Do you feel submissive when you suck a cock?

I've not had the pleasure but have fantasized about giving head for decades. My thoughts are very submissive, but not really humiliation. I imagine myself there to give him a great orgasm, however he likes it. No reciprocation. He is verbal and can tell me what he wants and how it feels. I think I'm too into not bringing an STD home to the wife to ever go through with it, but hope springs eternal.

Nice to see a sane and sensible husband.

I've had similar thoughts for a similar amount of time. I did take action on them however, but with my partners knowledge and consent except for the very first time. I also used condoms most of the time, takes away from the enjoyment a bit but easier to sleep at night and not have any fear when taking an STD test.
 
nice! yes playful words are OK, not saying it in a degrading way. I'd get hard as a rock if my wife whispered in my ear, "I want to watch you suck a cock"

I remember my wife joking about my fetish one time when we were tipsy, and calling me cocksucker. I was surprised when I got aroused hearing her say that.

when I was sucking my BBC dildo in front of her, I asked her to call me a cocksucker and faggot. She got into it and was coaching me and making me tell her how much I liked it, while adding some hot names.

It wasn't in a degrading or insulting manner, but It somehow added such an extra mental stimulation that I could feel my cock harden instantly. Not sure exactly why, perhaps adds to the submissive element of the cock pleasing fantasy.
 
I love to be talked to, especially when my mouth is full and I can't say anything. I've cum while sucking a cock when he calls me something like "you sissy cocksucker faggot" (but I don't like it to be mean, just a sign of recognition and appreciation and domination). It's so exciting to me that one day while PM'ing with a nice man on here, he wrote those words and I exploded. He said my reaction pushed him over the edge too.

that's a hot and good explanation.
 
Yes

I love being on my knees with a cock in my mouth. I feel so submissive. Especially if he is holding my head as he fucks my face. Even better is if I have a leash and collar on and he is yanking my leash.
 
I love being on my knees with a cock in my mouth. I feel so submissive. Especially if he is holding my head as he fucks my face. Even better is if I have a leash and collar on and he is yanking my leash.

What kind of collar?
 
Regular dog collar, since I am a submissive bitch :). I would love to be collared with a shock collar some day and be totally helpless

That is hot. I have worn a collar a couple times to when I've played the bottom.
 
I had to act like a dog. Play fetch and everything

I would love that. It was hot just being walked on all fours. I would love to be had by someone who had a fog. They could make me drink from their bowl, even lock me naked in the dog crate.
 
I would love that. It was hot just being walked on all fours. I would love to be had by someone who had a fog. They could make me drink from their bowl, even lock me naked in the dog crate.

I think we could have some fun together
 
I love the feel of a cock in my mouth, but since I only date sissies and CD's, they are mostly bottoms. I have no need to dom anyone, but it seems the girls I date like it. I am just so glad to be with a CD that I have no need to dom her. If U just let her do what she wants, she will make you soooo happy. Women respond to kindness, and so do sissies, since they are women too.

t'were you a painter that would be an excellent visual. Well done - well painted - am tumescent thinking about it
 
it has to be fun, not into the realm of the one sided humiliation. I would also want hands behind my head when he cums (his or a woman's). I would like verbal too and would be verbal back when it was my turn and when I was sucking.
I just want him to catch me looking at his cock bulge in his pants, as I'm having a submissive sissy thought. Then he looks at me, telling me " want the fuck you looking at faggot" I want him calling me a faggot old bitch as he holds my head and I suck him off on my knees. I see me looking up thanking him as he laughs. I'd tell him how much I jack off thinking of being a cock sucking bitch daddy.
 
I love just looking up at him with his cock in my mouth. Especially if he is standing and still clothed and I am totally naked.
OH YES! I too love it that way, his big fat cock hanging out of his pants, and me maybe in panties.
 
It is a strange feeling when you suck a cock: in one side somebody has his dick in your mouth and you are submissive...but in the other side I have the power to give pleasure...:kiss:
 
No, I don't feel submissive. I would describe it as feeling sensual and hungry. It's so satisfying to feel his hardness in my mouth that all I can think about pleasing him so much that he cums. That is my reward. But I'm not submitting, I'm fulfilling my needs by pleasing him. I'm working his cock with a desire to milk him. If he tries to get dominant I leave.

I must have missed this comment the first time around, but this is pretty much 100% my take, as well.

And along with the way Hitchhiker describes it, I think my desire to suck cock is kind of a mix of sexual desire along with the basic human instinct to nurse. It's a very primal urge to suck on a warm, engorged part of a human body with the desire for that satisfying, warm, milky liquid that's going to come out. That's definitely part of my craving, I think.

Sorry if I'm getting too weird here, but yeah, at least for me I feel the psychological aspect is less about being submissive and more as Hitchhiker describes it: sensual and hungry.
 
Not at all. Quite the opposite. I have the power to give or deny pleasure at my whim.
 
Not at all. Quite the opposite. I have the power to give or deny pleasure at my whim.


I’m with you I have all the power. It’s up to you when he cums or you stop and make him wait. Right before he cums you are it complete control.😉
 
No, I don't feel submissive. I would describe it as feeling sensual and hungry. It's so satisfying to feel his hardness in my mouth that all I can think about pleasing him so much that he cums. That is my reward. But I'm not submitting, I'm fulfilling my needs by pleasing him. I'm working his cock with a desire to milk him. If he tries to get dominant I leave.


Agreed 100% although I do love me some verbal dirty talk 😈 something about being on my knees for a dad in need yum! Send them my way.
 
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