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Bi Married and closeted
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Isn’t that the truth!
tristantrotsky
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I do so empathise with you Stacy, trust is an important issue when you are giving yourself totally and without reservations to a new man. You need that absolute confidence and mutual respect when you first suck his cock, and that magical moment when you are naked together and he fucks you for the first time. These are such special times. I wish you every happiness.
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Remember, Trevor, the other guy is shy and awkward too. He doesn't know what to expect, any more than you do. It's a journey of mutual exploration. Instead of thinking of your own uncertainties, concentrate first on putting him at ease, and the rest will follow naturally...
I'm a curious straight guy who would like to find out what it is like to masterbate with another guy. Married and don't want anyone to find out. I've ask a close friend who I trust who has been single most of his life but he just doesn't want to do anything.
I am looking for the same, married masculine man in the Minneapolis St Paul area
Naughtygirl201
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Hubby's best friend is like that.... So submissive to hubby. It's sweet.
bi_cpl_with_crossdresser
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Sounds like you have a great relationship. Would love to hear more about that.
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my wonderful husband even dressed up in womens clothing for me. this was way before i came out to him.. Now i would never regret my time with my husband. He is a wonderful loving husband who has now given me full permission to have my lesbian lover to live with us b/c his health will no longer allow us to have sex. But i have also encoured him to be with men if he wants and be a bottom.. so he could still engage in sex. but he has choose not too.. so glad you wife allows the cross dressing she would prob get off on you being with a man communication is key for a long happy marriage
I never dreamed I would be craving cock and cum. But I do. About 5 years ago my wife started role playing to this every time we have sex. I went along just because it gets her so incredibly hot. Now I’m consumed with thoughts of sucking cock daily. Lit is definitely an outlet for my curiosity. Love to find a neighbor with same desire. Exploring this is so hot.
blazingsaddles69
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Hey Ray similar thoughts to find the right guy or couple hmmmmm
Nice thoughts and words. Yes you're right which is why our marriage has survived many years.
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That happened to me too. It was about ten years ago. During sex my wife told me of a fantasy of hers. She said she wanted to watch me have sex with a guy. She decsribed what she wanted to see in detail. This was 30 years into our marriage. This opened up a completely new intense erotic aspect to our sex life. We have acted it out, watched gay videos together, and she uses a strap on on me. She talks about wanting it to happen for real but we have never brought another guy in on it. When I was younger I did some oral with a couple of guys and as a result I was never turned off by gay sex. However when we started acting out this gay scenario it brought those thoughts forefront in my mind. Now I even look at gay pron when I'm alone. Many of my masturbation fantasies are homosexual. I want to suck a cock and take one up the ass but have never tried. I came close. I contacted a gay erotic masseur by email, but I never followed up and booked an appointment. My wife talks about it for real but I'm not sure she wants me to really go all the way.
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why not talk to your wife about same sex switching?? sense she is the one who talks of it.
I'm in Pennsylvania near Bloomsburg
bi_cpl_with_crossdresser
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Wow, that sounds hot. You guys must have had a seriously strong relationship.
oldladylove
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55 year old married male guy from Dublin Ireland. This thread is a great read. I too would like to hook up with other guys, but also I love my wife very much and wouldn't want to hurt her or lose her. Also I'm terrified of picking up something nasty or contagious. The few times I tried cruising in the Phoenix park or the sauna I found the other guys there very pushy and aggressive. I would like to warm up first and just make out for a while with some easy caresses. Give me a shout if you're in Dublin and would like to meetup.
yes we will be married 42 yrs this yr. he loves me more than i deserve. He is the most wonderful man. i hate he no longer has sex or the desire for it.. i had so hoped to find a man for him but not in our rural area such a shame
Illinoisguy1980
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The hard part is finding someone close by to experiment and be discreet
blazingsaddles69
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So true
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Well let me try this one more time.
Bi-Curious MWM 63 y/o, told I look much younger, in an open marriage and my wife knows of my bi desires and approves as long as I play safe. I am looking for a man, CD, or transsexual to help teach me how to be a good cocksucker and potentially to fuck me. If you want to suck my cock I'm cool with that, if you want me to fuck you too, I am also cool with that, although that is not mandatory. I am located in middle Tennessee not far from Cookeville. Because of the agreement my wife and I have I can't entertain in our home and neither can she. I am willing to meet up in a public place to see if we are compatable and then either pay for a motel room or share the cost. I am not interested in car sex, or park sex, or any place where we may be seen or get caught and arrested. Honestly I would prefer someone that does not have a ton of partners as admittedly disease scares the shit out of me.
Bi-Curious MWM 63 y/o, told I look much younger, in an open marriage and my wife knows of my bi desires and approves as long as I play safe. I am looking for a man, CD, or transsexual to help teach me how to be a good cocksucker and potentially to fuck me. If you want to suck my cock I'm cool with that, if you want me to fuck you too, I am also cool with that, although that is not mandatory. I am located in middle Tennessee not far from Cookeville. Because of the agreement my wife and I have I can't entertain in our home and neither can she. I am willing to meet up in a public place to see if we are compatable and then either pay for a motel room or share the cost. I am not interested in car sex, or park sex, or any place where we may be seen or get caught and arrested. Honestly I would prefer someone that does not have a ton of partners as admittedly disease scares the shit out of me.
