But when it comes to Sex

[t_h_seacrest]

I suppose it was about the first time I looked at a dirty magazine and frankly the first time reading dirty stories, or dirty parts in novels, probably someone getting tied up or girls having first-time lesbian sex; and unto this present day, aside from the stimulus factor, the whole package of taboos, fears, restrictions, warnings... it's just all so fascinating.

When I see threads/posts with people telling how open to play, experimentation, kinks, their spouses are... salute.

Then other threads/posts feature sentiments like, "wow I wish my wife would do that!"

Isn't it weird. Spouses/partners can know so much about the other's darker tendencies that lurk outside the frames of sex. But if say a hubby becomes intrigued by ideas he's encountered on the internet, like here, he can find himself in a sticky perplexity. A suitable overarching descriptive might be, "fuck, if my wife knew half the kinky stuff that is crowding my mind!"

Looks like a wave of more casualness is coming closer but still there's a lot of social mine fields out here.

 

[HumpDayHoratio]

You definitely don’t want to deluge a SO with kinks and fetishes! That‘s a sure way to never get to dabble in whatever floats your boat! In my case it was slowly introduced over many years.

Especially when the Mrs became “self aware” so to speak. I picked up on what she was laying down and even then, slowly pushed some boundaries.

Our minds are an amazing thing to behold!

 

[MindYaBitness]

My kinks have stayed pretty consistent since adolescence. I love exhibition, and anything nipple related.

I quite literally just got home from a movie where I wore a shelf bra so my husband could play with my tits & squeeze my nipples in public for two hours, then sucked him off in the car on our way home. He's more reserved, he does it for me!

I think the only thing I haven't talked to him about that I've found on here is lactation. I love the thought of heavy, slightly painful tips. But, I think in practice it might not be so much fun, so I haven't brought it up.

 

[Erosfan]

I'll keep that in mind. Any male sluts out there?

My late wife called me her slut. I loved her and I would do anything for her.

 

[ryeandginger69]

I'll keep that in mind. Any male sluts out there?

Well... it's best to start by marrying a slut.

Well... it's best to start by marrying a slut.

I was between wives, and decided to ask out a gorgeous blonde law firm secretary I used to flirt with when I was married. During our dinner date she revealed "I'm a bit of a prude". After dinner I took her home, shook her hand at the door and didn't call her for a second date.

Not long after, a friend of mine hooked up with her and spent a miserable couple of years living with her. I kept thinking "Poor bastard - I might be in your place but for my survival instincts."

 

[Erosfan]

I'm sorry for yout loss

Thank you.

 

[Dolle]

I'm usually down for whatever I think I might be addicted to the feeling I get as my cums shooting out my cock so just as long as shes making me cum again and again I'll be her slut or we can be each other's slut and just make each other cum like crazy all day

 

[Dolle]

One thing I love doing but hardly can get anybody to do it with me, is for a lady to kinda trade pics and vids with me. She sends sexy pics and I'll send her pics showing how hard her pics made my cock get and if she sends videos of her playing with her pussy in return I send a video showing all the cum my cock released from seeing her play with her pussy I love being able to watch a girl pleasure herself knowing that I'm jacking off to it and wanting to see me cumming for her

 

[Shi_One81]

Wife here…
The first time the hubs and I exchanged messages I let him know about my kinks, fetishes, and that I had no desire to be monogamous. For me, being open and honest up front worked.
I get that it’s not like that for everyone and that sucks. Your partner can’t help you fulfill fantasies they don’t even know you have.

 

[Sexysophiemill]

My late wife called me her slut. I loved her and I would do anything for her.

so sorry for your loss

 

[Erosfan]

so sorry for your loss

thank you.

 

[Erosfan]

I'm sorry for yout loss

Thank you.

 

[Tom197738]

One thing I love doing but hardly can get anybody to do it with me, is for a lady to kinda trade pics and vids with me. She sends sexy pics and I'll send her pics showing how hard her pics made my cock get and if she sends videos of her playing with her pussy in return I send a video showing all the cum my cock released from seeing her play with her pussy I love being able to watch a girl pleasure herself knowing that I'm jacking off to it and wanting to see me cumming for her

 

[CarlyAnn]

My late wife called me her slut. I loved her and I would do anything for her.

