Smart is hot?

Evidently the quanta I sent you induced a harmonic wave function within you; so...complementarity is true...
Local entanglement is shockingly easy to achieve, if not to maintain… if you’ve figured out how to do this at a distance, remote sex would be the last thing you should do with it.

Oh, but it would probably be the first thing, wouldn’t it?
 
Want to meet smart women?
Join the local MENSA chapter.

I dated a woman who was a member, even though I wasn't, had a lot of fun together. She was game for anything...which back in 1986 wasn't much compared to today.
Today, our repertoire would be much greater.
 
I was in Mensa for a while.
Turns out there is a fine line between genius and madness.
I think it would be more interesting in a larger city than mine.
They had things called SIGs (Special Interest Groups). Most had few members …but the Sex SIG …perhaps predictable it had more members than all the rest put together haha
 
I was in Mensa for a while.
Turns out there is a fine line between genius and madness.
I think it would be more interesting in a larger city than mine.
They had things called SIGs (Special Interest Groups). Most had few members …but the Sex SIG …perhaps predictable it had more members than all the rest put together haha
Still in Mensa… not a place I would go for sexual interaction.
 
My main memory of it, was meeting lots of parents telling each other how intelligent their kids were.
Hopefully it’s more interesting these days!
 
My main memory of it, was meeting lots of parents telling each other how intelligent their kids were.
Hopefully it’s more interesting these days!
I enjoy the guest speakers, otherwise finding a SIG or two to get involved with is very fun. Ultimately, I think it’s an organization for people that haven’t found intellectual validation at work. Certainly why I joined, but I stuck around for the weird, eclectic material. Not sex, though. I’d rather join a swinger community.
 
I’ve never been able to stay interested in women who aren’t intelligent, driven, career-oriented, etc.

Even in college, I couldn’t stay interested in women who weren’t already planning their careers. I dated a gorgeous Irish brunette during my sophomore year. She was tall, attractive, fun, adventurous, loved sex, etc. but she didn’t read, didn’t watch the news, didn’t really want a career in her field of study. i stopped seeing her after a friend made a Jimmy Olsen joke (Superman’s pal, Jimmy Olsen) and she didn’t get it. When i started to explain, she cut me off and said “oh, I don’t like classic literature”. Ugh. We broke up the next day,
 
I enjoy the guest speakers, otherwise finding a SIG or two to get involved with is very fun. Ultimately, I think it’s an organization for people that haven’t found intellectual validation at work. Certainly why I joined, but I stuck around for the weird, eclectic material. Not sex, though. I’d rather join a swinger community.

I’ve never tried the swinger scene. I think maybe I’ve always been too fortunate with traditional dating to feel the need.

But mentally, I am constantly curious about things. Maybe I should ponder re-joining. Check out the SIGs with my current head on.

BTW are you musical? I’m pondering your username 🤔
 
I’ve never tried the swinger scene. I think maybe I’ve always been too fortunate with traditional dating to feel the need.

But mentally, I am constantly curious about things. Maybe I should ponder re-joining. Check out the SIGs with my current head on.

BTW are you musical? I’m pondering your username 🤔
I started adult life as a musician and songwriter. Private music college. Then I decided that I didn’t like being on stage and got an engineering degree to pay for the music one. I work in a lot of areas but audio is still my favorite when I get the opportunity.

My sex playlist is on fire.
 
I started adult life as a musician and songwriter. Private music college. Then I decided that I didn’t like being on stage and got an engineering degree to pay for the music one. I work in a lot of areas but audio is still my favorite when I get the opportunity.

My sex playlist is on fire.
Sex playlist is on fire …is that all Kings of Leon songs 🤣

I’m a self taught musician/songwriter. I used to occasionally enjoy performing, but I didn’t much enjoy lumping gear, band mates not turning up for practice etc.

And actually I didn’t like that I sometimes caught myself believing that I was …hmm better than others? Something special? That sounds a lot worse than it was, but you probably get the idea.

I am jealous of your musical education. I used to sit and listen to songs, tune my guitar to a song, gradually work it out. Very poorly! But eventually you vaguely get there.

So what do you play?
 
Sex playlist is on fire …is that all Kings of Leon songs 🤣

I’m a self taught musician/songwriter. I used to occasionally enjoy performing, but I didn’t much enjoy lumping gear, band mates not turning up for practice etc.

And actually I didn’t like that I sometimes caught myself believing that I was …hmm better than others? Something special? That sounds a lot worse than it was, but you probably get the idea.

I am jealous of your musical education. I used to sit and listen to songs, tune my guitar to a song, gradually work it out. Very poorly! But eventually you vaguely get there.

So what do you play?
Zero Kings of Leon. But Ariana Grande makes me hyper aware of my body for some reason.

