Instant Boner

Ooo. Good question. For me it’s a someone who is self assured, confident, thoughtful doesn’t take themselves to seriously or others. And a certain ✨ something ✨ that just says “I can fuck you like a lady or a whore and we’ll both feel great about it”. It’s usually a quiet kind of energy that’s more of an under current in their actions and words etc. The whole kind of “bad boy, but a good man” thing 😍

Makes sense. For me it coincided with a big career move, so hard to say how much of the confidence and all that came from what. But people have commented on it. 😆
 
Makes sense. For me it coincided with a big career move, so hard to say how much of the confidence and all that came from what. But people have commented on it. 😆
Oh I get that entirely. I recently had a big win career wise and strutting around for a little bit feeling myself 🥰 those kinds of happenings can definitely inspire BDE
 
The smell of her perfum or body lotion
Her unexpectedly whispering in my ear what she wants me to do to her later
Some light wrestling (Sounds weird but try it)
Sometimes its her just wearing a t-shirt of mine and short shorts around the house
 
A man who knows how to fix stuff around the house

A man who can make me laugh when I feel like shit

A big tough guy who has no problem being soft with me and tell me I’ll be ok.
Where were you a decade ago? 😆

I actually just ordered a new motor for our bathroom fan yesterday. I can feel the swoon from here. 😉😁😊
 
We’ve talked about boner killers but what gives you an instant boner? Makes you gasp with excitement, need a change of panties…

For me? Men in blue jeans and no socks. Instant waterfall.

Nothing makes me need a change in panties. In boxers? Laciness and sheerness
 
A man who knows how to fix stuff around the house

A man who can make me laugh when I feel like shit

A big tough guy who has no problem being soft with me and tell me I’ll be ok.
Hah the floors would be wet wherever you were standing if we lived together.
 
Yoga pants.
A woman's midriff exposed by a too small shirt.
A ladies voice saying anything sexual at all
Nipples touching me anywhere
A girl who knows sports

Yeah probably a lot more too.
 
A sense of humor, especially don’t take themselves too seriously
Really big……..brains
A sense of mischief
A just a bit of a tease but not too much.
 
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