Sometimes you read something that just tugs at your heart; this is one of those times. May she rest in peace.

 

[Erosfan]

Sometimes you read something that just tugs at your heart; this is one of those times. May she rest in peace.

Thank you for your kind words.

 

[magicalmoments]

My 1st wife was quite naive and sexually inexperienced but she loved sex and was very adventurous. One of my early fantasies, mainly from reading old Penthouse Forum mags, was "wife swapping". When I first raised that with her as a concept her reaction was very quick. "If you think we're going there then you have another think coming buddy". I kept bringing it up over the next year or so, bought a swingers contact magazine from the local adult store (this was pre internet days). She looked through that, read the profiles and the letters/confessions they published and we talked about it more, role played, and she was becoming quite turned on to the idea. Then one evening when I got home from work she told me that she had written and sent a profile for us into the magazine asking other couples to contact us. She never looked back.

 

[Dolle]

I'll keep that in mind. Any male sluts out there?

Yep

 

[shymalea]

I'll keep that in mind. Any male sluts out there?

i,m a naughty teasing obedient slut,i know that but i get many comments from others about my slutty behaviour

 

[ryeandginger69]

i,m a naughty teasing obedient slut,i know that but i get many comments from others about my slutty behaviour

Very erotic!

 

[ryeandginger69]

My 1st wife was quite naive and sexually inexperienced but she loved sex and was very adventurous. One of my early fantasies, mainly from reading old Penthouse Forum mags, was "wife swapping". When I first raised that with her as a concept her reaction was very quick. "If you think we're going there then you have another think coming buddy". I kept bringing it up over the next year or so, bought a swingers contact magazine from the local adult store (this was pre internet days). She looked through that, read the profiles and the letters/confessions they published and we talked about it more, role played, and she was becoming quite turned on to the idea. Then one evening when I got home from work she told me that she had written and sent a profile for us into the magazine asking other couples to contact us. She never looked back.

Would love to read about how it went from there!

 

[Goldenfinger]

Well... it's best to start by marrying a slut.

Just because they are a slut doesn’t mean they are kinky.

 

[CountryBlssom]

I think it is pretty common for a lot of couples to keep a lot of their sexual desires hidden for fear of judgement and that those fantasies may be taboo. That can also lead to sexual ruts and boredom which can translate over to a lack of interest and boredom in the bedroom.

Now it is easy to say two people being married should be totally open with each other but easier said then done especially when it might come to the taboo side of things and how do you put some things back in the box.

My husband and I met in college when both of us were far from saints and we knew it. So later on there was not a lot of need to pretend some stuff didn't happen and I think that made it easier to start being totally open.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I think it is pretty common for a lot of couples to keep a lot of their sexual desires hidden for fear of judgement and that those fantasies may be taboo. That can also lead to sexual ruts and boredom which can translate over to a lack of interest and boredom in the bedroom.

Now it is easy to say two people being married should be totally open with each other but easier said then done especially when it might come to the taboo side of things and how do you put some things back in the box.

My husband and I met in college when both of us were far from saints and we knew it. So later on there was not a lot of need to pretend some stuff didn't happen and I think that made it easier to start being totally open.

I totally agree. A frequent question posted her is how do I tell my wife. I’m fortunate enough that my wife just says what she wants Which in return make me at ease to do the same. My wife say ”if I don’t tell you then you will keep doing what I don’t like or not do what I like” We also started off on the right foot.

 

[CountryBlssom]

I totally agree. A frequent question posted her is how do I tell my wife. I’m fortunate enough that my wife just says what she wants Which in return make me at ease to do the same. My wife say ”if I don’t tell you then you will keep doing what I don’t like or not do what I like” We also started off on the right foot.

It really can be a great and fun conversation when both open up and do not judge realizing you're just chatting at this point and getting to explore each other more than most people.

 

[Goldenfinger]

It really can be a great and fun conversation when both open up and do not judge realizing you're just chatting at this point and getting to explore each other more than most people.

I would agree. But people are scared of judgement. Thats kinda sad. I would hope that you would have a better trusting nonjudgmental relationship with someone you call a partner.