised. Unfortunately given the nature of this place, being decent and polite even for an erotic site is utterly lost on some. And just because you're on a website forum doesn't give you license to be a total creep either. Some may respond to that but most don't. Sure it's fun to be flirty and naughty but be respectful. Don't make immediate demands. Get to know someone first. Yes I know some directly jump into the sexual, want that anonymously sexual role play or whatever but the majority of women don't. Be genuine. My two cents FWIW.

 

[Bonnie_Does]

As a woman who is somewhat active posting things in the forum it is sad to me that we have so little contact amongst eachother. Other sites I’ve been apart of often have womens only sections/groups. If you wanna reach out and discuss please feel free. Maybe we can even start a group if we are many.

/Love

I love having conversations with other ladies but they are few and far between on here. There is a "Bi and Lesbian" chat room on the Erotic Chat side of Lit but I never found it to be much fun. I'm not sure what kind of group you have in mind but I would have an interest. I will link this Forum post to another lady my age who I have made friends with.

 

[Bonnie_Does]

I’m not trying to leave anyone out or hurt their feelings. Just trying to make female friends.

Welcome to Lit @KarenKlark. You will find friends here, I'm sure!

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

God that’s horrible

Yes, it is horrible how the men have behaved.

 

[marriedbigrl]

So for this newbie around here, do I get looped into the non decent men?

If you have to ask, yes

 

[Kim34DD]

Women are free to PM me anytime Please feel free

 

[Darkswan90]

Haha they can be really horrible sometimes

You're right

I've been tempted to send them a pic of my husband's cock when they're sending messages over and over.

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

No what you do is find ones on a Google search with some crazy diseases to send

AbsoFuckinglutely. I like where your head's at

 

[InCNCestBangPie]

How nice of you to pass judgment on someone you‘ve never met. With the amount of men on here one can either sit and wait to HOPEFULLY make some sort of connection and not come across as some sort of asshat. Or you get the ones that try and throw their penis around with some sort of complex.

Just a perspective

If this is you "just being you," then I think we've seen all we need to know what category you belong in. Maybe learn to read the room and (gasp) even read the thread before you comment & then try to feel like a helpless victim.

Just a correct perspective.

 

[Bonnie_Does]

Women are free to PM me anytime Please feel free

Lovely profile Kim!!

 

[ICM8781]

Try the Playground section. Its not a woman's only area, but there is a lot of people supporting to try and keep the creeps at bay and the women feel comfortable.

 

[SmokingFap]

Oh shoot honey, I'm literally out of fucks to give. Maybe next time

I've got an extra fuck today, if you'd like to borrow it...

Oh, and fair warning, I'm not a woman.

 

[SweetBaybeeGirl]

I love having conversations with other ladies but they are few and far between on here. There is a "Bi and Lesbian" chat room on the Erotic Chat side of Lit but I never found it to be much fun. I'm not sure what kind of group you have in mind but I would have an interest. I will link this Forum post to another lady my age who I have made friends with.

You should try Emily’s Place. Smaller and more friendly

 

[KatieDoes]

From my time here you have to look at profiles of women carefully. Many are not women. You can tell by what they say sounding like something is off or repetitive with their fantasy or by the photos they post that they grabbed off the net or other profiles on other sites.
There are many genuine people here. But I have had some conversations that I later found I was conversing with an actor.
Even in this thread I am a man posting on a women's only section. But only because I couldn't find legit topics from women for a women only thread.
I hope you were able to sort your mail and make the group. As well I would like to know what the ladies are talking about. At times included in my history, the lack of ego is really fun! I like when ladies are candid like that.
Good Luck!

What does this mean?

Also, i believe that women are much better at discerning a fake profile than men are, only because we have the benefit of knowing how women speak to each other privately. So there’s not really a need for you to explain to us that some of the ‘women’ here are men with fake profiles. We can tell, usually immediately.