Sex & Shenanigans

Maybe I should start with the finger by myself go from there.
I would definitely try when you're already aroused, decent chance if it's just by itself it really won't do anything for you. I tried by itself and when already aroused, but no difference for me.

For my wife, just teasing the area with a fingertip was/is often enough to get a positive reaciton, don't even need any kind of actual penetration.
 
I would definitely try when you're already aroused, decent chance if it's just by itself it really won't do anything for you. I tried by itself and when already aroused, but no difference for me.

For my wife, just teasing the area with a fingertip was/is often enough to get a positive reaciton, don't even need any kind of actual penetration.
Noted, and will take the recommendation into consideration for the next time I am aroused.
 
Did you guys try it when you were already turned on? Like youre not in the shower with a soft dick trying something in your butt for the first time right? Stroking while doing it?

Mentioned it in my reply to RC, but I tried both. Didn't float me boat. Didn't hate it but didn't really like it either. Consider me indifferent, haha.
 
Good for you guys for trying it. I appreciate the thought especially of trying something on yourself first that you want to do on someone else 🙂

Did you guys try it when you were already turned on? Like youre not in the shower with a soft dick trying something in your butt for the first time right? Stroking while doing it?

I mean if you dont like it, you dont like it. But i also think sensations are much different when youre turned on and when youre not so if you didnt try it under the most optimal conditions, you might still be missing out.


make sure your nails are cut 🤣
Nope... Mine was completely utilitarian, just to see what it felt like.


Which is why I'd be willing to try again with the right partner at the right time. But it's not something that I'm dying to try
 
Mentioned it in my reply to RC, but I tried both. Didn't float me boat. Didn't hate it but didn't really like it either. Consider me indifferent, haha.
You indifferent? I hadn't noticed? 🤣
 
My nails are always short, they naturally chip very easily, I haven't felt the need of a manicure bc it is a waste of money.
nail polish might actually help it break less

You could start off even with just a vibrator with a little pressure (no penetration) around the butt.
 
Since we are sharing first anal experiment stories. My own was with a partner. She had one of those classic vibrators (just a tube with a motor and batteries, so not thick). Feeling kinky, I let her try it on me. Lube and the vibrations definitely helped, plus she was gentle and didn't try to just cram it in. Was effective, but it also helped to have partner involvement instead of doing it solo.
 
Since we are sharing first anal experiment stories. My own was with a partner. She had one of those classic vibrators (just a tube with a motor and batteries, so not thick). Feeling kinky, I let her try it on me. Lube and the vibrations definitely helped, plus she was gentle and didn't try to just cram it in. Was effective, but it also helped to have partner involvement instead of doing it solo.
Do you enjoy it solo now?
 
nail polish might actually help it break less

You could start off even with just a vibrator with a little pressure (no penetration) around the butt.
Okay stop! Please. I have spent the money in the past, and talked to my nail tech, my nail beds don't care or need the polish. So when I have said waste of money, to me it is whether it is regular, gel or acrylic.

I don't need advice or to feel pressured when I haven't thought about it. I am not liking the way this going now.
 
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Slowly getting work done this morning and you people are not helping with my productivity!
Keep up the good work!
Hey! Step up your game man! I just finished a report that I forgot was due to today until I got the "your report is due today" reminder sent at 2am, but I didn't see it until 8am. :cool:

(OK, fine, my "report" was 7 paragraphs. Basically I said, "your project sucks, you can't write, and you don't understand what you're doing....which was evident in 10 min of reading their project description...but HEY! I'm "productive!" 😂🤣😂🤣)
 
Okay stop! Please. I have spent the money in the past, and talked to my nail tech, my nail beds don't care or need the polish. So when I have said waste of money, to me it is whether it is regular, gel or acrylic.

I don't need advice or to feel pressured when I haven't thought about it. I am not liking the way this going now.
not my intention to pressure or make you feel weird about it, sorry that it did.
 
Okay stop! Please. I have spent the money in the past, and talked to my nail tech, my nail beds don't care or need the polish. So when I have said waste of money, to me it is whether it is regular, gel or acrylic.

I don't need advice or to feel pressured when I haven't thought about it. I am not liking the way this going now.
I’m glad you felt comfortable to say that. Pressure is never ok.
 
I’m glad you felt comfortable to say that. Pressure is never ok.
Well, when I suffer from panic disorder was trying to leave that personal matter off of lit, considering I use it as a way to relax me, have noted in comments I will think about it, have a mental block regarding topic and I see money in getting nails done be a waste. I don't know how else I can say enough. Bc, now I am triggered, not great way to start my day.
 
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Thursday or Friday afternoon meetings at my work usually turn into happy hour
Wanna hire me????? :D

The meeting I'm actually working on is a good one. It's with someone I like working with on a project that is really super interesting (at least to me? so, fuckin' hell, at this point, that's all that matters! :cool:). Plus....*carefully looks around to make sure the "coast is clear"* it's in the "super secret center"...:cool: we have "badges" and everything. :D
 
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