Poly Cuck

[Myuniversewithin]

Hi.. we are looking to hear from people who are in Poly relationship and a Cuck by nature.

About us.. we are aged 45 (me - husband) and 40 (wife) and me with Cuck fantasies. Now we are opening up to Poly relationship with another guy into our relationship (M-F-M).

L ove to hear your experiences in this. I am sure it will be roller coaster for me as husband.

 

[Justfantasies]

I have always been poly since my earliest sexual experiences at high school and college. There always seems to have been more than one girl in my life and the little teens I dated at the time seemed to love it too, especially when they felt that they could open up to me about the other guys

I didn't become an open cuck until my first marriage though

I am Larry -- who are you? Straight. What does the wife look like?

 

[Myuniversewithin]

I am straight but during one of the sessions of wife with other guy, wife asked me to suck dick. Other than that .. I am straight with intense cuck fantasies

 

[daystate]

I always understood that poly was a theme where another person moved in on a permanent basis.
What boundaries have you set.
The fantasy already lives "rent free" in your head.The last thing you want is a freeloader.
Unless thats your thing.

 

[Bbl87]

Sounds like more "open" than "poly," for the reason daystar said.

Jealous that your wife is open to it! I have some pretty intense "bull" (if that's the term you want to use) fantasies but subtly tried to gauge how she'd feel about an open relationship/swinging/etc. and that was a hard pass for her.

 

[daystate]

Sounds like more "open" than "poly," for the reason daystar said.

Jealous that your wife is open to it! I have some pretty intense "bull" (if that's the term you want to use) fantasies but subtly tried to gauge how she'd feel about an open relationship/swinging/etc. and that was a hard pass for her.

Did you get the standard "you want to sleep with other women" question?

 

[Bbl87]

Did you get the standard "you want to sleep with other women" question?

Not really. I didn't ask directly, just kinda talked about the idea. And she came right out and said, "and no, I'm not swinging with you."

 

[daystate]

Not really. I didn't ask directly, just kinda talked about the idea. And she came right out and said, "and no, I'm not swinging with you."

Whoops..thats a direct no then.

 

[Bbl87]

Whoops..thats a direct no then.

Haha, yep. I figured it was the case, but never hurts to feel it out. And who knows, maybe that changes some day. Don't anticipate it, but ya never know.

 

[daystate]

Haha, yep. I figured it was the case, but never hurts to feel it out. And who knows, maybe that changes some day. Don't anticipate it, but ya never know.

Be nice to know though wouldnt it?
Be a shame not to know

 

[Bbl87]

Be nice to know though wouldnt it?
Be a shame not to know

Ya. Honestly, I think jealousy would probably be an issue which is why I don't see it happening.

 

[daystate]

Jealousy..passion killer unless you can control it

 

[Bbl87]

Jealousy..passion killer unless you can control it

Yep, in a true swinging situation I don't think I'd have jealousy issues. Guess I wouldn't know until it happened. But I think seeing me with someone else... not sure how she'd do with that. MAYBE in a threesome. If there was anything more than just us two, I could see that, maybe. She had one in her younger days, although she was talked into that one.

 

[daystate]

Yep, in a true swinging situation I don't think I'd have jealousy issues. Guess I wouldn't know until it happened. But I think seeing me with someone else... not sure how she'd do with that. MAYBE in a threesome. If there was anything more than just us two, I could see that, maybe. She had one in her younger days, although she was talked into that one.

I always enjoy that scenario where a wife is reluctant and then lets herself go and enjoys herself.

 

[screwher]

I don’t think I could approve of Mrs. Screwher and I being involved in a legit, full time poly relationship with another man. Legit meaning he, best example being her current lover, moves into our house full time. Setting up the spare room for him. And every other night she sleeps and has sex with him. It’s a hot fantasy but a true ploy relationship has real feelings involved. I wouldn’t want my wife in love with another man. Or him with her. I like our arrangement where he comes over, fucks her, and then leaves.

I guess what I could be open to is a short term arrangement. A scenario where for whatever reason her lover needs a place to stay say for about a week. I wouldn’t set up the spare room. He can sleep with my wide in our bedroom. While I watch them screw every night. Then retire to the couch and masturbate before going to sleep.

 

[AlexBailey]

I was a nineteen year old unicorn for a married couple. The wife had spit-roast fantasies and other kinks she wanted to try and liked that I was not an alpha-male like her husband.

They were neighbors and everything started out by her asking me if I could help her set up a trampoline before her husband got home. We were bouncing and laughing with their two kids when he suddenly appeared in the back doorway.

“So you must be Alex?”

