Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I just drink them away.

My therapy is deliciously sweet, says so right on the label....and yours?

 

[LupineOne]

There is more to it wolfie. Paying attention is part one. Caring is part two. No one HAS to do both parts but it will hurt when someone doesn’t.

True. I just assumed the second part. If you care, you’ll pay attention

 

[cascadiabound]

Just Rj please!

Rj... when people use your full user name it "tags" you so you are extra sure to see their post. It is a kindness/courtesy in most cases.
@rjr_1954

 

[lakesailer_mi]

My therapy is deliciously sweet, says so right on the label....and yours?

Oh no....no sweet therapy for me!
I like sipping away at it, with just the hint of a burn on the way down.
Kind of a smokey- peaty flavor.

 

[rjr_1954]

Bullshit. Just the opposite.

Bravo, Strix

 

[Photog1rl]

True. I just assumed the second part. If you care, you’ll pay attention

If only.

 

[PleaseLetMeIm]

My therapy is deliciously sweet, says so right on the label....and yours?

I was gonna say that mine comes in a box. Then realised there was a small chance this would be misinterpreted here

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Forgiveness

oh forgiveness as a topic. ok. um. I am a very forgiving person. It takes more energy not to be, and I am a total slacker. Mostly though, my memory really sucks, so I won't remember what caused me to annoyed in the first place. hence all is always forgiven.

 

[LupineOne]

If only.

It’s how I operate. Empathy. It’s a thing

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Rj... when people use your full user name it "tags" you so you are extra sure to see their post. It is a kindness/courtesy in most cases.
@rjr_1954

you must sometimes feel like Henry Higgens. LMAO

 

[BrendaBear]

I drink for the taste of female human nature

Girls are made of sugar and spice, and everything nice. Not tequila. Well, maybe there is crossover there…

 

[Codeman93]

Unfortunately..... NO!

I need it to be

 

[Bdm20]

oh forgiveness as a topic. ok. um. I am a very forgiving person. It takes more energy not to be, and I am a total slacker. Mostly though, my memory really sucks, so I won't remember what caused me to annoyed in the first place. hence all is always forgiven.

Not remembering what annoyed you is a rare and highly desirable trait!

 

[cascadiabound]

Don't they help the good feelings come in, though??

Lupes, you’ve got a point! I’ll even bring some dream catchers to try to filter out all the harsh vibes. Gotta keep it mellow!

I think a blanket fort is an excellent idea. A chaos blanket fort cuddle puddle napping space.
Sounds like a bunch of people got insufficient or crap sleep last night, me among them...
my elder dog got me up twice between modnight and 4am. Grrrrrrrr

 

[rjr_1954]

Rj... when people use your full user name it "tags" you so you are extra sure to see their post. It is a kindness/courtesy in most cases.
@rjr_1954

OK, sure. I was only doing a male thinking thing, not necessarily the right thing. I'm still learning. I appreciate it.

 

[Photog1rl]

Not remembering what annoyed you is a rare and highly desirable trait!

The first step for this, for me, is letting go. Sometimes this just takes some time.

 

[BrendaBear]

oh forgiveness as a topic. ok. um. I am a very forgiving person. It takes more energy not to be, and I am a total slacker. Mostly though, my memory really sucks, so I won't remember what caused me to annoyed in the first place. hence all is always forgiven.

I am with you there!

 

[Photog1rl]

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I think a blanket fort is an excellent. chaos blanket fort cuddle puddle napping space
Sounds like a bunch of people got insufficient or crap sleep last night, me among them...
my elder dog got me up twice between modnight and 4am. Grrrrrrrr

If there are cuddles in there, I’m In. That I can use today.

 

[Strixaluco]

oh forgiveness as a topic. ok. um. I am a very forgiving person. It takes more energy not to be, and I am a total slacker. Mostly though, my memory really sucks, so I won't remember what caused me to annoyed in the first place. hence all is always forgiven.

Forgiving and forgetting aren't inherently connected. I know plenty of people who haven't forgiven, holding on to the anger, despite not really remembering what caused it in the first place.

I, in turn, usually forgive - but it doesn't necessarily mean forgetting. Forgiving doesn't mean I wouldn't draw conclusions about the person in question. In general, it's also possible to continue demanding legal punishment and compensation despite forgiving - as forgiving is just about not holding on to the anger and resentment.

 

[cascadiabound]

Bullshit. Just the opposite.

Pretty sure @Broken_paladin is at least half pulling your chain.

 

[BrendaBear]

If there are cuddles in there, I’m In. That I can use today.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Not remembering what annoyed you is a rare and highly desirable trait!

Well it has a down side. I forget a lot of things. for example my own anniversary. Though I do remember my first fondly. My stepmother called and my husband answered, then he looked very concerned and handed me the phone. And my stepmother said "happy anniversary" to which I said, oh wow, really I totally forgot. and my husband became happy and no longer concerned anymore.

 

[Strixaluco]

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I think a blanket fort is an excellent. chaos blanket fort cuddle puddle napping space
Sounds like a bunch of people got insufficient or crap sleep last night, me among them...
my elder dog got me up twice between modnight and 4am. Grrrrrrrr

*crawls in, welcomes cuddles*
I even slept alright, but it seems no sleep is enough right now *yawns*

 

[Codeman93]

How is everyone?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Forgiving and forgetting aren't inherently connected. I know plenty of people who haven't forgiven, holding on to the anger, despite not really remembering what caused it in the first place.

I, in turn, usually forgive - but it doesn't necessarily mean forgetting. Forgiving doesn't mean I wouldn't draw conclusions about the person in question. In general, it's also possible to continue demanding legal punishment and compensation despite forgiving - as forgiving is just about not holding on to the anger and resentment.

I believe you but I don't actually get it. Like, how can one actually be angry without a reason the can articulate, in great detail, with harsh language. I just can't see anger without a reason.