BongoGal
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I'm glad that worked out.
What was your longest dry spell?
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Lady2020
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At my age I'm wondering why the hell I threw out the Midnight Rider. It seemed like a good idea at the time. 
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Probably my current one? 18 months and counting, baybeeee.
BongoGal
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What is the Midnight Rider?At my age I'm wondering why the hell I threw out the Midnight Rider. It seemed like a good idea at the time.
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A vibrator.
BongoGal
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Yes, I can understand that regret. Those things, um, come in handy.
KeenVoyeur
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I had a fling in 2007 - hurried, ultimately unsatisfactory sex and a few more enjoyable blowjobs ... Wife found out and issued a declaration that I wouldn't be allowed anywhere near so it's been a barren 16 years and counting.
If the opportunity arose elsewhere, I'd probably take it but until then, it's me and my right (occasionally left) hand and internet porn!
If the opportunity arose elsewhere, I'd probably take it but until then, it's me and my right (occasionally left) hand and internet porn!
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Don’t know exactly but over a year for sure. Probably closer to 18 months
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10 years and counting.
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A few months between relationships
Htownhubby
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4 yrs
VoraciousValue
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Six years in my 20's. I wasn't able to find any online, I wasn't getting any dates, and I was too confused about myself and the world to really be in a place to cultivate such relationships.
spankableBelle
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10+ years.
YesIamReal
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This thread is depressing me.
Some of the most sexually imaginative and open people out there, and they have longer spells "without" than me.
(And mine is longer than 5 years.)
Some of the most sexually imaginative and open people out there, and they have longer spells "without" than me.
(And mine is longer than 5 years.)
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10 years is nothing ... mine's coming up to 16 years now
(OK, it was my fault - I shouldn't have fucked a woman from down our street, but if my wife had been more amorous before then, it might not have happened)
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1.5 years, but I am divorcing and gonna fix that.4 years and counting..
Before that, about 3.5 weeks
Mine started in 2017 when the wife started having autoimmune issues. She either
(a) does not feel like it
(b) feels like it, but knows it will hurt too much to do it
(c) suggests we try, and then stops me half way through
The only thing that stops me punching holes in the walls some days is the knowledge this house is lath and plaster so it is going to HURT, not just hurt. Of course, not being able to do it throws up issues on both sides. I get horny and grouchy, as the trouser tyrant has minimal understanding of the situation, and she gets insecure, jealous and nasty because she knows I want it, and want it badly. She's always afraid I'll go and get some elsewhere, and can act out because of it. Lack of sex has led to a lack of intimacy, and has eroded our relationship quite badly, so there are times when both of us can feel very alone.
I do have a couple of woman I am close to other than my wife, but I just wouldn't try and convert either of them into a mistress - too damn disrespectful towards my wife and them. There is one young woman - I usually refer to her as muse or SG - who is more of an intellectual sparring partner and substitute niece than anything else, but that is not written in stone. Because we are uncannily close in our worldviews and enjoy one another's company, it is one of those relationships where I have to keep acknowledging the attraction so that I don't do anything stupid. The other one is her sister, who is less intellectually challenging than her sister, but gets my sense of humor, and slightly cock-eyed view of the universe - and there is an attraction that I have to acknowledge there too. For me neither of them is 'fling' material, but they illicit that unfamiliar desire to settle down with one or the other and have a family - even though I am getting too old for that nonsense.
(a) does not feel like it
(b) feels like it, but knows it will hurt too much to do it
(c) suggests we try, and then stops me half way through
The only thing that stops me punching holes in the walls some days is the knowledge this house is lath and plaster so it is going to HURT, not just hurt. Of course, not being able to do it throws up issues on both sides. I get horny and grouchy, as the trouser tyrant has minimal understanding of the situation, and she gets insecure, jealous and nasty because she knows I want it, and want it badly. She's always afraid I'll go and get some elsewhere, and can act out because of it. Lack of sex has led to a lack of intimacy, and has eroded our relationship quite badly, so there are times when both of us can feel very alone.
I do have a couple of woman I am close to other than my wife, but I just wouldn't try and convert either of them into a mistress - too damn disrespectful towards my wife and them. There is one young woman - I usually refer to her as muse or SG - who is more of an intellectual sparring partner and substitute niece than anything else, but that is not written in stone. Because we are uncannily close in our worldviews and enjoy one another's company, it is one of those relationships where I have to keep acknowledging the attraction so that I don't do anything stupid. The other one is her sister, who is less intellectually challenging than her sister, but gets my sense of humor, and slightly cock-eyed view of the universe - and there is an attraction that I have to acknowledge there too. For me neither of them is 'fling' material, but they illicit that unfamiliar desire to settle down with one or the other and have a family - even though I am getting too old for that nonsense.
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