Tips for cunnilingus?

[AlexBailey]

Hey you beautiful vulva owners!

What should us poor XY outies be thinking and doing to hit every important and sensitive nook and cranny -- to bring our best game to make things as pleasurable as possible for your beautiful lovely selves?

I've asked many lovers this question and have heard some delicious and rewarding ideas. I'm sure I'm not alone in wanting to hear from the girls of Lit.


Of course there is no single magic move that works for every quaking clitoris, what are some personal preferences and specialties?

 

[littlecordelera]

Shave. That would be my No. 1 suggestion.

 

[Curvycutiepie]

Being willing and happy and eager to do it in the first place is half the battle!!

 

[AlexBailey]

Shave. That would be my No. 1 suggestion.

Shave. The giver? The receiver? Both?

 

[gregy70]

Shave. That would be my No. 1 suggestion.

That’s my wife’s No1 too lol

 

[Mtnmike]

Being willing and happy and eager to do it in the first place is half the battle!!

I'm eager, willing & very happy to every day but wife lost her libido 12 years ago

Wish I could find a lady willing to fill in.

 

[gregy70]

Being willing and happy and eager to do it in the first place is half the battle!!

I’m curious how many woman would like to have a nice guy they could contact for no reciprocation necessary booty call oral.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

I'm interested in ladies thoughts on this too. Is it best to "focus on the clit", or using your tongue more liberally...up and down the lips. More "sucking" or licking, or a bit of both. Fingers inside or not?

Of course everyone. has their preference, and there's no "one lick fits all," but I'm very interested in ladies perspectives to give me more ideas. I, too, am VERY eager and enthusiastic, and could do it all day with a receptive partner.

 

[AlexBailey]

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Of course everyone. has their preference, and there's no "one lick fits all," but I'm very interested in ladies perspectives to give me more ideas...

Yes, of course.... It's all a matter of taste.


So what are some favorite 'recepies' ?

 

[Justabaldguy70]

Being willing and happy and eager to do it in the first place is half the battle!!

How can a guy not be?

 

[Carnevil9]

Shave. The giver? The receiver? Both?

I'm guessing she means shave your face before going south of the equator. No lady wants razor burns on her tender spots.

 

[Katch123]

I'm interested in ladies thoughts on this too. Is it best to "focus on the clit", or using your tongue more liberally...up and down the lips. More "sucking" or licking, or a bit of both. Fingers inside or not?

Of course everyone. has their preference, and there's no "one lick fits all," but I'm very interested in ladies perspectives to give me more ideas. I, too, am VERY eager and enthusiastic, and could do it all day with a receptive partner.

This post reminded me of the Tootsie pop commercial where a kid asks Mr. Owl how many lick does it take ...

 

[Xoxo1017924]

Help

My advice would be to edge her for a bit licking and sucking on her clit pulling away right before she come. Or if she impatient ( as I am ) just let her ride your tongue tugging on your hair as she uses you!

 

[HoneyBrunette]

Don't slober... wet is good but friction is required. Too wet just rings it for me. I get wet enough without extra saliva down there

 

[AlexBailey]

I'm guessing she means shave your face before going south of the equator. No lady wants razor burns on her tender spots.

Again, it must be about taste!

My favorite is when we're both clean shaven, no flossers or nose ticklers.

Don't slober... wet is good but friction is required. Too wet just rings it for me. I get wet enough without extra saliva down there

A naturally soggy puss is a beautiful thing, but the reality is that not everyone is naturally wet, even when aroused. I've been with girls who didn't have much natural lube where the handiest option was to give her a nice slobbery licking before taking the plunge. The trouble is that it's easy to get carried away and get her off before we ever get around to having sex.

My wife loves getting licked but she usually wants me to keep it low key if we are planning to move on to fucking. Once she has an orgasm her clit gets so hypersensitive that additional orgasms start to become out of body experiences for her, where her eyes roll back and she starts to have uncontrollable tremors and what could only be described as seizures. I love fucking her through her orgasms, but it starts to seem dangerous when she's unable to talk and it takes her ten minutes to stop shaking with aftershocks.


Most of my munching ends up being gentle edging, with my tongue exploring the folds of her inner lips, the creases and crannies and the edges of her entrance. Licking at the folds of her clitoral hood and chasing her little bean around in circles... A delicate sucking can happen in little spurts of enthusiasm, but dwelling on it for too long can be too much for her. If we plan to go all the way, cunnilinguis is best as patient edging, mixed with massaging and groping all over her voluptuous body, squeezing and rubbing her inner thighs, rubbing her hips and beautiful belly, squeezing an ass cheek in each hand, brushing a fingertip across her quivering little rosebud, taking a quick break from her snatch and giving each erect nipples a suck and a kiss, then blow cool air over her wet nipples and down her belly and her glistening open slit, then I kiss her mouth deeply to give her a taste of herself...

