Transphobia blows

[lovecraft68]

Not necessarily, they may be in the fetish section of the site to enjoy my futa story, but they may not like interracial or rape. So me saying, WARNING: Futanari, Interracial, Rape, etc, lets them know, about the other tags. Because again, we can't cross post to different categories.

I put one futa story in the interracial section of the site. Again, I had warnings for those not into futanari because, they may have come for the interracial but they may not stay because of the futa.

That one user in earlier pages of this thread mentioned her story being lesbian sex, but there were comments from users saying it needed to be tagged properly because she had trans people in the story. Not everyone is into trans erotica so to narrow people down not into that, she could have put WARNING: Trans characters. That way, those not into such characters could bounce.

Is there a cis-women lesbian tag? Let me search because if so then I suppose those users could have narrowed their own search down.

EDIT: No, there's no cis-women lesbian tag. Then those only looking for cis women lesbian content would just narrow it down even more to make sure they get the content they want unless authors are kind enough to have WARNING tags.

There are trump situations. If a character is Trans, there is a category for it, and regardless of what else is in the story that's the trump 'kink'

Futa trumps IR so fetish is where that should go. Fetish will enjoy futa and not care there are IR elements because their fix is the former, latter is just an add on.

As for getting more specific cis lesbian....truth is, not everyone uses those terms, some people still use the terms everyone used since the beginning of erotic story sites and before the people who claim they're against labeling had to label everyone else.

 

[lovecraft68]

What should the warning tag have? "Caution lesbians with dicks ahead"

If people are not into futanari there is a good chance they will not know what it is. I had no idea what Hotwife or Dogging was till after I read the story with those concepts, I didn't know there was a term out there for those things.

I'd never heard 'dogging' until a couple years ago when someone asked if I'd do a commission about a Sunday School teacher who goes dogging when she's out of town. I almost replied "Sorry, I don't write bestiality," but decided to hit my friend Urban dictionary and was like Oh....I can do that.

 

[Futakween]

There are trump situations. If a character is Trans, there is a category for it, and regardless of what else is in the story that's the trump 'kink'

Futa trumps IR so fetish is where that should go. Fetish will enjoy futa and not care there are IR elements because their fix is the former, latter is just an add on.

As for getting more specific cis lesbian....truth is, not everyone uses those terms, some people still use the terms everyone used since the beginning of erotic story sites and before the people who claim they're against labeling had to label everyone else.

I concur.

And that one user who said, "lesbians with dicks"....actually, that's a good warning tag, or women with dicks. Yep, those are good tags actually.

 

[Lovecraft_Lore]

d "Sorry, I don't write bestiality," but decided to hit my friend Urban dictionary and was like Oh....I can do that.

Even the bestiality stuff I have seen on here. I have seen Wargs and other things on herre that for all practical purposes were big dogs. As for Dogging- I think it is a British slang term. It makes you wonder what else is out there that you didn't even think about.

 

[yowser]

I'd never heard 'dogging' until a couple years ago when someone asked if I'd do a commission about a Sunday School teacher who goes dogging when she's out of town. I almost replied "Sorry, I don't write bestiality," but decided to hit my friend Urban dictionary and was like Oh....I can do that.

I discovered the term 'dogging' quite by accident. At a conference in Oxford some dozen years ago, for the first and only time at any conference I'd ever attended, there was an announcement every morning by the moderator about the latest score of the major sporting event of the year, the ‘Ashes’ cricket match between England and Australia. Apparently England hadn't won in ages and was poised to maybe pull off an upset. The locals were quite beside themselves (to an American at least) and there was a buzz throughout the conference and indeed England went on to win.

A few days later at a newsstand I thought I might get a magazine to read about the affair, since my cricket knowledge was close to zero and I always like to be informed. I picked up a suitable-looking mag called 'Sport', with a front photo of one of the English cricket heroes on it.

Oops. It turned out 'Sport' meant the sport of 'Sex' and the cricket star (cannot recollect the name) had a lengthy history of dalliances with various girls and women, why he was on the cover and the article about him was about a different sort of ‘sport’ than I expected. The 'feature' article of the magazine, if you could call it that, was on the practice of 'dogging' so I learned all sorts of tips: where, how, secret signals, etc. No wonder the newsstand fellow gave me an odd look at the cash register, I didn't look like the normal buyer of a 'lad rag.’

 

[stickygirl]

What tags do we need for lesbian trans woman with no dick? Genuine question. If she's post op and most medical exams would assume cis gender woman, does a distinction need to be made?

 

[Bubo_bubo]

What tags do we need for lesbian trans woman with no dick? Genuine question. If she's post op and most medical exams would assume cis gender woman, does a distinction need to be made?

'Post-op Trans woman', if it's relevant to the story? And + 'Lesbian'.

 

[stickygirl]

so as tags go... kinda crap

 

[Bubo_bubo]

Well, 'P-Op Tart' might be considered derogatory.

 

[AlinaX]

Cute, but ambiguous in so many ways...

