Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

[Escierto]

In our sex life, my girlfriend always tells me what she wants and how she wants it and I give her what she wants. This arrangement makes us both happy. When she says that she wants me to suck her cock, she positions herself and I suck her off. Sometimes she is standing up, sometimes lying down - either way she is in control and I submit to her control. Even now, it makes me hard just thinking about servicing her. She is my queen.

 

[Jenna2641]

Agreed 100% although I do love me some verbal dirty talk something about being on my knees for a dad in need yum! Send them my way.

That sounds about right! Dirty talk that is encouraging! Just feeds into the need to give pleasure!

 

[Singleboy2]

Submissive, yes in a delicious sort of way.

 

[cuck72]

OH YES! a specially when on your knees looking up at him.

 

[Pines]

In my teens I had a jackoff buddy for approximately a year. That was the only period in my life that I have sucked cock. He also sucked me. I did not feel submissive then, maybe because it was a mutual thing. If I ever have that opportunity again I envision a similar situation ( jackoff/ suck buddy ) and will not feel submissive whatsoever.

 

[phreedom]

I definitely feel submissive when I'm sucking, and I LOVE to feel submissive

 

[candygurl59]

I feel so totally submissive when I am sucking a man. For me to submit to him sexually, to be used as he sees fit, is the high point of being a sissy.

 

[starfish71]

Not necessarily... I don't think I am static on either the dom/sub or active/passive continuums... it depends on the mood and the partner.

 

[Subsy]

First off, a little background. I am 67 and happily married for over 40 years. My wife and I had an active sex life until about 7 or 8 years ago, when she became very disinterested in any form of sex. I tried to coax her into some unconventional avenues, like having sex with other men, if she wanted to. She rejected the idea straight away and insisted that she had just lost interest in sex, not in me. I accepted her explanation, even though I wish she had taken me up on my offer of being free to play around.

My fascination of imagining her having sex with other men did not end there. It was fueled by reading 'Hot Wife' and 'Cuckold' stories in various forums, like Literotica, and watching whatever porn vids that were related. It was a slow transformation, to where I soon began imagining myself injected into the whole scenario. I would jerk off while thinking about eating another man's cum from my wife's freshly fucked pussy, or sucking her lover hard before inserting him inside her. I was absolutely enthralled by this and fantasised about it a lot. Every time I stroked myself, this entered my mind and took control.

It came to me one day that I was becoming just as interested in the cock as I was the pussy. The stories, and the vids, and my fantasies were fairly centered around cock. My wife sucking on them, or being fucked was becoming secondary. I wanted the cock. I wanted to taste one, lick one and suck one.

Sucking cock was now my new obsession. After a few years of dreaming about it and wishing for it to happen, it did. I met with a guy from a chat site for coffee and we ended up engaged in mutual oral sex. He got the ball rolling, by sucking me off first, then my much anticipated debut went off perfectly. We met three times altogether and I found it thrilling, exciting, and all the things that sex is about. Above all, I found it quite natural to take a man's cock in my hands and mouth and make him cum.

I had always been the dominant partner in my marriage and took on a rather strong leading role wherever I worked. It was just who I was. The first time I sucked my buddy's cock I couldn't help but feel proud as he praised my efforts and refused to accept that his, was the first cock I had sucked. (At least that is what he told me). I was glowing. I then had an overwhelming compulsion to ask for him to call me a 'cocksucker'. He looked at me, smiled and called me a cocksucker. I loved it. Right then, I would have done anything that he asked me to, or told me to.

Now for the part about the question. I have found that over the past two years, I want the buddies I meet to take on a leading role in our adventures. I tell them it is okay to call me a cocksucker, to tell me what they want me to do, to take physical control of the moment and hold my head on their cock as I suck them. I want them to be in control, more and more. I have preferred to make all of my encounters to be about mutual satisfaction. I blow you, you blow me. The last two were not. The last one, I just sucked the guy off as he leaned back against a tree in an outdoor trail. When he finished and I swallowed, he suddenly became afraid of being caught and insisted we vacate the area. The one before that I was naked in bed with my buddy and he was like the puppeteer. He had told me to strip naked when I walked in the door, and I did. He told me to follow him to the living room where we kissed and felt each other up. Then he directed me to go wait for him on his bed, and I did. When he came in, he pretty much took control of all the action and had me crawl up from the foot of the bed and suck his cock as he held me there. When he filled my mouth, and I swallowed he pulled me up along side him and had me jerk off on his cock and balls, and I did. I loved it. He was definitely in charge and I loved it.