They kept inviting me over for dinner or having me over after the kids were in bed, at first having her sit between us on the couch. When they start getting a little frisky with each other I was about to get up but she grabbed my crotch and felt how hard I was.

“Well, well, well… “ she said, “Can I help you with that?”

I looked at her husband’s expectant face and he nodded to me and had his wife get down on the floor in front of me, pull down my shorts and popped me in her mouth.

I sat back for a while, moaning and groaning but I’ve only ever had orgasms from just BJs twice in my life and this wasn’t one of them. About ten minutes in he got up behind her and knocked ‘spit-roast’ off of her bucket list.

We slept together a lot and over time it became more of a Mff than a Mfm. I wound up hooking up with a lesbian friend and wasn’t with them anymore and their relationship fell apart about a year later. I spoke with both of them years later and asked if I had anything to do with their breakup, they both said no, that if anything I delayed it - they were missing something in their relationship and they were much happier with the partners they eventually ended up with.

 

[Islander55]

Yep, in a true swinging situation I don't think I'd have jealousy issues. Guess I wouldn't know until it happened. But I think seeing me with someone else... not sure how she'd do with that. MAYBE in a threesome. If there was anything more than just us two, I could see that, maybe. She had one in her younger days, although she was talked into that one.

The real issue is whether the woman would enjoy sex with a different man. If she would and gets the chance, she is probably not going to mind her hubby doing another woman. I have no idea of numbers but I am sure there are a number of woman who say they could never swap or be a swinger. Lo and behold. Some time later, they end up having an affair.

 

[Bbl87]

The real issue is whether the woman would enjoy sex with a different man. If she would and gets the chance, she is probably not going to mind her hubby doing another woman. I have no idea of numbers but I am sure there are a number of woman who say they could never swap or be a swinger. Lo and behold. Some time later, they end up having an affair.

Maybe. In our case, she'd have to have a sex drive to speak of first, haha.

 

[Islander55]

Maybe. In our case, she'd have to have a sex drive to speak of first, haha.

That is a different issue. Unfortunately sex is just not that important to some people.

 

[Bbl87]

That is a different issue. Unfortunately sex is just not that important to some people.

So I've discovered.

 

[daystate]

Some brilliant responses on this thread

 

[lc69hunter]

I was in a poly relationship for almost three years, as the other guy. I didn't consider him a cuck because when we double teamed her, he was a stud muffin, and actually had a bigger cock than mine, and I am slightly above average.

However, about six weeks into the relationship he revealed to his wife that he was bi-curious, so she asked me if I would do him. I bent him over the back of the couch, took his ass, and his wife had at least three orgasms watching her studly husband being fucked. I felt that he was enjoying it and wanted to see how deep he would go so I pulled out, flipped him around, ATM'd him and then unloaded in his mouth. He was definitely a bi-sexual bottom. I went home that night to allow them to talk and digest what happened, and she and I talked the next day. The relationship changed in that, most of the time it was he and I double teaming her, but one night a week it was about him, his desires and his needs. It ended when I got transferred overseas (I was in the Marine Corps).

 

[screwher]

The real issue is whether the woman would enjoy sex with a different man. If she would and gets the chance, she is probably not going to mind her hubby doing another woman. I have no idea of numbers but I am sure there are a number of woman who say they could never swap or be a swinger. Lo and behold. Some time later, they end up having an affair.

Been there. And still doing that. The first few years of our relationship my wife was all about fidelity and monogamy. But she did end up starting to find another man attractive and fucked him. Fast forward many years and we’re in hotwife marriage. She has sex with other men with my full knowledge and approval. Six other men have fucked her and there will be more. But she’d be absolutely crushed if I had sex with another woman.

 

[Islander55]

Been there. And still doing that. The first few years of our relationship my wife was all about fidelity and monogamy. But she did end up starting to find another man attractive and fucked him. Fast forward many years and we’re in hotwife marriage. She has sex with other men with my full knowledge and approval. Six other men have fucked her and there will be more. But she’d be absolutely crushed if I had sex with another woman.

I must confess that I do not understand her reluctance to let you also have sex with others if she is doing so. Perhaps a little bit of control dynamic.

 

[screwher]

I must confess that I do not understand her reluctance to let you also have sex with others if she is doing so. Perhaps a little bit of control dynamic.

My wife is just like most women in this department. She doesn’t like the idea of her hubby getting physical with another woman. But she does have that desire for herself getting physical with other men. As I’m sure most people do. Mrs. Screwher just lucked out. Her husband shares her desire for her having sex with other men. So it just sort of worked out that way.