How did you know your role?

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Were you naturally a bottom or top? How did you discover that? I don’t wanna ask too many questions about this topic, but how did you know, and can you tell me how it happened? My first was with my neighbor One night we were calling it a night, I can’t remember who made the first move but we started to take turns humping each other.

It started off with us in our sleeping bags trying to hump through them. Then every next sleepover it got more intense. We ditched the sleeping bags and humped with our underwear on. Now I do remember feeling way more excited being on the bottom now. And my friend definitely seamed to be natural on top. Then the night that made me a total bottom happened. The last time before he penetrated me ended with my friend pulling down his underwear and stabbing my ass hard through mine. He didn’t tear through or anything but he was so close. So this sleepover was nothing more than continuing where we left off. He was even telling me way before bedtime how he was gonna make sure he rips Felicia underwear off in his dreams tonight and pop her cherry!

That’s how we made it seem like we were not being gay. We were pretending to be asleep and dreaming. So bedtime came along and we both were so hot to do this. I naturally stayed on my stomach like the bottom I was about to become. And my friend naturally was already rock hard and naked. He didn’t waste time like before, he just pulled my underwear down past my ass. And tried to fuck me. I was resisting a bit because I didn’t know better. But he pulled my underwear completely off and spread my legs open wide. His hard breathing and determination was so hot. I finally submitted and helped him get his cock in my ass by moving my hips into his cock. I remember how hot his cock felt when he got inside me. And then he started making a lot of hard breathing sounds, more than usual. That’s when I felt his cum flood my ass. It made a natural lubricant and his cock went all the way in and I cried out..ahhh
Like a bitch! My friend turned my head so my face was in the pillow and said.. ssshhh
right in my ear. He was able to fuck my ass now that it was lubed up with his cum. It wasn’t long but I remember hard forceful pounding. He also said in my ear that I was his little bitch now. Everything he did to me that night was so naturally a top man. And I was so naturally a little bitch.

I want to thank all you Tops that make us the bitches we are. Thank you for dominating us. And being rough!

Tell me how you new you were a bottom bitch! And tell me about your first cock in your ass!
 
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You might want to re-think posting here about underage sexual activity.
You asked a good question, but I'm not touching it so long as the pedo-porn remains.
 
I knew the first time I saw a woman with a cock. I had been chatting on cam with her for months but I always had thought she was a regular woman. Finally one day she was upset and told me that she had been dishonest with me. I was confused as hell but then she confessed that she had a cock. I didn’t believe her so then she showed me.

The moment I saw her cock I was overcome with the desire to suck it and have it in my ass. It took me a decade to accept my desires and finally act on them. Once I did, I knew that there was no going back. Now I have a transgender girlfriend who is a pure top and I love being her bottom and servicing her cock.
 
You might want to re-think posting here about underage sexual activity.
You asked a good question, but I'm not touching it so long as the pedo-porn remains.

We were the same age, and by the time it was the last sleepover we were old enough, too old for sleepover actually. But I understand your concern.
 
I knew the first time I saw a woman with a cock. I had been chatting on cam with her for months but I always had thought she was a regular woman. Finally one day she was upset and told me that she had been dishonest with me. I was confused as hell but then she confessed that she had a cock. I didn’t believe her so then she showed me.

The moment I saw her cock I was overcome with the desire to suck it and have it in my ass. It took me a decade to accept my desires and finally act on them. Once I did, I knew that there was no going back. Now I have a transgender girlfriend who is a pure top and I love being her bottom and servicing her cock.

Wow! That’s such a different angle! It’s still very hot. I never tried that before!
 
She’s gorgeous

Thank you!

One thing I am curious about. I tend to be kind of emo especially after sex. She is not. Also I love having her cum inside me but she is matter of fact about it. Is this normal for tops and bottoms? I really feel that as far as sex is concerned, she is rather “male” and I am “female”. Can anyone relate to this or is it just me?
 
Thank you!

One thing I am curious about. I tend to be kind of emo especially after sex. She is not. Also I love having her cum inside me but she is matter of fact about it. Is this normal for tops and bottoms? I really feel that as far as sex is concerned, she is rather “male” and I am “female”. Can anyone relate to this or is it just me?

I think that it depends on the person not the gender. I can get emotional sometimes with sex but mainly with my lady lover. So when it is girl on girl it is more intimate, sensual and erotic. With my husband, I am more aggressive, want to cum and make him cum a lot and just fuck. So it all depends.
 
Destined to be a sub bottom

I feel I am a sub bottom but as I am still a virgin, I guess my true nature has not been verified. I have grown increasingly drawn to cock as I age. However, I am not attracted to men at all. This confused me to the point that I got a male naked erotic massage to test my desire for M2M action.

