Bi Married and closeted

[hulmule]

"Need more stimulation..." that's why I am here

oh i hear ya. Used to have lovely lady, we would watch each other in video chats and make each other cum in the mornings. She hasnt been on since the change over of Lit. miss her. That was great stimulation !!

 

[Stacy_TG]

We can dream. Society is getting more lenient on sexuality so we may see something like this in the near future. Just need to address diseases. Would love to end a work day sucking cock or being taken by a hard cock.

Disease is the great turn off for this girl right here! I wish I knew a guy that I could trust completely so that I could be my feminine self for his sexual desires.

I’d be okay if I could meet a guy and get to know him…. Use my hands until we built trust, then move to…other things….

 

[rockoid2]

Disease is the great turn off for this girl right here! I wish I knew a guy that I could trust completely so that I could be my feminine self for his sexual desires.

I’d be okay if I could meet a guy and get to know him…. Use my hands until we built trust, then move to…other things….

That's what you have to do, establish a FWB, can't be one night stands or casual hook ups.

 

[845uncut]

Totally agree. Wish I could visit a man-only space today

We already do, they’re called cruising area. I frequent one nearby and at most times when the weather is good you’ll have anywhere from three to six guys hanging out, telling their experiences and playing around with each other’s private parts. After a while you see the same other guys and it’s like a club. I really love the freedom of being open.

 

[mtsnowrider]

It gets me thinking how much better a place the world would be if it were accepted that, no matter how single or happily married a man is, he has sex with other men and doesn’t discuss it with his wife. As in, she knows it happens but treats it like a hobby of his she isn’t interested in, and it has no effect on their marriage.

Kind of like having a tennis partner or a fishing buddy when she isn't interested in either of those activities

 

[klippert]

It gets me thinking how much better a place the world would be if it were accepted that, no matter how single or happily married a man is, he has sex with other men and doesn’t discuss it with his wife. As in, she knows it happens but treats it like a hobby of his she isn’t interested in, and it has no effect on their marriage.

It is accepted. Just because a wife doesn’t accept it doesn’t make it unacceptable. No one gives a rip. As long as it’s not plunged down peoples throat and forced to accept one’s choice, and min*ors are not involved. I find it funny that people think gay or bi is r accepted, or people don’t like be forced to accept.

 

[MrRandyWatson]

It is accepted. Just because a wife doesn’t accept it doesn’t make it unacceptable. No one gives a rip. As long as it’s not plunged down peoples throat and forced to accept one’s choice, and min*ors are not involved. I find it funny that people think gay or bi is r accepted, or people don’t like be forced to accept.

It’s accepted as men being on the DL for sure, but I was meaning more openly accepted, as in “everyone does it and it’s only discussed in close circles,” like watching porn or something. Some wives may have a problem with it, but in general, most wives will adopt a don’t-ask-don’t-tell policy toward their husbands’ activities with other men.

And yes, everything should be entirely age-appropriate, even if the detail of “men have sex with other men and it’s kind of no big deal” is included in the sex talk parents give their kids, and it’s understood that people fuck around in high school. But there would be a hard-and-fast rule of no one under whatever the accepted age of majority is (18 in the US, though in places like Japan it’s 20.) Beyond that, there would be a few written rules (consent, discretion, STD testing, etc.) and many unwritten rules (at 18 it’s understood that you get initiated by a group of older men, not in a hazing way but in a welcoming and exciting way.)

 

[klippert]

It’s accepted as men being on the DL for sure, but I was meaning more openly accepted, as in “everyone does it and it’s only discussed in close circles,” like watching porn or something. Some wives may have a problem with it, but in general, most wives will adopt a don’t-ask-don’t-tell policy toward their husbands’ activities with other men.

And yes, everything should be entirely age-appropriate, even if the detail of “men have sex with other men and it’s kind of no big deal” is included in the sex talk parents give their kids, and it’s understood that people fuck around in high school. But there would be a hard-and-fast rule of no one under whatever the accepted age of majority is (18 in the US, though in places like Japan it’s 20.) Beyond that, there would be a few written rules (consent, discretion, STD testing, etc.) and many unwritten rules (at 18 it’s understood that you get initiated by a group of older men, not in a hazing way but in a welcoming and exciting way.)

I get the feeling people are looking for some sort of prize or award, or during friends getting together; a husband pipe’s up. “Jim. Want me to suck your cock”, and everyone gets misty at how accepting they are.
We lost the intimacy of sex. It has to be in your face. If you need a reason for people to not seem accepting to others choices. It’s the constant in your face, or the shit kids are be jammed with and parents are now in the wtf mode.
Wives that don’t just jump. Has more to do with them not wanting to compete or risk a deadly std. mostly they married a man. And never considered their husbands as a cock sucker.
This is why I keep saying it. Live your life, know the risks and accept the consequences. Quit blame a society that doesn’t give a rip, unless, as I’ve previously mentioned. Keeping a little part of your life in the bedroom is not such a bad idea. I get it you want to suck cock, but you know your wife will lose it. That I can’t help you with. I suggest there are a lot of resources online you can use to suck that dick on the DL.
Please people don’t over think this. And Don’t blame others

 

[Rayjay507]

How many are similar to me in that this and reading the stories becomes your outlet?
58 orally bi mwm who is overly cautious almost paranoid about meeting someone and the repercussions of coming out are more than I wish to deal with.

