The Lit experience: men v women

[munch2much]

So here’s a question for the guys:

Women sometimes get unsolicited dick pics.

But have you guys been sent unsolicited nudes?

And is this a “victimless crime” on the grounds that it feels like winning the lottery?

I’ve been sent a fair few over the years on Instagram in particular. And it’s happened at least once on Lit. Thought rather a long time ago. And possibly because I had a pic thread until I got a stalker!

 

[may_I_please]

When possible, we try not to yuck on other people's yum.

words to live by

 

[may_I_please]

You’d have to have balls of steel (excuse the pun) to send an unsolicited pic out of nowhere

 

[jason28053]

You’d have to have balls of steel (excuse the pun) to send an unsolicited pic out of nowhere

What’s that clacking sound I hear?

 

[munch2much]

You’d have to have balls of steel (excuse the pun) to send an unsolicited pic out of nowhere

That definitely wouldn’t be a victimless crime! I prefer female nudes to have neither cock nor balls.

 

[munch2much]

I don’t think I’ve received an unsolicited nude from a random woman here. Women I’ve chatted with have sent some, but I’ve never opened my inbox to an unknown person’s nudes.

It’s an odd double standard, but women sending nudes seems much more acceptable than men sending dick pics. I’m very biased, though, so probably take that with a grain of salt.

Oh I think most people would agree with you

Lit, btw, is very quiet compared to 10 years ago. It was an amazing place.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I don’t think I’ve received an unsolicited nude from a random woman here. Women I’ve chatted with have sent some, but I’ve never opened my inbox to an unknown person’s nudes.

It’s an odd double standard, but women sending nudes seems much more acceptable than men sending dick pics. I’m very biased, though, so probably take that with a grain of salt.

Do you want some?

If you were to say yes to that and then somebody sent them, does that still make them unsolicited?

 

[FranklyFrank]

I am sure that the reason I don't get unsolicited nude pics from women is that there is definitely something wrong with my inbox!

 

[may_I_please]

Did you get that one?

 

[FranklyFrank]

Did you get that one?

Me? No dammit! lol

 

[may_I_please]

Me? No dammit! lol

Yeah, must be your inbox, you should raise a ticket

 

[FranklyFrank]

Yeah, must be your inbox, you should raise a ticket

I KNEW IT!

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

Yes, I have rwceived unsolicited pictures. But they were of the previously discussed. "Sharing my wife/daughter/slutty neighbour" variety... so sent by a man and plucked somewhere of the Internet. The addition: "she doesn't know I took them" is always nice... concent? Who cares?
Love,
Thim

 

[PlayfulLilDarlin]

Checking in as a woman, and I've gotten the general, traditional flood of inbox randoms and pics like I think most any woman, or female presenting AV/name here does. That's not really my thing though, and I think if people talk to me, I wind up being more like a little sister to a lot of them than anything else. Which is totally fine with me. I set my boundaries and stick to them.

 

[AmberLGreen]

I have sent many an unsolicited pic. You would think that people would be grateful but no, not even a “um thanks”.

Maybe I should do some new ones with lighting and props

 

[FranklyFrank]

I have sent many an unsolicited pic. You would think that people would be grateful but no, not even a “um thanks”.

Maybe I should do some new ones with lighting and props

"um thanks" in advance

 

[munch2much]

I have sent many an unsolicited pic. You would think that people would be grateful but no, not even a “um thanks”.

Maybe I should do some new ones with lighting and props

They couldn’t see to type, due to the tears of happiness!!

 

[Lord Pmann]

So here’s a question for the guys:

Women sometimes get unsolicited dick pics.

But have you guys been sent unsolicited nudes?

And is this a “victimless crime” on the grounds that it feels like winning the lottery?

I’ve been sent a fair few over the years on Instagram in particular. And it’s happened at least once on Lit. Thought rather a long time ago. And possibly because I had a pic thread until I got a stalker!

I once received an unsolicited vagina pic. It was bizarre. It was a Lister who had very few posts and I’d never interacted with her. It was just a full on vag pic. And I’ve told this story before, but I want to reiterate to any of the ladies considering an unsolicited poon pic… pussies need context. It is weird as hell to open up your PM and be greeted by a wayward pussy.

I’ve also been sent tits without asking. That’s normally not a problem at all, but one set I didn’t want to see out of principle and she forced them on me.

