Deepest Darkest Secret your spouse/partner doesn't know!!!

I have had secret masters off and on since my early 20's. He tells me what to do and do it without question. Some of it is very mild humiliations - flashing, no bra and unbuttoned shirt at work. Some are a little more like cum walks and having sex whenever he calls. Most intense is being shared.
We should talk…
 
My wife doesn’t know that I’m on this site. Also that I chat with guys on Kik and Skype and jerk off on cam with them and I’ve met a guy that I’d love to meet and see what would happen but we live to far apart witch I guess I have bisexual tendencies
 
If there's stuff hubby dont know about me it's cause i've forgotten it. Seriously, the biggest blessing in our relationship was coming clean about the elephants in my attic. It opened everything up for both of us. There's dumb stuff i've done in my youth that i'd not tell anyone except him. He's my confessional and my absolution. His acceptance of my dirty laundry is a washing machine that i use. I can't think of anything that i'd need to hide from him. I hope i never do anything dumb enough to feel that damned ashamed. We have a rule with our kids that if you come to us with the truth we'll rage a moment and then do whatever it takes to help them through, but lie to us and you're on your own. So, nope... pretty much an open book.
Oh wow... This one time, i sat a bottle of sugar soap on his motorcycle for a moment and it left a big mark in the paint. I haven't told him that. Ok, so i do have secrets.
 
If there's stuff hubby dont know about me it's cause i've forgotten it. Seriously, the biggest blessing in our relationship was coming clean about the elephants in my attic. It opened everything up for both of us. There's dumb stuff i've done in my youth that i'd not tell anyone except him. He's my confessional and my absolution. His acceptance of my dirty laundry is a washing machine that i use. I can't think of anything that i'd need to hide from him. I hope i never do anything dumb enough to feel that damned ashamed. We have a rule with our kids that if you come to us with the truth we'll rage a moment and then do whatever it takes to help them through, but lie to us and you're on your own. So, nope... pretty much an open book.
Oh wow... This one time, i sat a bottle of sugar soap on his motorcycle for a moment and it left a big mark in the paint. I haven't told him that. Ok, so i do have secrets.
This is what it should be especially for something to grow and last and more importantly still be a happy enjoyable relationship.
I do still have a couple of secrets but it's stupid stuff I'm ashamed of and it's my cross to bear. Things I wouldn't tell her.
I have things this week that I've said to her, things I've a fantasy about for example, some might say they wouldn't share but why wouldn't you? It keeps our sex life exciting and 20 odd years later still keeps me physically and mentally turned on by her.
I slap her ass a lot, maybe in passing or if she's bending over for example, never fails to get the reaction I want 😋😉
 
At this point, my "wife" (see username) and I have shared all our deepest darkest secrets I think.

The one she didn't know until I told her towards the beginning of our relationship, was that as we were growing up, I would sneak into her dirty panties daily. Like, absolutely every day.

Probably a day did not pass during those years that I did not pussy have pussy juice from her panties smeared onto my cock in the morning as I used them to masturbate and then tried to get as much of her honey off of them and onto me as possible. I'd even wet them so I could get whatever was on there off and onto the head of my cock.

I'd always do it AFTER showering so that it didn't get washed off because I wanted to enjoy the knowledge that her most private juices and secretions were "soaking into" my cock-skin all day long.
And did she like the thought of you doing that? My sister would have hated it.
 
This is what it should be especially for something to grow and last and more importantly still be a happy enjoyable relationship.
I do still have a couple of secrets but it's stupid stuff I'm ashamed of and it's my cross to bear. Things I wouldn't tell her.
I have things this week that I've said to her, things I've a fantasy about for example, some might say they wouldn't share but why wouldn't you? It keeps our sex life exciting and 20 odd years later still keeps me physically and mentally turned on by her.
I slap her ass a lot, maybe in passing or if she's bending over for example, never fails to get the reaction I want 😋😉
Sadly not all spouses want to know our fantasies and our deepest secrets. I could never understand why, after all do
If there's stuff hubby dont know about me it's cause i've forgotten it. Seriously, the biggest blessing in our relationship was coming clean about the elephants in my attic. It opened everything up for both of us. There's dumb stuff i've done in my youth that i'd not tell anyone except him. He's my confessional and my absolution. His acceptance of my dirty laundry is a washing machine that i use. I can't think of anything that i'd need to hide from him. I hope i never do anything dumb enough to feel that damned ashamed. We have a rule with our kids that if you come to us with the truth we'll rage a moment and then do whatever it takes to help them through, but lie to us and you're on your own. So, nope... pretty much an open book.
Oh wow... This one time, i sat a bottle of sugar soap on his motorcycle for a moment and it left a big mark in the paint. I haven't told him that. Ok, so i do have secrets.
Beautifully said. Sadly not all spouses want to know our fantasies and our deepest secrets. I could never understand why, after all don’t they want to know the deepest parts of us? Isn’t that a big part of intimacy? I personally think part of it is they haven’t been Will to be honest with themselves about their fantasies and deepest desires. So when a spouse wants to share things so deep they can’t begin to embrace such sharing as a gift. My wife has shut me down in a heart beat when I have tried to share. I expect many orthers have had much the same experience.
 
My wife doesn’t know that I had a relationship with a t girl in Asia before we were married (I loved sucking her), she also doesn’t know I have a thing for golden showers or that I’m bi curious. And she never will.
Do tell more about keeping the golden showers going, unknown to your wife.
 
My wife doesn't know!

For a number of years now I have kept a secret from my wife. I am a raving cuckold! Not to my wife but to a number of different women I have met online and off-line.
I considered myself a submissive cuckold slave and I have become an avid consumer of creampies, not my own (as I become inhibited after I cum).
I have tried to talk my wife into having sex with other men and then using me as her clean-up slave but up to now she has not agreed to even though she enjoys role-playing the part of a slut who fucks all my friends.
I look forward to a time when my wife might come home late all disheveled and drunk and then confess that she just sucked two guys and then let them fuck her bareback so she could make me suck their cum from her pussy.
Hmm i like the way you think
 
Wife doesn't know that I would like to suck another man's cock and swallow his cum .
 
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