I can;t be alone in this

 

[bimori]

I get the feeling people are looking for some sort of prize or award, or during friends getting together; a husband pipe’s up. “Jim. Want me to suck your cock”, and everyone gets misty at how accepting they are.
We lost the intimacy of sex. It has to be in your face. If you need a reason for people to not seem accepting to others choices. It’s the constant in your face, or the shit kids are be jammed with and parents are now in the wtf mode.
Wives that don’t just jump. Has more to do with them not wanting to compete or risk a deadly std. mostly they married a man. And never considered their husbands as a cock sucker.
This is why I keep saying it. Live your life, know the risks and accept the consequences. Quit blame a society that doesn’t give a rip, unless, as I’ve previously mentioned. Keeping a little part of your life in the bedroom is not such a bad idea. I get it you want to suck cock, but you know your wife will lose it. That I can’t help you with. I suggest there are a lot of resources online you can use to suck that dick on the DL.
Please people don’t over think this. And Don’t blame others

Well said kilp

 

[mtsnowrider]

It would be a hell of a lot easier if there was some simple way of letting another guy know you were interested. I chatted online with two local guys yesterday. One seemed very promising until we were arranging to meet and chat when he let me know he used a cane and could not drive. I think basically he was looking for a ride to a diner for breakfast.
The other promised all manner of orgasmic pleasure and seemed very eager until I suggested a meet and chat which seemed to end the conversation.
Guess I am going to take out my frustration at the gym ( where the eye candy feeds the frustration) and jerk off some more

 

[Mtnmike]

I am bi-curious but not about receiving anal, but the thought of a man sliding his cock up and down my ass and rubbing it on my hole until he cums on my ass is very arousing to me.

I also love the thought of licking and sucking on a cock and having him cum in my mouth, and giving me a facial

Never ever attracted to men, as my marriage continues to be sexless, I find these thoughts creeping into my mind to.

 

[Mtnmike]

Confused by this "as"?

Sorry tablet had a quirk as I hit post.

 

[vizio]

Never ever attracted to men, as my marriage continues to be sexless, I find these thoughts creeping into my mind to.

Not married but my prospects of having sex with a woman are slim so I thought about trying sex with a man. After all sex is about pleasure giving and receiving my first experience with a man was fun but a little disappointing since he wasn't able to achieve an erection. Still sucking his cock got me hot so much so I had to kiss him.

 

[peter49parker]

It would be a hell of a lot easier if there was some simple way of letting another guy know you were interested. I chatted online with two local guys yesterday. One seemed very promising until we were arranging to meet and chat when he let me know he used a cane and could not drive. I think basically he was looking for a ride to a diner for breakfast.
The other promised all manner of orgasmic pleasure and seemed very eager until I suggested a meet and chat which seemed to end the conversation.
Guess I am going to take out my frustration at the gym ( where the eye candy feeds the frustration) and jerk off some more

There are a multitude of instances in life, where you must 'separate the wheat from the chaff.' Finding a suitable buddy to engage with, is one of them. Believe me, there is a lot of 'chaff' out there. Be patient.

 

[Replicant2018]

Not married but my prospects of having sex with a woman are slim so I thought about trying sex with a man. After all sex is about pleasure giving and receiving my first experience with a man was fun but a little disappointing since he wasn't able to achieve an erection. Still sucking his cock got me hot so much so I had to kiss him.

Great . You go gurl!

 

[eigenschwarz]

I'm out to my wife, but otherwise closeted. Our marriage is mostly sexless because of her medical issues, and some of the guys I see at the gym make me want to just kneel before them and inhale their cocks, but she wants our relationship to remain monogamous even though that means celibacy for me. Rather than leave her because it's not her fault she has her medical issues I've been lurking here, reading lewd stories on Literotica, and jerking off. Sometimes I share a particularly hot story with her so we can masturbate together.

 

[Mtnmike]

I'm out to my wife, but otherwise closeted. Our marriage is mostly sexless because of her medical issues, and some of the guys I see at the gym make me want to just kneel before them and inhale their cocks, but she wants our relationship to remain monogamous even though that means celibacy for me. Rather than leave her because it's not her fault she has her medical issues I've been lurking here, reading lewd stories on Literotica, and jerking off. Sometimes I share a particularly hot story with her so we can masturbate together.

Least y'all masturbate together sometimes, that would be a plus for me as she never let me watch her do it.

 

[eigenschwarz]

Least y'all masturbate together sometimes, that would be a plus for me as she never let me watch her do it.

Mutual masturbation was our favorite form of contraception. Free, fun, and doesn't fuck with her already messed-up hormones.

