HeavyBalls
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I really don't want to be me today.
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Exactly thisI've always said Yours, mine, and somewhere in the middle.![]()
I took a stroll down memory lane today and visited some years old GB threads on which I was one of the subjects of lit drama. I was shocked at how much time had passed, and I find myself thinking how often there is drama between people on this site (particularly in the GB and the PG because there are just more people and more activity on these forums, although chat seems to take the cake with drama). There are always at least 2 versions of every story and I do wonder how things might be different if people would step back and consider that they don't know everything when going on the attack.
In my case, I lost a few friends. That likely turned out for the best; learning who would bail on you rather than support you when you find yourself the target of gossip and attacks really does let you know who your friends are. I gained a few friends, too, people who reached out to me and asked for my side. I've never denied anything I have said or done on or related to this site, but I have had lies spread about me, too. Later, a whole made up drama about me took place on the GB, too. Shrug.
Ah, I guess this whole rant is to implore people to remember that there are real people on the other end of the interpersonal drama and very few people tend to know the whole stories when things go down. One of the reasons I am happy to be a mod is to have the ability to help people when they find themselves in situations like these. Also, I love this place and want to help keep it as safe as possible.
Sorry you experienced that. It sucks. Glad you made it thru. I think many of us here are also happy you are a mod and appreciate your generosity with your time.
Congrats on the big win.
About the support my daughter needs with her son in the hospital. She would like to give into the stress. I told her she can't give in, to take one day, one step, at a time.
For being bitched at for turning off my messages was crazy. I have never had to deal with that type of behavior before. Talk about total stalker behavior. Nobody should have to deal with this type of shit, this is why I'm so weary of people. I enjoy Forums in general, but this whole situation was bat shit crazy.
I’m glad you’re a mod here TPH even with, and because of, history.![]()
Pissed of with arseholes whole think that women on here owe them something.
These people are driving good women off of lit
Pissed of with arseholes whole think that women on here owe them something.
These people are driving good women off of lit
My goal is to drive *them* off. There isn’t room for men like that anywhere in life anymore, and they are scared. Online is their last hiding place to get away with rude and rapey stuff. We don’t ignore, and we aren’t scared.
-A not so good woman
And I do them well.![]()