My first degree is in voice and audio engineering. I play all the band instruments but drums (I program those). Played trumpet in the orchestra, trombone in brass choir, and some fiddle (not violin, fiddle.) Best at vocals, piano, and bass. Prefer composing, arranging, and songwriting to actually performing.

Sounds like you have the Mensa-self-teaching disorder. Are you ‘almost really good’ at a whole bunch of things?
 
Zero Kings of Leon. But Ariana Grande makes me hyper aware of my body for some reason.

My first degree is in voice and audio engineering. I play all the band instruments but drums (I program those). Played trumpet in the orchestra, trombone in brass choir, and some fiddle (not violin, fiddle.) Best at vocals, piano, and bass. Prefer composing, arranging, and songwriting to actually performing.

Sounds like you have the Mensa-self-teaching disorder. Are you ‘almost really good’ at a whole bunch of things?
I can absolutely impress most non-musicians!!

Of course I know my timing sucks as does my singing. So I’m particularly jealous that you can sing.

But song writing, arranging and production allows me some satisfaction. I use LogicPro which …yup I have vaguely figured out for myself (so yes, my abilities are flawed haha).

But the whole process is so interesting. I think the average listener would be stunned to know what goes on.

On the subject of interesting, having learnt music on a guitar, teaching myself piano has been a real revelation. It’s such a visual medium and really helps me see the theory and contexts in action.

I’m so curious about your music now.
 
I can absolutely impress most non-musicians!!

Of course I know my timing sucks as does my singing. So I’m particularly jealous that you can sing.

But song writing, arranging and production allows me some satisfaction. I use LogicPro which …yup I have vaguely figured out for myself (so yes, my abilities are flawed haha).

But the whole process is so interesting. I think the average listener would be stunned to know what goes on.

On the subject of interesting, having learnt music on a guitar, teaching myself piano has been a real revelation. It’s such a visual medium and really helps me see the theory and contexts in action.

I’m so curious about your music now.
PM me if you want to talk music. I think we’re boring everyone else :)
 
Local entanglement is shockingly easy to achieve, if not to maintain… if you’ve figured out how to do this at a distance, remote sex would be the last thing you should do with it.

Oh, but it would probably be the first thing, wouldn’t it?
It appears that this subject has been intimately researched in the UK:

https://telescoper.wordpress.com/2009/05/20/a-unified-quantum-theory-of-the-sexual-interaction/

Although there is a need for more in-depth research, I am certain that the strong-force method of fragment ejection will achieve the best completions for all concerned....
 
You ever realize, mid-coitus, that the cock inside you is not actually touching you... it only feels like it's touching you because its nuclear forces are opposing your pussy's nuclear forces...? That atoms, particles, sub particles are not objects but aggregates of constituent forces... and that these cock-shaped forces are about to make the forces of your body excite into massive, constructive waves whilst directing a collection of spooge-shaped forces into your pussy-shaped forces?

In physics, we call this The Dick Feynman Position.

I'll be here all week.
I think my dick atoms just got aggregated.
 
Is anyone’s fantasy about an intelligent self-assured woman? I’m not criticizing, but many stories I feel I don’t relate to bc she’s either inexperienced or naïve, or a dom at the opposite extreme and neither works for me. To each his/her own - just trying to find mine.
I think this thread still has legs so, going back to the OP's statement, many of the stories you read are written by men and are of course entirely fantasy. I'll take your word for the way you find women portrayed because tbh, I don't read many of the stories at Lit, but if these male writers are turned on by either bimbos or doms it says more about the authors than real women.

In the case of bimbos, the fantasy is they can be easily manipulated for fast, guilt-free sex. Men writing about doms have a mummy complex, want to have their botty spanked, but overall seek to have the responsibilities of being a man taken from them for a short time ( as long as they have change for the meter ).

Then there's the question of what smart means. Discussing covalent bonds and up and down quarks must be niche porn and who knows, it might get you laid? Looks like it's worked for Estaccato con brio ;) ! For me it was lasers and sail boats, but each to their own. The whole issue of nuclear forces can be avoided by using condoms btw.

So are we talking hooking up with geeks or someone who is emotionally intelligent? Does one preclude the other? The autistic spectrum includes many in the geekosphere who may struggle with EI. Quite often super intelligent people have an understanding of what a good relationship ought to be but have no idea how to get there, or if they have even arrived at Happy Sex Central. There will always be exceptions of course - where does Lizbeth from Dragon Tattoo fit ( smart, hot but totally fucked up ) ?

My own experience leads me to visualise people shaped like jigsaw pieces from a 7 billion-sized puzzle. Some pieces will fit if you mash them down hard enough; others can fit their bulb perfectly into another person's hollow but then their colours don't match. Hopefully people can find a close match and, if it's not stretching the analogy too far, find they fit with others pairings that go to make up the whole weird frigging picture that is our world.

Natalie Portman mentioned "I'd rather be smart than a movie star" but I'm just glad she's both.
 
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