 

[Crios]

Least y'all masturbate together sometimes, that would be a plus for me as she never let me watch her do it.

I almost feel guilty. My wife's libido was almost killed by menopause. We're down to once/week and the good thing is she seems to still enjoy it. Usually get her off with my mouth and fingers and toys 3-4 times in a session. She hasn't gotten off from my cock in quite a few years but at least I can still make her feel good.

So, why am I now interested in men? Probably goes back to my early teens when I'd sneak my mom's nylons and garter belts. Not that cross dressing is necessarily a sign of being bi but add to the fact that I was flexible enough to get my cock in my mouth and keep it there while cumming let me know that I loved the feel and taste of a cock and cum. Later on, I accidentally discovered a shemale movie (this was back in the pre-internet days of adult book stores) and really got excited by that.

Then after we'd been married for a while, one night my wife was jacking me off while in my recliner and I shot my cum across my chest. She dragged her finger through it and put it in my mouth. She didn't know, of course, about my earlier forays with cum - thought this was the first time I'd eaten my load. Since then, we've done snowballing after cumming in her mouth. I also have eaten her creampies more times than I can count.

A few years ago, we both got more into butt play. Now it's rare when both of us don't have a plug in our asses. That's led to her pegging me regularly also.

So...I've done just about everything a man can do with another man except with my wife: sucked cock, eaten cum and taken a hard cock in my boi pussy. Couple that with the wonderful bi and gay porn available, I now know that, if anything were to result in my being single again (god forbid!), I'd actively seek out being with another man (or men!)

 

[Mtnmike]

I almost feel guilty. My wife's libido was almost killed by menopause. We're down to once/week and the good thing is she seems to still enjoy it. Usually get her off with my mouth and fingers and toys 3-4 times in a session. She hasn't gotten off from my cock in quite a few years but at least I can still make her feel good.

So, why am I now interested in men? Probably goes back to my early teens when I'd sneak my mom's nylons and garter belts. Not that cross dressing is necessarily a sign of being bi but add to the fact that I was flexible enough to get my cock in my mouth and keep it there while cumming let me know that I loved the feel and taste of a cock and cum. Later on, I accidentally discovered a shemale movie (this was back in the pre-internet days of adult book stores) and really got excited by that.

Then after we'd been married for a while, one night my wife was jacking me off while in my recliner and I shot my cum across my chest. She dragged her finger through it and put it in my mouth. She didn't know, of course, about my earlier forays with cum - thought this was the first time I'd eaten my load. Since then, we've done snowballing after cumming in her mouth. I also have eaten her creampies more times than I can count.

A few years ago, we both got more into butt play. Now it's rare when both of us don't have a plug in our asses. That's led to her pegging me regularly also.

So...I've done just about everything a man can do with another man except with my wife: sucked cock, eaten cum and taken a hard cock in my boi pussy. Couple that with the wonderful bi and gay porn available, I now know that, if anything were to result in my being single again (god forbid!), I'd actively seek out being with another man (or men!)

Wow, some things you mentioned in your earlier life described me to but I've never thought about what it might have meant. I've always been with & into women but you now have me wondering.

 

[Crios]

Wow, some things you mentioned in your earlier life described me to but I've never thought about what it might have meant. I've always been with & into women but you now have me wondering.

Well, don't get me wrong but I still women. My wife, in particular. However, I would dearly love to be dressed in lingerie (wife doesn't know about that part!) while being spit roasted by two bears. I'm definitely bottom

 

[Mtnmike]

Well, don't get me wrong but I still women. My wife, in particular. However, I would dearly love to be dressed in lingerie (wife doesn't know about that part!) while being spit roasted by two bears. I'm definitely bottom

I see, I have never thought about being penetrated just touching & oral, even though in my teen year's I did insert things back there. Raised in church with a very religious family & always thought I was weird or something was wrong with me, never told anyone before.

 

[eigenschwarz]

I almost feel guilty. My wife's libido was almost killed by menopause. We're down to once/week and the good thing is she seems to still enjoy it.

Menopause did a number on my wife's libido, too, along with a nasty little condition called lichen sclerosus. She can't masturbate often, and PIV sex is right out; I haven't fucked my wife in five years. Sometimes she'll play with my ass, but I've been bicurious since my early twenties, admitted it to her in my early thirties, but have yet to try anything. I won't as long as I'm married, and I'm not going to divorce my wife over sex.

 

[Crios]

Menopause did a number on my wife's libido, too, along with a nasty little condition called lichen sclerosus. She can't masturbate often, and PIV sex is right out; I haven't fucked my wife in five years. Sometimes she'll play with my ass, but I've been bicurious since my early twenties, admitted it to her in my early thirties, but have yet to try anything. I won't as long as I'm married, and I'm not going to divorce my wife over sex.

It's unfortunate that the hormonal treatments they used to give women to help overcome the negative affects of menopause (decreased libido, dryness, moodiness) have been found to cause cancer. My wife tried the hormonal cream for a while but she stopped because of the possible danger.