Deal Makers....what are yours?

[BadAmy]

Since we have the "Deal-Breakers" thread, why not some "Deal Makers"?
What are the things that keep that relationship going? that bring you closer, that keep you coming back for more?
That "make" it?


for me, it's time, giving and receiving. to start.

what about you?

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[saustin5432]

Easy for me...you gotta be smart, witty and sarcastic. All of them or it just doesn't light my fire.

If we can sit down over a bottle of wine, discuss everything from physics to current events to ocean micro fauna, crack jokes, and poke fun at each other...then I'll probably fall for you by the time we open the second bottle of wine.

 

[BadAmy]

Easy for me...you gotta be smart, witty and sarcastic. All of them or it just doesn't light my fire.

If we can sit down over a bottle of wine, discuss everything from physics to current events to ocean micro fauna, crack jokes, and poke fun at each other...then I'll probably fall for you by the time we open the second bottle of wine.

how do you feel about quantum physics?



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[Lonelywife1205]

Easy for me...you gotta be smart, witty and sarcastic. All of them or it just doesn't light my fire.

If we can sit down over a bottle of wine, discuss everything from physics to current events to ocean micro fauna, crack jokes, and poke fun at each other...then I'll probably fall for you by the time we open the second bottle of wine.

But I don’t know anything about ocean micro fauna….
Can I just show you my panties instead?

 

[saustin5432]

how do you feel about quantum physics?



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I know I don't understand it, but I definitely love a good discussion about quantum computing and quantum encryption. Trying to understand how a transmission of quantum data can actually self detect if it has even been looked at is about the most fascinating thing because I really cannot wrap my head around it. I'm so stuck in the world that I'm stuck in, where we have to use things like checksums and hashes to verify data integrity and those only get affected if the data is modified..you have no idea if I'm just watching your data go by.

Oh...and the concept that a quantum computer can simultaneous guess all combinations of a password or encryption key...mind blown.

 

[BadAmy]

I know I don't understand it, but I definitely love a good discussion about quantum computing and quantum encryption. Trying to understand how a transmission of quantum data can actually self detect if it has even been looked at is about the most fascinating thing because I really cannot wrap my head around it. I'm so stuck in the world that I'm stuck in, where we have to use things like checksums and hashes to verify data integrity and those only get affected if the data is modified..you have no idea if I'm just watching your data go by.

Oh...and the concept that a quantum computer can simultaneous guess all combinations of a password or encryption key...mind blown.

i need a minute.

 

[saustin5432]

But I don’t know anything about ocean micro fauna….
Can I just show you my panties instead?

Lol. All topics are not required, but a variety of knowledge sure does help.

Oh and yes, of course...I already came out of the shadows on the panty thing, so send 'em my way.

 

[Mei5ter]

Lol. All topics are not required, but a variety of knowledge sure does help.

Oh and yes, of course...I already came out of the shadows on the panty thing, so send 'em my way.

You do realise that LonelyWife's panties are currently in a superposition of states. They are all styles and colours simultaneously. But when you see them, you will force them to be in a single state, and they'll become a particular style and colour.

We need to create the Schrodinger's Lingerie brand.

 

[saustin5432]

I want to know what makes your brain tick, not just your body

Yes. I wish I had thought of putting it that way.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Emotional and situational intelligence

 

[saustin5432]

You do realise that LonelyWife's panties are currently in a superposition of states. They are all styles and colours simultaneously. But when you see them, you will force them to be in a single state, and they'll become a particular style and colour.

We need to create the Schrodinger's Lingerie brand.

I love this.

 

[Whiskeyjack]

Since we have the "Deal-Breakers" thread, why not some "Deal Makers"?
What are the things that keep that relationship going? that bring you closer, that keep you coming back for more?
That "make" it?


for me, it's time, giving and receiving. to start.

what about you?

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Just knowing that they'll be there to go through the shit with you. My wife and I bonded when she was going through some really tough times and I tried to be there for her as best I knew how. Then when it was my turn to go through a really rough patch she went above and beyond to keep me from falling apart. Plus we click in such a way that we get through it all with a lot of laughter. That's key for us.

 

[BadAmy]

Genuine kindness. And a goooood kisser. That's a plus in my book.

 

[cheekygirl75]

Have to agree with BadAmy's genuine kindness & good kisser... those are a very good start.

Curiosity about the world, people, life, etc. I think this goes along with being intelligent

Some introspection & definitely emotional intelligence & being able to laugh at himself and not take himself too seriously

Communication

Independence - I don't want to be anyone's social director. Have your own things going on

Be able to make me really laugh

 

[barefootgirl69]

Honesty and being available are deal makers, but there are more.

 

[Asian_Flower]

Like others mentioned, a guy who makes me laugh, is nice and has a good heart. If you add in very muscular Alpha male then you have a deal!

 

[Acktion]

I admit it. I'm a simple man.

 

[BadAmy]

Wordy and creative. Sophisticated and well put together. Adventurous, too!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

When my person is good to other people, it's sexy as fuck.

 

[BadAmy]

When my person is good to other people, it's sexy as fuck.

oh yes.
how do they treat their mom?
or Nana?
or Teacher, or grocery clerk?

yeah. that's good stuff right there.

 

[Mr_bogey]

A certain morally casual attitude...

 

[AmberLGreen]

Nice to others, sense of humour, realist in a down to earth way, likes simple things, compassionate and caring but also lustful and demanding in the bedroom

 

[Cherry_Brandy]

Someone who is open, honest, can laugh and who does nothing by halves, I hate halves. Either do it or don't, feel it or don't. At our age you should know what you like and what you don't. Oh! Don't be late ..... Navy time is 5 mins before time so be there 6 mins early

 

[Anastasia1999]

It’s very easy really.

Be nice to others
Treat me as an absolute equal
Impress me with your wisdom and be understated with it.
Make me laugh until my stomach cramps.

 

[BadAmy]

Someone who licks mah butthole is a plus in my book.
I mean,
Why put limits on this?
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