GF aroused? Or?

[Trybi99]

Gf got home from work yesterday and whilst stood naked about to have a pee before getting in the shower I decided to stand behind her, and reach round to her pussy. To my surprise my fingers slipped straight inside her. She was soaking with beautiful warm and glistening lube! I immediately start joking and teasing her asking what had aroused her at work, but she says it’s just “discharge” and that she is desperate for a wee.

Shame on me, I didn’t go down on her there and then even though I was turned on thinking of her getting aroused at work. I know of one guy there that she flirts with, but sadly she is very vanilla and would never do anything.

What do the ladies on here think, is it plausible she wasn’t turned on and it was a natural thing (please say no

 

[ToPleaseHim]

It is 100% likely she was telling you the truth. You should listen to her.

 

[Jada59]

A healthy vagina is always wet.

 

[30bandits]

A healthy vagina is always wet.

and a terrible thing to waste....

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Also to add, you should talk to her about this for sure. If my guy made a move and I responded with the word “discharge,” I definitely would be communicating that I was not at all interested. I can’t even imagine replying with that so I suspect she was annoyed or upset.

It would help you to know what her turn ons are, too. The quickest path to flipping my switch is his mouth on my neck. He knows this and if he came up behind me, I’m getting neck nibbles and something hot (loving or demanding, depending on what he has in mind) whispered in my ear. Just walking up to most women and inserting a finger just doesn’t seem like a go to move.

 

[Trybi99]

Blimey! I didn’t expect a lecture! She was very happy to be touched in the way I did and we were both laughing throughout - but thanks for your advice

 

[ToPleaseHim]

Sounds good. You did start a thread asking if we thought your gf was aroused. Hopefully that is something that you actually do know and you were hoping for some “fuck yeah” wank fodder or something rather than answers. *

 

[NightL]

Zero mention of consent in your opening post. Going in for an uninvited grab is so rapey. I suggest the Trump playbook is not the best to emulate, more than enough sexual assault and rape accusations against him. Implied trust issues on your behalf, not of your fantasies but simply failing to listen.

As for

sadly she is very vanilla and would never do anything

I doubt you will ever find out otherwise with your communication skills of imposing unwanted/uninvited physical invasion and not accepting answers.

yeah that is all kinds of creepy

Show her this thread you started, I will be intrigued for her response.

 

[Athalia]

Blimey! I didn’t expect a lecture! She was very happy to be touched in the way I did and we were both laughing throughout - but thanks for your advice

Plenty of reasons for laughter that don't signal arousal... release of tension, realization of how ludicrous the situation was, maybe her attempt to put you at ease about your possibly feeling shame about boundaries being crossed.

But hey, I'm glad you asked. I doubt if the impropriety of the action ever crossed Trump's mind, and he would never have dreamed of asking somebody whether it was improper.

 

[ericalauren]

This is creepy. Do you not know how consent works?

 

[L1511p]

What a sad thread, really people? 'Be quiet you mysogenistic human' is how it sounds to me

If a husband or BF gently strokes his SO, what she says would depend on her vocabulary, and how she usually talks. How she said it being at least - probably more important. You would know if you continued as you as a couple do, whatever that means, whether she was into it or not, and its not possible for anyone but you two to decide whats right for you.

If she doesnt want it and you move onto the next thing thats fine, but we cant know.

'No, dont rape me' she said, has been known to be asking to be carried to bed... Especially for those using safe words...