How often do you have sex

[Bbl87]

I probably posted our frequency awhile back, but we're at 1-2 times a month at the moment, much to my chagrin. I could go every day, would really like at least 2-3 times a week. Of course when my libido kicked into overdrive, hers completely dissipated after already being almost non existent for years.

 

[Islander55]

You are really on the ball!

It has only taken me 64 years to figure it out but better late than never.

 

[PMarky2]

It really should not be about her looking away but the both of you understanding the need for a different partner now and then. Not as a replacement but as a supplement.

You are right, but I know my wife, and whilst she might work on the 'don't ask; don't tell' principle, she would never openly acknowledge being "supplemented." That is the main reason I have thought about it, but never done anything about it. That - and My Muse.

 

[Islander55]

You are right, but I know my wife, and whilst she might work on the 'don't ask; don't tell' principle, she would never openly acknowledge being "supplemented." That is the main reason I have thought about it, but never done anything about it. That - and My Muse.

Which leaves you in a bind with no good choices or rather no easy choices.

 

[easyoff]

Does being told "Go fuck yourself" count?

 

[1OldFaithful]

I'm fortunate to have a wife that never says no having sex. I would say we average five times a week.

 

[PMarky2]

Which leaves you in a bind with no good choices or rather no easy choices.

If you'll pardon my turn of phrase - 'Fucked, and not in a good way!'

 

[Islander55]

If you'll pardon my turn of phrase - 'Fucked, and not in a good way!'

There are solutions but are you willing to go that route.

 

[tristantrotsky]

Interesting thoughts here. I will toss out a couple of things. Most of us to want an emotional and intellectual connection with someone and most of us need some good sex. Does it need to be the same person? I have been married for almost 40 years and over the years we have developed a good relationship. Now when we retired we decided to explore the swinger/hotwife lifestyle. Last year he had a serious stroke which has put him off his game sexually. We still have a good relationship but our sexual relationship is very limited. Even at 64 I have not had much trouble finding lovers when so inclined. For the most part, I want some connection with a lover but it does not need to be deep. A friendly type relationship works as long as our sexual interests are aligned. I read about so many sexless marriages that I wonder if we should be more open to two types of relationships. I know it is not always easy to work out but it does seem better than giving up.

You are nothing if not an erotic philosopher, Islander55.
I love the way you reason issues through in a logical and rational way.
The problem, for me - if problem it is, is that genitals are attached to heart, soul and emotional responses. To fuck with someone is to establish a level of emotional intimacy as two interacting human beings. That is part of its beauty. Part of its transcendental high. Logic and reason seldom enter the equation.
I feel an affection and warmth for those I fuck. An affectionate warmth that extends to you... although that may seem odd as we have any ever interacted virtually. But that's the way I'm hardwired.
Some of us find it difficult to detach the genitals and simply enjoy sex without knowing that there is a warm and responsive human being there getting off in an equal and consensual way.

 

[Islander55]

You are nothing if not an erotic philosopher, Islander55.
I love the way you reason issues through in a logical and rational way.
The problem, for me - if problem it is, is that genitals are attached to heart, soul and emotional responses. To fuck with someone is to establish a level of emotional intimacy as two interacting human beings. That is part of its beauty. Part of its transcendental high. Logic and reason seldom enter the equation.
I feel an affection and warmth for those I fuck. An affectionate warmth that extends to you... although that may seem odd as we have any ever interacted virtually. But that's the way I'm hardwired.
Some of us find it difficult to detach the genitals and simply enjoy sex without knowing that there is a warm and responsive human being there getting off in an equal and consensual way.

I do not suggest denying that warmth and emotional connection. I am merely suggesting that it does not need to be as deep a connection as you might have with a life partner. Mostly I have had sex with men that I consider good friends so there has been an emotional bond with them. Recently I have attended some swinger type parties and have had occasion to hook up with a man that I had just met. Perhaps our knowledge of each other has been limited to a 10 minute conversation but there is still that emotion of wanting to know each other intimately.

 

[Diann_Mom]

I'm fortunate to have a wife that never says no having sex. I would say we average five times a week.

What a nice thing to say honey!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

I need a fuck buddy now that my bf and I split. I had a one night stand two weeks ago with a real jerk and that's been it for the past month.

someone's gonna get real lucky to find you!

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Wife and I do something basically every day, it's rare to miss one. not always penetration but usually. we have a good time. we've shared everything so all is in the open!

 

[strangerlove]

Nowadays, about once or twice a month. Not enough for me, but I'm a pretty horny person.

 

[Islander55]

Three times a week is my ideal but it is not always easy to arrange. My schedule is pretty flexible so I can be good to go on short notice but many of my friends have work or family obligations to schedule around. I can almost always manage once a week so I should not complain. I should mention that due to health issues, hubby is not available but does encourage me to seek outside relief.

 

[Shaglus_Ziegler]

Three times a week is my ideal but it is not always easy to arrange. My schedule is pretty flexible so I can be good to go on short notice but many of my friends have work or family obligations to schedule around. I can almost always manage once a week so I should not complain. I should mention that due to health issues, hubby is not available but does encourage me to seek outside relief.

sexy....

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

My husband has erectile issues. We haven't fucked for nearly 4 years. It doesn't matter though. I have always fucked as any cocks as I can get. Marriage hasn't stopped me getting fucked by other cocks. Both my daughters are not his. I have always been a double penetration girl.

 

[lovedoublepenetration]

I have 2-3 gangbangs almost everyday.

 

[easyoff]

I'm having a daily affair with my shower massage