Bi Married and closeted

[bi_cpl_with_crossdresser]

yes we will be married 42 yrs this yr. he loves me more than i deserve. He is the most wonderful man. i hate he no longer has sex or the desire for it.. i had so hoped to find a man for him but not in our rural area such a shame

Seems like we are in the same situation just the exact opposite. The wife and I have been married for 21 now and we have seen some shit over the years and are still together.

If you even need to chat, hit me up.

 

[Downfor]

yes we will be married 42 yrs this yr. he loves me more than i deserve. He is the most wonderful man. i hate he no longer has sex or the desire for it.. i had so hoped to find a man for him but not in our rural area such a shame

I know how you feel by living in a rural area.

 

[Tayloroc]

55 year old married male guy from Dublin Ireland. This thread is a great read. I too would like to hook up with other guys, but also I love my wife very much and wouldn't want to hurt her or lose her. Also I'm terrified of picking up something nasty or contagious. The few times I tried cruising in the Phoenix park or the sauna I found the other guys there very pushy and aggressive. I would like to warm up first and just make out for a while with some easy caresses. Give me a shout if you're in Dublin and would like to meetup.

I certainly will!!

 

[Tayloroc]

I hope I get there! I have people in Eire

 

[Tayloroc]

Hello sexy

 

[ky81nea]

hello are you male or female??? I am Female.. what would you like to chat about??

 

[Tayloroc]

I’m male. Love chatting about pleasuring my partner!

 

[ky81nea]

Is your partner male or female?
Always wanted to see my husband plow a man..

 

[Tayloroc]

My partner is female. It would be so exciting g if she’d watch!!

 

[ky81nea]

watch you with a female ?? do you swing?

 

[Lovetobebi99]

55 year old married male guy from Dublin Ireland. This thread is a great read. I too would like to hook up with other guys, but also I love my wife very much and wouldn't want to hurt her or lose her. Also I'm terrified of picking up something nasty or contagious. The few times I tried cruising in the Phoenix park or the sauna I found the other guys there very pushy and aggressive. I would like to warm up first and just make out for a while with some easy caresses. Give me a shout if you're in Dublin and would like to meetup.

Hi, married 54 year old UK guy here - totally clean / tested - I may be in Dublin later in year, for work. I’ve had some experiences but want more with a man in a similar situation. Happy to chat and swap fantasies x

 

[ChrissyCD64]

my wonderful husband even dressed up in womens clothing for me. this was way before i came out to him.. Now i would never regret my time with my husband. He is a wonderful loving husband who has now given me full permission to have my lesbian lover to live with us b/c his health will no longer allow us to have sex. But i have also encoured him to be with men if he wants and be a bottom.. so he could still engage in sex. but he has choose not too.. so glad you wife allows the cross dressing she would prob get off on you being with a man communication is key for a long happy marriage

I am bi and have been dressing as a female all of my life clear back to my days as a toddler, except for school and work. Now that I am retired I dress as a woman full-time. My wife is also bi, but much prefers women to men, she often has her girlfriends bring their husbands or boyfriends along for me to enjoy. We have been together for 54 years now, have children and grandchildren, and are still very much in love.

 

[Dad442]

I certainly will!!

Similar situation here. I avoid young guys whose raging hormones have them engaging in far too many hookups.

 

[ky81nea]

i guess Lesbians just don;t want to chat lol..

 

[Chi_Guy_68]

This would be me, except I'm still just bicurious...
I do have a couple of friends (who are both female and bi) who I've told about my curiosity. But otherwise I'm in the closet

 

[ky81nea]

yes most are. i still feel that people in their 50+ grew up when you had NO one to talk to about this and you better not think about it or you would go to hell

 

[Reggie2xx]

This would be me, except I'm still just bicurious...
I do have a couple of friends (who are both female and bi) who I've told about my curiosity. But otherwise I'm in the closet

I’m in the closet except for two male friends in Florida

 

[Tayloroc]

yes most are. i still feel that people in their 50+ grew up when you had NO one to talk to about this and you better not think about it or you would go to hell

Exactly. To even hint about being different led to ridicule!

 

[ky81nea]

Exactly. To even hint about being different led to ridicule!

yes i had feelings for my best friend and she had feelings for me but we were both too afaird to say anything. when i ended up having to move she tried to take her own life.. I did not know this was the case until after i had accepted myself and came out to my husband

 

[oldladylove]

Hi, married 54 year old UK guy here - totally clean / tested - I may be in Dublin later in year, for work. I’ve had some experiences but want more with a man in a similar situation. Happy to chat and swap fantasies x

Hey, this sounds cool. Any idea when you think you'll be here?

 

[chapter6plan]

I'm slowly coming out ... reached out to some literotica members to talk and found a hookup app to explore. I'm amazed how many 50+ guys want to suck and fuck. I met a guy a block away through the app. We very briefly tasted each others cocks and plan to do more when the time is right. It was so easy to take him in my mouth!

Question: what is your co-pay on PrEP?

 

[chapter6plan]

I'm slowly coming out ... reached out to some literotica members to talk and found a hookup app to explore. I'm amazed how many 50+ guys want to suck and fuck. I met a guy a block away through the app. We very briefly tasted each others cocks and plan to do more when the time is right. It was so easy to take him in my mouth!

Question: what is your co-pay on PrEP?

Answered my own question .... PrEP (Descovy) $50 for 90 day supply.

 

[Bathtubbill]

So, here's a story for you. Married, like to play, been sucked off more than a few times, only sucked once, and it wasn't to completion. Not really done anything in maybe 8 years now, but I fantasize often. Lately I've been going to this convenience store before work, the night cashier has been making small comments like, are you having a good day, nothing out of the ordinary, but each time it's more like he's trying to get me to say more back. It may very normal, but you know we've all read the posts about, what are the signs to look for, any signals? Well this feels like what that may be. I'm pushing late 50s, he may be upper 20s to mid 30s. I don't know, maybe I should just play a bit see how far it goes...

Nothing wrong with having a chat and see what happens

 

[ky81nea]

this should be for men only i swear i am the only female who has been on here. wish i knew how to get out of it geee

 

[Bathtubbill]

this should be for men only i swear i am the only female who has been on here. wish i knew how to get out of it geee

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