Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[SmokingFap]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

I have never quite figured it out. Is it the anonymity? The overall level of sexual energy?

 

[SmokingFap]

I have never quite figured it out. Is it the anonymity? The overall level of sexual energy?

I'm sure it's a combination of both of those things. But there must be something more...

 

[SmokingFap]

I'm just saying I've had so much fun talking about jerking off with other men and women on here. And obviously we can't just talk about it with other people around the water cooler at work. Shame.

 

[Smarthomanid2]

Its arousing b/c I feel free to be completely honest about what I like/need sexually, know I wont be judged and probably meet someone who likes it too.

That is sooo true.

 

[SmokingFap]

I think it's much more liberating and exciting for guys to talk about jerking off anonymously. Like, we'd love to talk about it at the water cooler, how much fun we had jerking off the night before, but for whatever reason, that is absolutely off limits. But when you're on an anonymous chat board, you're thrilled to talk about how much fun you had squirting your load. Why is that?

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I think it's much more liberating and exciting for guys to talk about jerking off anonymously.

It's that and more, it's so much easier to tell others how you feel, what you think, dream, imagine.

 

[SmokingFap]

It's that and more, it's so much easier to tell others how you feel, what you think, dream, imagine.

LOL. Too deep for this site, Neitzche...

 

[Lucien_Al]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

Agree with that. I love chatting with either men or women about masturbating. No judgement.

 

[BadDad1953]

I agree with what everyone is saying. When I was growing up and discovering myself, my body and what sex was, I was taught that masturbation was a sin. It was also thought that you could go blind, get hairy palms etc, etc. I've discovered that none of that was true, of course. What is true is that nobody really knows how to please someone better than themselves. I know what I like, what feels good and how to get there. I can express that here and know I won't be judged, ridiculed or told that what I do is wrong and I will afford that same consideration to others.

 

[SmokingFap]

I agree with what everyone is saying. When I was growing up and discovering myself, my body and what sex was, I was taught that masturbation was a sin. It was also thought that you could go blind, get hairy palms etc, etc. I've discovered that none of that was true, of course. What is true is that nobody really knows how to please someone better than themselves. I know what I like, what feels good and how to get there. I can express that here and know I won't be judged, ridiculed or told that what I do is wrong and I will afford that same consideration to others.

Perfectly said. And, if that is actually you in your avatar, fabulous cock! I prefer tits and pussy, but I could certainly have fun with that...

 

[Smtg1]

Its arousing b/c I feel free to be completely honest about what I like/need sexually, know I wont be judged and probably meet someone who likes it too.

Exactly

 

[Lucien_Al]

But in RL people seldom talk about it.

 

[Corbie]

Its arousing b/c I feel free to be completely honest about what I like/need sexually, know I wont be judged and probably meet someone who likes it too.

Glad we met?

 

[Adrock1981]

it's about having fun with others in a safe environment and maybe make a new friend

 

[hilton1958]

I think it is because we all do it, we love it, but we are repressed from talking about it in our day to day real lives because of social norms and etiquette which makes it frowned on. Then we find that here we can really just be ourselves, be open and honest, talking freely and in detail about it, and that level of sensual freedom I guess is arousing in itself, not having to hide or be ashamed of our sexual selves.

 

[hilton1958]

Its arousing b/c I feel free to be completely honest about what I like/need sexually, know I wont be judged and probably meet someone who likes it too.

Yes, maybe especially the part about not being judged as "perverts". In real life, even those who would judge us, have many of the same fantasies and desires, but they would never admit it. Here we can let it all out.

 

[LeeKee]

Masturbation helps more than hurts sometimes. Like this for example- Wofe shuts down emotionally, physically, no sex. Ever. But you shouldn’t masturbate because it’s bad. Oh and you can’t stray from your marriage. But your never getting sex again at home. So what’s the fucking answer? Fuck it, I’m gonna stroke. People are really un-fucking- realistic when it comes to shit like this. It’s cruel, it’s a naive and just not grounded in reality. Wanna be a walking corpse fine, i still want something related to life and it’s enjoyable aspects. Everything has to be Fuckin miserable and out of reach or unobtainable with some people. Then cry foul because you are human and unapologetically so. WTF-ever. Enjoy wanking.

 

[Wag_that_tail86]

Masturbation is one of the most intense, personal and intimate acts, it's amazing and liberating to share the experience with others when often we can't in everyday life.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Its arousing b/c I feel free to be completely honest about what I like/need sexually, know I wont be judged and probably meet someone who likes it too.

Exactly.

 

[Handeguy]

I couldn't agree more with everything everyone else has said! I find that there is something that really intensifies the arousal of whatever is exciting me when I know it's also exciting somebody else, too. When I'm here, I can think my most erotic, but normally private thoughts with zero inhibition. When I get to share that with somebody else...whoa, that's powerful stuff.

 

[Handeguy]

a way to let your mind ejaculate as much as the rest of your body.

Couldn't have said it better!

 

[DennisB]

Coming to this site, has many attractions. One is finding and bonding with another for some private sensual time.

It is not an easy thing, you have to click, both of you have to have the time, and you both have to have the ability to masturbate; i,e., be alone.

We are all here because our sex drives are huge; whether you are sexually satisfied at home or not, you’re here because your sex drive has a need. I am stating the obvious, lol!

If you can find someone and satisfy each other’s needs, why not! Men are more open to it then the ladies are but that is changing slightly. Men want a little more than just sensual talking. Some want pictures, audio, video, or kinds of dialogue that cross a line. Women want seduction both sensually and sexually. Women also want security; make me feel wanted, safe, and respected first and then I will show you how hot this inner slut can be, lol.

People come here to bond and then after their urges have been quenched, they want to continue their day. Very rare to find someone that wants to find someone on here and actually meet and begin a relationship. Many are already attached, people could be hundreds if not thousands of miles away, and some are just not ready to form a lasting friendship. Again, I am stating the obvious.

So I say, what is wrong with that? Go ahead. Guys, don’t be a douche bag. Treat her nice. She is a woman first, treat her like a lady and don’t worry, if she likes you, she will show you a side of her that will make you rock hard.

Girls, you have a computer or phone between you and him. Let your hair down and be playful. It is impossible to get a reputation on Lit, lol! Don’t share too many personal things but you should enjoy yourself; that is why you are here. . So if he seems like a nice guy, have some fun!

 

[BadDad1953]

Perfectly said. And, if that is actually you in your avatar, fabulous cock! I prefer tits and pussy, but I could certainly have fun with that...

It's me!

 

[Smarthomanid2]

I have never quite figured it out. Is it the anonymity? The overall level of sexual energy?

Who is deleted member, that’s a cool name