I felt like I had no choice in the way things happened during my last two meetings and it is truly an exciting prospect for me to feel this way. I am thinking that there is no way I would ever accept being humiliated or being made to call anyone 'Sir' or 'Master', but I do enjoy being told what to do and how to do it. It is almost a relief, not being in charge. Maybe it's a lowering of testosterone, or growing older. Whatever it is, I am finding that I enjoy being the submissive, when I know I am going to be sucking a cock.

What do you think guys?

I was from the beginning eager to please….still so…but I am now experienced, know what I like and what I don’t…..so sub or dom depends on what is needed…..needy subs…? They get instructions on what I need in terms of store purchases……It pleases me and makes them feel emboldened too.
it isn’t all mercenary……requiring to achieve a recent pic w a cock in their mouth is fun too

 

[cubbyfire04]

I'm very submissive BUT... I'm also quite masc and prefer older, more dominant, masc men. So while I mostly bottom, my interactions with men tend to be a more primal power dynamic which doesn't always look like your typical dom/sub relationship.

 

[rc1989]

I was a very submissive teen. Anything so I could suck that dick.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

I discovered as a young bisexual that I liked being submissive while sucking cock....being told what to do and how to do it. As my crossdresssing sissy persona emerged, being dressed slutty in heels on my knees, and waiting to be dominated was a role I naturally fell into. To this day,I love offering my face, mouth, and rosebud to the guy/gurl I'm with. It is the ultimate turn-on for me suck and lick and be filled or glazed with cum without reciprocation.

 

[tristantrotsky]

There can be little in life more pleasurable than waking up the following morning and becoming aware of that voluptuous rectal warmth still tingling deep inside you, as a reminder of the new guy you were with last night. Detecting the slight taste of cum in your mouth that still lingers, and washing it around your tongue, a loving reminder of being so well-fucked.
Getting hard all over again as the memories storm at you. FUCK!!!!! It was so wonderful. What was his name… Dave? It’s scrawled on a piece of paper alongside his cellphone number. Tempted to text now and say ‘thank you, more please.’ Is it good to appear too eager? Will it scare him off?
That first glimpse of his magnificent cock as he lowers his pants! Was it really that big, or is my mind playing tricks? And Oh God, he knows how to use it. Holding the back of my head in tight as he fucks it deep into my mouth. I close my eyes in bliss now as the images flood back with such intensity.
I undress more warily for him, a little shy, bashful. Will he like what he sees? Will I be big enough for him? Can I satisfy his needs? Crouching on the bed for him on all fours, ass raised, legs slightly parted. Feeling so open, so vulnerable. Then that incredible toe-curling breath-catching warmth of his cock-head nuzzling into the tight mouth of my ass. Such an amazing fucking that leaves me giddy and intoxicated. Licking and sucking his spent cock in faggot adoration afterwards. Loving that messy cock that’s given me so much sensual pleasure.
Will he phone me? Will he want me again… or is he ashamed of what happened, and just wants to forget it all? I lie on my back in bed, playing with my erection. Picturing his cock, over and over and over again..

 

[tristantrotsky]

I discovered as a young bisexual that I liked being submissive while sucking cock....being told what to do and how to do it. As my crossdresssing sissy persona emerged, being dressed slutty in heels on my knees, and waiting to be dominated was a role I naturally fell into. To this day,I love offering my face, mouth, and rosebud to the guy/gurl I'm with. It is the ultimate turn-on for me suck and lick and be filled or glazed with cum without reciprocation.

It relieves you of the responsibility of making decisions when he simply takes control and uses you for his own selfish satisfaction. There's so much discontent in the world, so much frustrated need. If only life could be simpler, and we act on our physical needs without the necessity of thinking it all through in terms of what this means for my social or gender status?
It’s so good to suck cock. As a man we go through all this social conditioning about what masculinity demands, while neglecting to acknowledge that every now and then it's good just to shuck off all that sensible male responsibility, and submit in the most delightful way to another man. To suck his cock and swallow his cum. Until he’s throbbing in your mouth, across your tongue. Holding your head so you take every drop, waiting until you swallow it all down, pulsing spurt after spurt of thick white spunk down your sissy faggot throat, emptying his fat balls into you. You'll taste that spunk for the rest of the day. You'll know that his cum is there swimming inside your gut, marking you as his faggot cum-slut.
Regularly sucking a friend's cock is the sweetest addiction of all, it harms no-one and increases the sum total of human pleasure in the world. There is no downside to that...

