Why is it so arousing to talk to strangers on Lit about masturbating?

[Series 6]

They are some of my best friends-range in age from mid 40s to mid 70s..so a mature bunch. known them for 30 years. .have yet to have a conversation about masturbation..but other things have come up.. I'm sure it would not be out of the question to bring up masturbation..

Perfect for a day or evening watching football or other sports and a halftime conversation. I think there is a story line for that our on Lit in the stories section somewhere...

 

[SloanePlanet66]

Spank it. I won’t tell anyone, just between us. And all these other wankers here.

 

[CuriousJInLA]

In all honesty I just enjoy a real connection, even if it’s virtual

 

[Justynewhitney]

I have secret gay fantasies and I can play them out with people here. When I'm on lit, I'm fully queer and it's fun.

 

[MiaBabe23]

Everything about it fascinates and arouses me if it’s someone I feel drawn to; what makes them want to, what they think about during, their sounds, their expressions

 

[thetabeta88]

Everything about it fascinates and arouses me if it’s someone I feel drawn to; what makes them want to, what they think about during, their sounds, their expressions

I bet you are a treat to watch when you are masturbating... the sounds, the expressions...

 

[Xplrngplsr]

I think it's fascinating and a turn on because we see people at work or in life and wonder about what they do when they're alone. Talking about it here confirms that they're enjoying themselves just like I am. It's my favorite thing to talk about.

 

[liqueur]

What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

I don't know, I've never seen the appeal, myself. I really love talking with strangers here about naughty secrets, and talking dirty with them. But jerking off? I don't care much about talking about it, mine or theirs.

 

[womaneater58]

We can be open and honest in our discussions about sex, be our pervy selves. We can masturbate together and share our fantasies because we will never meet, so we wouldn't be embarrassed.

 

[Elliott62]

That's what I love about this ..mutual masturbation on a grand scale..sharing an very intimately private function..which most people do. But have been discouraged from talking about because of strict society mores.. it's so erotic to think that as womaneater58 says...we can masturbate to gather.. I'm willing to bet that each and every person reading thru and commenting on this thread is doing so while stroking his cock or fingering her pussy.i know I myself am doing that., slowly stroking my cock while picturing other men .or trans women..do the very thing. . Wouldn't it be Wonderful if there were a way..for everyone who wanted to..to go live with their masturbation and watch others doing the same..while preserving anonymity.

 

[RodDavison]

I'm just saying I've had so much fun talking about jerking off with other men and women on here. And obviously we can't just talk about it with other people around the water cooler at work. Shame.

I always enjoy talking about any aspect of my sexuality anywhere. Always jump at the chance, because it's not something you can do in normal day to day life.

 

[phunkyphresh]

I find it to be liberating and arousing to talk to other people about masturbating on here, men or women. I wish it could just be water cooler talk at the office! What is it for you that makes it exciting to just chat about masturbating with other people on Lit?

same, wish i had come to the forums so much sooner than i have. i think it feels like a safe space to do it.

 

[Wonderer67]

Pretty much everyone masturbates.

So I imagine what women I work with are like in their private time.

How do they do it? Whats their ritual? What gets them off? I would love to tell them how I get off.

 

[DryRottingHusk]

I would love to talk while i masturbate

 

[LeinadVirgo]

For some reason knowing others share in your secret desires makes it so much butter

 

[DryRottingHusk]

For some reason knowing others share in your secret desires makes it so much butter

FACTS %

 

[Elliott62]

I'm just saying I've had so much fun talking about jerking off with other men and women on here. And obviously we can't just talk about it with other people around the water cooler at work. Shame.

I couldn't agree more .again most people masturbation. Yet will only really talk about it in hushed voices and quiet groups.. I've quickly discovered that I also have had so much fun talking about jerking off..every time I come back to this thread.. I wind up jerking off . it's both sort of funny and so totally cock hardening to imagine others may be doing the exact same thing ...and yes I was rubbing my cock and balls this whole time

 

[PlayfulJay]

Many people treat masturbation as a secret solitary thing that they do, so it's always a turn=on to know about other people's masturbation habits.

Exactly. I do think masturbation is incredibly intimate and personal, but that’s what makes sharing it with someone so erotic . Just focusing on masturbation as its own experience, and sharing that with someone who is basically a stranger is just so sexy and fun.

 

[womaneater58]

I might not be able to explain why it arouses me, but it does and I enjoy it.

 

[Elliott62]

Exactly. I do think masturbation is incredibly intimate and personal, but that’s what makes sharing it with someone so erotic . Just focusing on masturbation as its own experience, and sharing that with someone who is basically a stranger is just so sexy and fun.

YESSS ! I am amazed all the positive insights about this.
So many ring true/ feel exactly right.

 

[Elliott62]

Not tell..hell tell everyone..all these wankers here..you know that hottest thing ..I again Im willing to bet everyone on this thread is wanking while reading and typing..one handed of course..I most definitely am