Ask Me a Question v 12.26.2021

He had a quick temper.

What is something nonsexual you enjoy(ed) doing with your significant other?
Watching comedy specials. There's a few we both actually liked.

What is something you enjoyed doing with your SO outside?
 
Watching comedy specials. There's a few we both actually liked.

What is something you enjoyed doing with your SO outside?
Haven't really spent outdoor time with a SO.


How much time do you like spending with a SO, outside of the bedroom?
 
We're so different now, not much unless the kids are involved.

What was the last movie you went to on a date?
The last movie "date" I went on was October 2019 we saw Abominable. It was with someone I used to date but was now just friends with. It ended very awkwardly with me waiting in his truck for him to kiss me good night and then remembering we didn't do that anymore.

Do you have exes that you are still friends with?
 
No ex-girlfriends per se, but partners I have played with I am still friends with.

What is the biggest bad habit that pushes you away from a partner?
Not a bad habit per se but someone doesn't communicate.

How often do you talk to/text with your SO?
 
Almost all day every day.

When was the last time you said I love you?
In the romantic sense over 30 years ago. In a platonic way maybe 6 months ago.

Do you wait until the other person says I love you, to say it to them?
 
Are you generally expectant of good things or hesitant for bad things?
Hesitant of bad things while trying to get as much good thing as possible. That's me

What's something that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?
 
Hesitant of bad things while trying to get as much good thing as possible. That's me

What's something that makes you feel all warm and fuzzy inside?
Puppies

If you had IT to do over again, would you do IT differently? (You get to choose what IT is.)
 
If you had IT to do over again, would you do IT differently? (You get to choose what IT is.)
I don't think I would. For everything I'd want to do over, there's so many good things that resulted after.

What song is your guilty pleasure?
 
I don't think I would. For everything I'd want to do over, there's so many good things that resulted after.

What song is your guilty pleasure?
I'd have to day late late 90's/early 00's pop - Nsync, Backstreet boys, etc.

What is something about yourself that would surprise others?
 
They assume I have a good heart. I hope I prove them right.

Where is one place you would never think of doing anything sexual?
 
They assume I have a good heart. I hope I prove them right.

Where is one place you would never think of doing anything sexual?
Hospice… which feels like it’s past where I should have drawn a line

What is something about you that the people you work with and your old friends would disagree about?
 
What is something about you that the people you work with and your old friends would disagree about?
The people I work with would say that I am fearless when it comes to certain things. My old friends would disagree.

What is something your present partner and your first partner would disagree about?
 
The people I work with would say that I am fearless when it comes to certain things. My old friends would disagree.

What is something your present partner and your first partner would disagree about?
That I’m confident in what I want… way back when I had no idea what I was into except that it ended when I came. Now I’m much more confident and willing to ask for what I want (or in practice consensually take it).

What’s something you wish you’d tried but don’t think you could do for the first time anymore?
 
That I’m confident in what I want… way back when I had no idea what I was into except that it ended when I came. Now I’m much more confident and willing to ask for what I want (or in practice consensually take it).

What’s something you wish you’d tried but don’t think you could do for the first time anymore?
Good question. I'm not sure there is anything. I've recently starting learning a new instrument and while I think any physical thing might be tough, there's very little I wish I could do, but haven't tried.
But I'll go with this: I might have enjoyed a threesome, but at this point, it just seems like more hassle than it's worth.

When did you last try to start a new hobby or learn a new skill?
 
Good question. I'm not sure there is anything. I've recently starting learning a new instrument and while I think any physical thing might be tough, there's very little I wish I could do, but haven't tried.
But I'll go with this: I might have enjoyed a threesome, but at this point, it just seems like more hassle than it's worth.

When did you last try to start a new hobby or learn a new skill?
Two months ago; added laser engraving to my woodworking.

How many different hobbies do you/have you had?
 
Two months ago; added laser engraving to my woodworking.

How many different hobbies do you/have you had?
That's sounds pretty cool!

Well, depends on what you call "hobbies" but I'll say three. Plus I love reading (often History, but also science fiction and action adventure), depends on how you count that. And I do some writing of erotica....

How expensive is your main hobbie?
 
So a lot of 70's and 80's metal makes me excited and happy.
There are a few sad love songs that make me feel pretty sad.

How much do you listen to music in a typical day.
Sailor my man!!! So so so happy to see you!!!

Either it's all day or none. Not half-assing it

Do you appreciate the quiet?
 
Cheetos puffs

My most expensive hobby is machining metal, the machines aren't that expensive if you buy used but the tooling will drain you.

Do you regret something you didn't do?
 
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