What was your longest dry spell?

well....right now my wife and i have had sex twice in the last 12 weeks.....im done asking
 
I am in it now… somewhere between 8-10 years, so far back it’s hard to remember. Marriage has become sexless. Trying to find someone to meet up with whose schedule fits my own, not an easy thing to do at my age.
 
Maybe 3 years.. between our 2 kids. Anxiety and depression got the best of me.. actually, the night we broke the spell was the night our 2nd boy was conceived. 🤪
 
Three years sounds right? Or is it four ?
Before Covid ?
Let’s call it 5? 6?
What was it we were talking about?
Vague memories
 
Whoa !
No one here is having sex? Of any kind?
Well, I know SOME of us are still in our dry spells... some may be referring to the past, since the question is "What was your longest dry spell?" and not "How long has it been since you last had sex?"
 
Well, I know SOME of us are still in our dry spells... some may be referring to the past, since the question is "What was your longest dry spell?" and not "How long has it been since you last had sex?"
Ahhhh!! True!
Then? 20 years before I lost my virginity
If I go 20 years, do I regain my virginity?
 
Ahhhh!! True!
Then? 20 years before I lost my virginity
If I go 20 years, do I regain my virginity?
Does one count the initial losing of virginity starting from birth, or from puberty? I would think the latter... and if that's the case, I'm getting dangerously close to regaining it!
 

Almost 2 years.

18 months

7 years and counting. Divorce does that to you somehow. Makes you reluctant to try again.
I'm sorry that some of our younger lady readers are having a lack of sexual activity in their lives and I would be happy to offer my services in order to break both their dry spell and my own (2007 or even earlier since I last had sex with anyone - now open to offers from both F and M, just to enjoy the closeness) ☹️
 
Somewhere between 10-15 years. I don't remember the "last time" exactly as husband was disabled before passing away leaving me a widow for the past 6.5 years. My dry spell ended last September.
 
We broke the drought recently, but it was only drizzle. She can't take more than about three inches, and I can't get off that way, so it was crank off between her arse cheeks, which doesn't really to it for me, sadly. She also lay there in that manner makes me wonder whether she was dead or I was shagging an English girl. (The reference is to the old joke about the Scotsman who was had up for necrophilia.)

Back to jacking off and dreaming.
 
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10+ years beginning around 2004. Married. Finally got fed up waiting for the ice to thaw. Since 2015 I've had more sex than the prior 25 years.
 
We broke the drought recently, but it was only drizzle. She can't take more than about three inches, and I can't get off that way, so it was crank off between her arse cheeks, which does really to it for me, sadly. She also lay there in that manner makes me wonder whether she was dead or I was shagging an English girl. (The reference is to the old joke about the Scotsman who was had up for necrophilia.)

Back to jacking off and dreaming.
I feel your pain, dude.
 
1 year today :-( wife became ill still recovering. Feels incredibly empty without the intimacy. Haven't gone this long since 1986.
 
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