Victimless crime? I don’t know. I mean, guys are typically not as threatened by women as the inverse… but if we consider it bad behaviour, then it’s bad behaviour regardless of the gender. I’m a strong believer in clicking delete if I don’t like something, but that doesn’t excuse it.

 

[cascadiabound]

I once received an unsolicited vagina pic. It was bizarre. It was a Lister who had very few posts and I’d never interacted with her. It was just a full on vag pic. And I’ve told this story before, but I want to reiterate to any of the ladies considering an unsolicited poon pic… pussies need context. It is weird as hell to open up your PM and be greeted by a wayward pussy.

I’ve also been sent tits without asking. That’s normally not a problem at all, but one set I didn’t want to see out of principle and she forced them on me.

Victimless crime? I don’t know. I mean, guys are typically not as threatened by women as the inverse… but if we consider it bad behaviour, then it’s bad behaviour regardless of the gender. I’m a strong believer in clicking delete if I don’t like something, but that doesn’t excuse it.

I think that your comments re private part pics out of context applies equally to male and female genitalia. And yes, it is equally bad behavior.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

I once received an unsolicited vagina pic. It was bizarre. It was a Lister who had very few posts and I’d never interacted with her. It was just a full on vag pic. And I’ve told this story before, but I want to reiterate to any of the ladies considering an unsolicited poon pic… pussies need context. It is weird as hell to open up your PM and be greeted by a wayward pussy.

I’ve also been sent tits without asking. That’s normally not a problem at all, but one set I didn’t want to see out of principle and she forced them on me.

Victimless crime? I don’t know. I mean, guys are typically not as threatened by women as the inverse… but if we consider it bad behaviour, then it’s bad behaviour regardless of the gender. I’m a strong believer in clicking delete if I don’t like something, but that doesn’t excuse it.

How many times do I need to apologize for this?

 

[munch2much]

I once received an unsolicited vagina pic. It was bizarre. It was a Lister who had very few posts and I’d never interacted with her. It was just a full on vag pic. And I’ve told this story before, but I want to reiterate to any of the ladies considering an unsolicited poon pic… pussies need context. It is weird as hell to open up your PM and be greeted by a wayward pussy.

I’ve also been sent tits without asking. That’s normally not a problem at all, but one set I didn’t want to see out of principle and she forced them on me.

Victimless crime? I don’t know. I mean, guys are typically not as threatened by women as the inverse… but if we consider it bad behaviour, then it’s bad behaviour regardless of the gender. I’m a strong believer in clicking delete if I don’t like something, but that doesn’t excuse it.

Although I can imagine many guys would think it awesome to receive such pics, I can imagine many reasons it could be problematic too.

I am struggling to remember much about the pics I received on Lit. And which were on Instagram. But I’m so laid back that nothing much bothers me.

What did bother me though, was someone on another site sent me nudes and I strongly suspected they were underage. I asked them to stop, and they just sent more explicit pics until I was able to block them

 

[1Lion]

I have sent many an unsolicited pic. You would think that people would be grateful but no, not even a “um thanks”.

Maybe I should do some new ones with lighting and props

 

[1Lion]

You are welcome to send me an unsolicited pic. But, my request here would actually make that a solicited pic, so never mind.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I think that your comments re private part pics out of context applies equally to male and female genitalia. And yes, it is equally bad behavior.

Yes. But I suppose I’m more used to dudes just whipping out dicks for a laugh. You can’t really whip out a vagina. And if you can… may god have mercy on your soul.

I hate to excuse it, because it’s not a good thing. But I do realize it’s an adult site and the sender probably considered it flattering. Maybe flattering would’ve involved a razor. Or a hedge trimmer.

How many times do I need to apologize for this?

This many: 449.99

Although I can imagine many guys would think it awesome to receive such pics, I can imagine many reasons it could be problematic too.

I am struggling to remember much about the pics I received on Lit. And which were on Instagram. But I’m so laid back that nothing much bothers me.

What did bother me though, was someone on another site sent me nudes and I strongly suspected they were underage. I asked them to stop, and they just sent more explicit pics until I was able to block them

That’s fucked up about the underage pics. People are weirdos.

 

[ydahecnot]

I have sent many an unsolicited pic. You would think that people would be grateful but no, not even a “um thanks”.

Maybe I should do some new ones with lighting and props