Chaotic Coffee Klatch (tea also available)

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

good morning chaostonians. So today's party is tequila and blanket forts? I can work with that. been too long since I have had tequila in a blanket fort.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Good morning! I'm still working on coffee at this point, tequila later?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

No tequila for me. It turns me into a total slut. But I love a good blanket fort.

isn't that why we like tequila though.

 

[Strixaluco]

Anything is better than feelings talk in a public forum, those things are better left alone especially with us guys, we really dont understand them lol. But we do great at unknowingly hurting them

You guys are not innately unable to understand feelings. It's something one can learn - that's what girls and women do. Heck, I am on the autistic spectrum and even I have learned.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Anything is better than feelings talk in a public forum, those things are better left alone especially with us guys, we really dont understand them lol. But we do great at unknowingly hurting them

So, basically, you have strong negative feelings about feelings? Tell us more.

 

[BrendaBear]

 

[LupineOne]

Oh thank you Wolfie! I'd love a blanket fort.

Of course!

Anything is better than feelings talk in a public forum, those things are better left alone especially with us guys, we really dont understand them lol. But we do great at unknowingly hurting them

I respectfully call bullshit. It’s always better to air them out. And here, I think, is a safe place to do so.
And we can understand feelings just fine as long as we pay attention

 

[BrendaBear]

 

[LupineOne]

isn't that why we like tequila though.

 

[Cogan]

A mood killer or........party?

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[Strixaluco]

But ignoring them is way cooler lol

Bullshit. Just the opposite.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Anything is better than feelings talk in a public forum, those things are better left alone especially with us guys, we really dont understand them lol. But we do great at unknowingly hurting them

lol, I get it. I personally dislike when I get feelings on me. I have a whole feelings are like spiders perspective. Different feelings equate to different spiders and quantity of spiders. like I can handle if someone asks nicely to show me a cute little spider, but please don't randomly through a handful of wolf spiders at me.

 

[LupineOne]

Dude youre just sucking up to the ladies, its cool I get it.

No, no I’m not. Just bottling all my negative shit up isn’t healthy, for me or anyone else.
This “be a man and don’t show what you’re feeling” is just so much bullshit

 

[lakesailer_mi]

But ignoring them is way cooler lol

I just drink them away.

 

[rjr_1954]

You can come up with an alternative topic

You can come up with an alternative topic

Forgiveness

 

[Photog1rl]

I don’t think that blanket forts keep feelings out, so I gotta pass.

If you find something that does let me know, please. I’ll join ya in a heartbeat.

 

[BrendaBear]

Dude youre just sucking up to the ladies, its cool I get it.

Oh, like you don’t want to be sucked on.

 

[Codeman93]

Is today over yet

 

[lakesailer_mi]

Oh, like you don’t want to be sucked on.

Wait, that's how you get sucked on?
Damn, I've been doing it wrong.

 

[rjr_1954]

I drink it for the taste... Being a slut is just part of my human nature

I drink for the taste of female human nature

 

[PleaseLetMeIm]

Is today over yet

Go to NZ. I think they are in mid-May there or something their clock is so far ahead

 

[Photog1rl]

Anything is better than feelings talk in a public forum, those things are better left alone especially with us guys, we really dont understand them lol. But we do great at unknowingly hurting them

No arguments with this.

 

[rjr_1954]

Is today over yet

Unfortunately..... NO!

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I drink for the taste of female human nature

I am not so sure that alcohol contains a lot of female human nature. I drink like a fish, and yet, totally not a shining example of female human nature.

 

[Photog1rl]

Of course!

I respectfully call bullshit. It’s always better to air them out. And here, I think, is a safe place to do so.
And we can understand feelings just fine as long as we pay attention

There is more to it wolfie. Paying attention is part one. Caring is part two. No one HAS to do both parts but it will hurt when someone doesn’t.