Sex & Shenanigans

This is generally very true for me, but I also don’t ask women for pictures either. I never want anyone to feel pressured or obliged to do anything they’re not comfortable with. Even if I’d love to see them not just naked, but filthy naked 😂😍

Almost verbatim the disclaimer I give when exchanging pictures on here comes up, haha. I won't ask for them, but will gladly accept them. Even if I have an established relationship, I generally won't ask. In that case, there's just kind of an open "you know I'd love to see it" understanding, but I still don't want anyone to feel remotely pressured.

Now, when it comes to dick pics (or ball pics, since that's what started the discussion, haha), I 100% will not send any unless directly asked. Main reason being, I'm pretty sure y'all get enough of them unsolicited and I absolutely do not want to be that guy.
 
That raises a question too. If you do get an unexpectedly explicit picture from someone you're chatting with, do you feel obliged to respond in kind? It has happened to me once or twice, and it's clearly because they're comfortable sharing rather than anything creepy, but...what if I'm less comfortable doing the same?

I have had this happen once or twice, where they felt comfortable sharing. I simply wasn't in return. I kindly said, sorry I don't do that in return. Isn't easy to communicate but wayyy more uncomfortable if I don't speak up.
 
That raises a question too. If you do get an unexpectedly explicit picture from someone you're chatting with, do you feel obliged to respond in kind? It has happened to me once or twice, and it's clearly because they're comfortable sharing rather than anything creepy, but...what if I'm less comfortable doing the same?
I've had that before. Some people I chat to are total exhibitionists and gladly whip their kit off at a moments notice. If its someone I know fairly well and I don't want to reciprocate then I'm usually pretty comfortable in saying so and they've all respected my limits. Saying that, if they hadn't then chatting would stop.
 
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