The masseur stated that there would be no penetration and I supported that. He was free to touch me and I could make occasional contact with him. The massage was great and his hands were magic but I was never drawn to look at or touch his cock. I was failing my “gay” test right up to the point that he put my legs on his shoulders for a hamstring stretch. A switch flipped in my head. I went instantly sub bottom with his cock lined up to my exposed ass. All I could think about was him mounting me. Of course the masseur knew none of this. The massage ended with my happy ending but I left his place shaken at what I had felt. The shear willing submission to be taken by another male had just flooded my being.

It took a few months but I began to be interested in massage 2 so I set that up. He had laid on top of me briefly in the first massage and that had kind of freaked me out so we agreed to skip that on massage 2. Just as before, his massage was great. I relaxed easier with this one to the point that I told him to go ahead and include what we initially said to skip. He was soon crawling on top of the table. I felt my legs spread to welcome him. I felt my hips roll up to accept him. And then I felt disappointed when he was not erect. No matter really as I had just verified that I was a sub bottom just waiting to be turned into someone’s bitch. Still waiting and wanting. My fantasies are about being a cock sucking bottom and a spit roasted bottom. I don’t think there is any doubt about what my role is. Now I just need the experiences to see how much I like it as in “a lot” or “A WHOLE LOT”
 
For me the pleasure i get through anal penetration is so intense, that nothing compares. Add to that the exciting submissive element, of being controlled, but also being wanted, having someone fuck you, instead of fucking them... When that clicks in your head, physically and emotionally, i find it never clicks back x
 
Wow - what a compelling first time by MGTG! I think we're somehow internally wired. As in his sleep over story, his friend seemed to "naturally" take the top role and he, the bottom. Heterosexual men are "naturally" wired to do the same with women. In the gay world, things may be more complex and fluid, but for me, I relate to MGTG - I have always "naturally" assumed that I would submit and doing otherwise seems unnatural.
 
I think I´ve always subconsciously known that I´m a top. My first cruising experience with another guy was in the restroom of a department store. We knew next to nothing and were not successful but I somehow took it for granted that I would top him. After that I started out as a bottom for a guy five years older than me (which at that age seemed a lot) and with a lot of experience. But it didn´t take long and I had my first real time as a top. Feeling the other guy under me, his spread thighs, his lips, his heavy breath, his warmth and tightness, and then cumming inside him, loins pressed against his ass cheeks, I instantly knew that this was what I had craved for so long.
Exactly right.
 
I have been asked how I know I like men, how I know I want to have sex with men, how I know I want to suck cock, and how I know I want to get ass fucked.

I just understand my desires. Before it used to be curiosity, to see “what it’s like.” Now that I understand my homosexual desires, I know that I want to experience all the pleasures that men can have together. I have also come to learn that I am more submissive than dominant, and the urge to be dominated by another man is quite strong.
 
I have been asked how I know I like men, how I know I want to have sex with men, how I know I want to suck cock, and how I know I want to get ass fucked.

I just understand my desires. Before it used to be curiosity, to see “what it’s like.” Now that I understand my homosexual desires, I know that I want to experience all the pleasures that men can have together. I have also come to learn that I am more submissive than dominant, and the urge to be dominated by another man is quite strong.
I have to laugh when someone says how do you know? That's like asking how do you know when to eat? Or how do you know when to drink? There is no thought process involved when you look at a cock and you want to suck it. At least not a higher brain process - maybe a reptilian one lol
 
I've known I was a bottom (although I didn't know that term back then) since the first time my best friend fucked me in the ass when we were both teens. The feelings I experienced when his cock entered me for the first time were unlike anything I had ever experienced up to that point. We had been blowing each other and swallowing each other's cum for a few weeks prior to trying anal, but I had also been sexually experimenting with my girlfriend during the same time period. When my best friend's hard cock slid inside my ass for the first time, I instinctively knew that my place was on the receiving end. I fucked him that same night, and even though I enjoyed having my cock in his ass, it didn't feel nearly as good as when his cock was in mine. Luckily for me, during our discussion afterward, he admitted a preference for doing the fucking and I admitted to liking being fucked better. After that, I would top him occasionally, but only when he requested it. Over the next three years, I think I topped him less than 10 times, while he fucked me probably 300 or more times. I was hooking up with other guys during that time as well, and always bottomed for them.
 
Honestly, I let whoever I’m with lead. Most of the time I bottom (might just be the guys I came across at the time), but I’m pretty transparent on preferences and how they’re feeling/coming off. It’s not hard to tell
 
I knew from my teenage years that being sexually submissive to an older man was a part of my sexuality. When the time was right and I met the right (much older than me) man, we got right into it. He was very gentile, understanding and patient with me when I needed him to be, but adventurous when I was ready and willing to explore my more extreme curiosities and desires. I thoroghly enjoyed my experiences with him and the doors he opened with me.
 
My first MM encounters were with Bottoms and that suited me. I switch now and happy in either role.
 
For me the pleasure i get through anal penetration is so intense, that nothing compares. Add to that the exciting submissive element, of being controlled, but also being wanted, having someone fuck you, instead of fucking them... When that clicks in your head, physically and emotionally, i find it never clicks back x
Yes, you just know that you know.
I know.
 
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