I was bemused recently to discover that woods near where I live, a popular place for families to go for a walk, are a notorious dogging spot.

 

[Bramblethorn]

Not necessarily, they may be in the fetish section of the site to enjoy my futa story, but they may not like interracial or rape. So me saying, WARNING: Futanari, Interracial, Rape, etc, lets them know, about the other tags. Because again, we can't cross post to different categories.

I put one futa story in the interracial section of the site. Again, I had warnings for those not into futanari because, they may have come for the interracial but they may not stay because of the futa.

That one user in earlier pages of this thread mentioned her story being lesbian sex, but there were comments from users saying it needed to be tagged properly because she had trans people in the story. Not everyone is into trans erotica so to narrow people down not into that, she could have put WARNING: Trans characters. That way, those not into such characters could bounce.

I think the story you're referring to here is @AwkwardMD's "The Beast In Me". For context: it's a long "personal journey" kind of story where the narrator's new girlfriend is a post-op trans woman. The fact that she's trans is mentioned a few times, as they get to know one another, but it's not fetishised and it's not a big presence in the story. It's much more of a lesbian theme than it is a trans theme, and it wouldn't have been a great fit in Trans.

I don't know that a warning would have made a difference to the reaction. From what I recall of that comment, it seemed like the hostile commenter was offended by the mere presence of a trans character in the category, not by being surprised by it.

There are cases where I will put a warning on a story for something that might legitimately be hard for readers. I have a story in Romance where the love interest gets long covid and later dies of dementia. I felt the way I'd written it was still appropriate for Romance (overall reader reaction seems to agree with me) but I didn't want to surprise people with that. For a lot of readers those might be unpleasantly close to home, and Romance in particular is a category where people are often there for comfort.

But... some people have a problem with race-mixing. Am I going to put a warning for them on stories where a white person has sex with a non-white person? Hell no. They might be uncomfortable with seeing that, but other readers are going to be uncomfortable seeing "mixed-race relationship" treated as something that needs a Tipper sticker, and I'd feel uncomfortable including that warning. I feel the same way about warning for trans characters.

(Or for bi characters, autistic characters, and various other categories of people whose very existence is offensive to some, let alone their sex lives.)

Is there a cis-women lesbian tag? Let me search because if so then I suppose those users could have narrowed their own search down.

May be nobody's used that one yet, but people can make new tags up to whatever the character limit is.

One thing with tags, though: you only get ten per story, so if you get into very detailed tagging you're going to run out quickly.

 

[Lovecraft_Lore]

Cute, but ambiguous in so many ways...

I was bemused recently to discover that woods near where I live, a popular place for families to go for a walk, are a notorious dogging spot.

The entire UK appears to be one notorious dogging spot.

Tower of London- Dogging
Castles in Edinburgh- Dogging
Pub in Liverpool- Dogging
Beach at Cardiff -Cwn
Football stadium in Birmingham- Dogging
Random woods anywhere in England -Dogging
Random moors of Scotland -Were-wolves, also Dogging, also Were-wolfing

 

[Bramblethorn]

Obligatory:

 

[MillieDynamite]

I concur.

And that one user who said, "lesbians with dicks"....actually, that's a good warning tag, or women with dicks. Yep, those are good tags actually.

There is a trans girl here in Oklahoma, who isn't doing the full thing, who goes by ChicksaDude on Facebook and other social sites. She's more a femboy than a full-blown trans.

 

[YourPalAster]

I think other authors may want to follow a similar format. For instance, if one is posting a lesbian story where one is cis and trans maybe they should have a WARNING: Trans character, Cis Character, etc. That way people who aren't into that will hit that back button

They’ll shit on it regardless lmao.

I literally came back to see three posts basically saying the most transphobic shit I’ve seen saying that trans men aren’t men blah blah blah. I ain’t finna warn you about a fact of life that trans people exist. They can suck it up and complain in my comments only to get a deleted comment.

 

[Futakween]

They’ll shit on it regardless lmao.

I literally came back to see three posts basically saying the most transphobic shit I’ve seen saying that trans men aren’t men blah blah blah. I ain’t finna warn you about a fact of life that trans people exist. They can suck it up and complain in my comments only to get a deleted comment.

I haven't the slightest clue what your comment is referring to. I'm inclined to believe you responded to the wrong person since its so off topic. If so then all is well. Over all though, if you don't want to put tags in your stories then don't complain when people say they're tagged wrong which is what you're doing when you created this thread. And since you say you delete them anyway, I really don't see why you're complaining. Just delete them and move on. End Thread.

 

[Lifestyle66]

The entire UK appears to be one notorious dogging spot.

Tower of London- Dogging
Castles in Edinburgh- Dogging
Pub in Liverpool- Dogging
Beach at Cardiff -Cwn
Football stadium in Birmingham- Dogging
Random woods anywhere in England -Dogging
Random moors of Scotland -Were-wolves, also Dogging, also Were-wolfing

I didn't know that!

My wife was looking for someplace different for our next vacation. Can you recommend any tours?