PlanetaryNebula
Call me Nebs
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NAT!!!!!!!I don't do video either. Unless it's with family.
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NAT!!!!!!!I don't do video either. Unless it's with family.
but who defines decent? Decent to some is much different than decent to others. So it is an arbitrary label of the acceptable standard based on the opinions of the most influential of the masses in that locale. Which I am sure is an excellent scale for people who are represented by the masses. Not so great for the outliers. And the masses' definition of this perceived acceptable standard changes every few years. It is why heavy women are a lot less likely to be hired and earn much less than thin peers. It is why neurodivergent people have a more difficult time gaining and staying employed. Plus, I find the expectation of meeting the standard mass definition of acceptable decency causes the outliers to try to blend, but I prefer the outliers, so they become harder for me to find them.I expect people to appreciate others enough to dress and behave in an decent manner. Doesn't need to be fancy.
Very good. Enjoying the singles life.Hi Nat!!!How’s PR?
ExactlyAll of this, for all of you! I’m still enforcing the no self-depreciation, by the way![]()
Same, especially with a group of strangers.so true … I’m so socially awkward and it’s definitely hindered me at some points in my life.
Singles??Very good. Enjoying the singles life.
Exactly
Nebs!!!NAT!!!!!!!
sleep is over rated.Very variedly. Right now very nice, should be in bed already of course
Sent Lisa home.Singles??![]()
NAT!! Are you still in PR?I don't do video either. Unless it's with family.
With me, my taste have always been simple. Practice good hygiene, wear clean clothes. I believe looking good for others is important, but I tend to hold it in a far less formal sensebut who defines decent? Decent to some is much different than decent to others. So it is an arbitrary label of the acceptable standard based on the opinions of the most influential of the masses in that locale. Which I am sure is an excellent scale for people who are represented by the masses. Not so great for the outliers. And the masses' definition of this perceived acceptable standard changes every few years. It is why heavy women are a lot less likely to be hired and earn much less than thin peers. It is why neurodivergent people have a more difficult time gaining and staying employed. Plus, I find the expectation of meeting the standard mass definition of acceptable decency causes the outliers to try to blend, but I prefer the outliers, so they become harder for me to find them.
Waiting to go to San Juan so I can go dancing. I've still got six more days hereNAT!! Are you still in PR?
Part of me still wishes I visited Hamburg.it was awesome and i think i still have some stripes on my skin![]()
It was much appreciatedthat's what friends are for![]()
Me too. I'm far better with the written word.I am FAR better at communicating via text/mail/the written word… When I’m in person, I feel like a total goober
was there a problem?Sent Lisa home.
Are you two still good or…?Sent Lisa home.
I'm very self-conscious about my voice. Appearance-wise I'm passable, but I have a deep voice, and severe speech problems. I much prefer communicating by wordI am FAR better at communicating via text/mail/the written word… When I’m in person, I feel like a total goober
was there a problem?
I've been having problems with my meds, so my brother felt that she should go with me to keep an eye on me. I'm not offended by the idea, but both people lied to me, and I'm not about to share Paradise with someone who lies to me. Not angry, she's a sweet girl, but it was a big line to crossAre you two still good or…?
Sorry, I’m being nosey… feel free to not answer of course!
Wow, yeah, that’s a big deal. I’m sorryI've been having problems with my meds, so my brother felt that she should go with me to keep an eye on me. I'm not offended by the idea, but both people lied to me, and I'm not about to share Paradise with someone who lies to me. Not angry, she's a sweet girl, but it was a big line to cross
And they could have just as well openly discussed it with you - in which case there wouldn't have been any problem!I've been having problems with my meds, so my brother felt that she should go with me to keep an eye on me. I'm not offended by the idea, but both people lied to me, and I'm not about to share Paradise with someone who lies to me. Not angry, she's a sweet girl, but it was a big line to cross
Oh, I am!Wow, yeah, that’s a big deal. I’m sorryBut I hope you can enjoy the time you have left there to the fullest!
I’m aliveHi MM. How are you doing?
Exactly, I'm not mad at the what. But I don't do SecretsAnd they could have just as well openly discussed it with you - in which case there wouldn't have been any problem!
I try to identify if I have a standard, identify why, then mix it all up, lower it, smash it. It depends on the why of each piece of the standard. I'm a very weird person. Clean clothes are definitely tossed out of the standard, dirty clothes tend to be a symbol of both hard work and hard play, I am a fan of both. I do appreciate decent hygiene though.With me, my taste have always been simple. Practice good hygiene, wear clean clothes. I believe looking good for others is important, but I tend to hold it in a far less formal sense
That's awesome! I certainly wouldn't have it any other wayI’m alive![]()
I’m ALL about good hygiene…like if you smell funky or dont brush or shower regularly or have stinky feet … hard limit.I try to identify if I have a standard, identify why, then mix it all up, lower it, smash it. It depends on the why of each piece of the standard. I'm a very weird person. Clean clothes are definitely tossed out of the standard, dirty clothes tend to be a symbol of both hard work and hard play, I am a fan of both. I do appreciate decent hygiene though.