Sex & Shenanigans

[PlanetaryNebula]

*tackles* Nuuuuuu!!

Well you can always capture me and put me in a cage and make me your little pet

 

[kentuckymtnman]

I think OP is lovely and nice too! If you two don’t stop fighting, I’m running away!

Agrees to run away with Nebs.

 

[Bry1313]

Well you can always capture me and put me in a cage and make me your little pet

That was my plan

 

[kentuckymtnman]

That was my plan

It has already been established that Nebs was, is, and always will be my pet.

 

[LupineOne]

Well you can always capture me and put me in a cage and make me your little pet

Capture? Yes.
Cage? Maybe.

 

[MedicalMuse]

That’s NMK. I know @Mr_bogey will be impressed that there’s another thing I’m not into.

 

[LupineOne]

That’s NMK. I know @Mr_bogey will be impressed that there’s another thing I’m not into.

Not really my kink either. Now, soft restraints? Stinging pain in the right amounts and right places?
That’s a different story entirely

 

[Bbl87]

That’s NMK. I know @Mr_bogey will be impressed that there’s another thing I’m not into.

*yet

 

[Bbl87]

Not really my kink either. Now, soft restraints? Stinging pain in the right amounts and right places?
That’s a different story entirely

Same.

 

[MedicalMuse]

Not really my kink either. Now, soft restraints? Stinging pain in the right amounts and right places?
That’s a different story entirely

*yet

 

[crazychemgirl]

I have a question for this group. A bit of set up. I was primarily raised by my grandparents, an older generation, and was always taught to speak to ladies with respect. Because of this, porn calling women sluts and whores turn me off. Women calling themselves the same things makes me sad because it's being derogatory to themselves. So, my questions:

Guys, do you find women caling themselves sluts to be sexy?
Women, do you find giving yourself that title is sexually empowering?

Really just trying to make sense of the appeal. Thanks!

It’s all about context and tone imo …. In the right context … fuck yeah I’m a fucking badass bitch … but if you just flat out call me a bitch, we might have an issue.

 

[crazychemgirl]

Well you can always capture me and put me in a cage and make me your little pet

My last girlfriend LOVED that idea … me walking her around with a leash and collar. Begging to pleasure me.

 

[LupineOne]

I’ll take that as consent.
Enthusiastic consent

 

[Bbl87]

Yep, it has to be something she wants. I've had a woman ask me to call her slut and to "use her" ... It's definitely not for everyone nor every situation.

I never called her a slut in any other circumstance. Only in the height of passion and only because she wanted it.

Honestly, sounds very much like how my wife can get when she's REALLY into bondage play.

 

[crazychemgirl]

You can’t really be a sex positive man and use slut and whore as a derogatory word.

But if a woman wants to call herself that and she likes it? Well who am I to yuck her yum.

This … this is the correct response.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

My last girlfriend LOVED that idea … me walking her around with a leash and collar. Begging to pleasure me.

I was just telling someone about this idea. The walking around in leash and collar.

 

[Bbl87]

This … this is the correct response.

Yep. I'd never use those words without it being clear it was part of that kind of dynamic. But if she enjoys it, it can really enhance the experience. That's a big if though.

 

[crazychemgirl]

I love that term “sex positive” …. Because at the end of the day, it doesn’t matter what you think of a particular sex act … kink is kink and people like what they like.

Some of the crazy conservatives out there would probably do well to unleash some of their kinks … they’d probably feel a lot better not feeling shame and self-hate.

 

[crazychemgirl]

That being said …. I will 100% let MM tie me up and make me do whatever she wants.

 

[Bbl87]

That being said …. I will 100% let MM tie me up and make me do whatever she wants.

I will echo this sentiment. Or visa versa. Or maybe we could take turns...

 

[Sundayschild]

That being said …. I will 100% let MM tie me up and make me do whatever she wants.

I will 100% find a way to be part of this.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

I will echo this sentiment. Or visa versa. Or maybe we could take turns...

Where can i get into the mix?

 

[crazychemgirl]

Yeah … something kind of hot about someone saying “who’s a dirty little slut?”

 

[kentuckymtnman]

Where can i get into the mix?

Gets some rope.

 

[Radiantcurves87]

Yeah … something kind of hot about someone saying “who’s a dirty little slut?”

My hubs said that to like 4 hours ago haha