 

[sterculius]

As a confirmed cocksucker, I consider it to be my obligation to do whatever the men whose cocks I suck tell me to do in order to cause them to reach orgasm and ejaculate into my mouth. Having said that, my own personal preference is to adopt a more passive approach and encourage the men I blow to take control and to roughly force their cocks as far down my throat as it can possibly reach and aggressively fuck my throat until they ejaculate deep inside me. I love feeling "used"

 

[tristantrotsky]

Submissiveness

As a long time male cocksucker, I think that there is nothing more submissive than letting another man stick his erect penis into your mouth, fuck your mouth by pushing your head down on his cock over and over again, and taking a load of sperm in your mouth or on your face. I’m very submissive as a male cocksucker. I want potential feeders to know that I’m a true cocksucker cum slut through my submissive attitude around other men. Men have told that it’s obvious that I’m a male cocksucker by my personality, my submissive demeanor, the way I dress, and even the foods I like to eat. I think that there’s no sexual act more submissive than a man giving another man a blowjob.

So much delight, too, in surrendering yourself to another man's pleasure, in willingly giving your mouth for him to fuck, and adoring the way he loses control as he thrusts his cock into you, using your mouth as a fuck-hole...

 

[tristantrotsky]

As a confirmed cocksucker, I consider it to be my obligation to do whatever the men whose cocks I suck tell me to do in order to cause them to reach orgasm and ejaculate into my mouth. Having said that, my own personal preference is to adopt a more passive approach and encourage the men I blow to take control and to roughly force their cocks as far down my throat as it can possibly reach and aggressively fuck my throat until they ejaculate deep inside me. I love feeling "used"

There's a special kind of satisfaction that only comes from having your mouth rough-fucked, in knowing that he considers you nothing more than a fuck-hole and a cum-dump. This urge to be used gets very addictive...

 

[tristantrotsky]

I discovered as a young bisexual that I liked being submissive while sucking cock....being told what to do and how to do it. As my crossdresssing sissy persona emerged, being dressed slutty in heels on my knees, and waiting to be dominated was a role I naturally fell into. To this day,I love offering my face, mouth, and rosebud to the guy/gurl I'm with. It is the ultimate turn-on for me suck and lick and be filled or glazed with cum without reciprocation.

You are an erotic dream cum true...
I bet you look so very good wearing streams of fresh cum on your face.
But doesn't it make a mess of your mascara...?

 

[Busy54]

I agree, I always loved going to my friend Chris's house and "servicing" him every Saturday morning.

Would love to have a friend like that!

 

[tristantrotsky]

I agree, I always loved going to my friend Chris's house and "servicing" him every Saturday morning.

Did Charlie have a big hard cock? Did he rough-fuck your throat to your absolute mutual satisfaction? I love the pleasure that these encounters bring...

 

[cuck72]

I definitely feel submissive when I'm sucking, and I LOVE to feel submissive

For me it really adds to my excitement to feel submissive on my knees sucking his cock and looking up at him smiling down. Better if he's calling me a faggot cock sucker.

 

[Retnuhkcoc2020]

Yes i find i am very submissive, i just want to pleasure them and make them cum. A couple of guys have had me wear their wives panties while i sucked their cocks

 

[toowiredup]

I'll go with a qualified "sometimes." When one is down taking care of a cock, of course, you have a tremendous amount of power. And I definitely don't feel submissive if I am just kind of pouncing on a lover and taking them down my throat. But there can be moments where there's a tenderness and sweetness involved that is kind of safe and I like that feeling too. Maybe it's not submissive, but I know in those moments I'm looking upward, seeking his eyes, seeking his approval, and that feels sort of submissive.

 

[lowehf150]

Yes with a few rare exceptions. When I am on my knees, my job as a cocksucker is to do whatever I can to please him and get my yummy reward. If he wants me to go slow and easy, done. If he wants to violently fuck my throat, sure thing.

There were a few times I had to put a stop to it. Don't spit on me, don't try to force me to lick your ass, and I only drink pics when I feel like it.

I am a cocksucker, not a faggot.

 

[fetishdan]

Yes! It’s the ultimate feeling.