Hmmm... Pussy envy can be intense!

 

[BBCfan]

M&Ms / Moans and movements. Follow those and she'll tell you what to do without saying a word.

generally great advice.

Yet I find I would rather get a more verbal guidebook. I remember one lover and spending time enjoying tlll my tongue ached ...close but no success.

I asked for some clear guidance...lick my clit like a ice cream cone. a minute later she was orgasming like crazy.

sometimes the combination to unlock the magic garden is better shared.

 

[KatieDoes]

When a woman says ‘yes, right there’ we mean ‘yes. Right there.’ Don’t change it. Don’t move it. Don’t ‘improve it’ Don’t do a backflip and try to land back on that spot. Just keep doing what you’re doing, exactly where you’re doing it.

 

[littlecordelera]

Shave. The giver? The receiver? Both?

The giver.

Some of you guys have stubble like sandpaper, and that is NO fun down there. It's not fun anywhere, really. And even though I may not complain, because it's not always all that discomforting, it is distracting. And I don't like distractions during sex. And besides, taking the time to shave shows you care about HER pleasure.

My No. 2 suggestion would be, "Take your time." You don't have to dive in like a hungry dog. Use the opportunity to display your love and devotion to her and her body. Breathe on it. Kiss it. Give tender, teasing licks. Show that you are willing to take time for her pleasure, and slowly build the momentum until you have her clit and all the flesh surrounding it in your mouth. And then knead that area with your mouth and tongue, or suck with soft to moderate pressure. Don't suck hard. If you can master the art of kneading and sucking - THAT is the ultimate.

Beyond all this, I think anything I might suggest would really only be my own personal preference, so there is not much point in me writing all that.

Practice, try new things, and pay attention to how she reacts. If you really want to be good at it, plan the whole day around her. Make her whole day special. That's what will get you the high quality sex you're looking for.

 

[Iwant2havefun]

The giver.

Some of you guys have stubble like sandpaper, and that is NO fun down there. It's not fun anywhere, really. And even though I may not complain, because it's not always all that discomforting, it is distracting. And I don't like distractions during sex. And besides, taking the time to shave shows you care about HER pleasure.

My No. 2 suggestion would be, "Take your time." You don't have to dive in like a hungry dog. Use the opportunity to display your love and devotion to her and her body. Breathe on it. Kiss it. Give tender, teasing licks. Show that you are willing to take time for her pleasure, and slowly build the momentum until you have her clit and all the flesh surrounding it in your mouth. And then knead that area with your mouth and tongue, or suck with soft to moderate pressure. Don't suck hard. If you can master the art of kneading and sucking - THAT is the ultimate.

Beyond all this, I think anything I might suggest would really only be my own personal preference, so there is not much point in me writing all that.

Practice, try new things, and pay attention to how she reacts. If you really want to be good at it, plan the whole day around her. Make her whole day special. That's what will get you the high quality sex you're looking for.

This is great advice, thanks so much for taking the time to share it! I'm always interested in new ideas, suggestions, and recommendations. Being "open-minded" is an important part of learning and growing.... : )

 

[littlecordelera]

This is great advice, thanks so much for taking the time to share it! I'm always interested in new ideas, suggestions, and recommendations. Being "open-minded" is an important part of learning and growing.... : )

You're welcome.

Hopefully a lot of women out there will soon be enjoying their guy's new efforts!

 

[Jasminelit]

Nice long strokes - take your time. Work from the outside in. Not like porn where the guy is lapping at it like a cat drinking water.

 

[peekingone]

Nice long strokes - take your time. Work from the outside in. Not like porn where the guy is lapping at it like a cat drinking water.

LMAO now that is a great response at the end lol. Well done

 

[bookworm69]

M&Ms / Moans and movements. Follow those and she'll tell you what to do without saying a word.

that's great advice. it's something like I always believed: listen to her body (moans and movements), but also where she is directing you. I always start slow and try to match her tempo (that is, speed and direction). oh yeah, when the clit is fully awake and throbbing ... you are on your way.

And, don't follow a script or a checklist ... listen and take heed of what/how the lady wants it.

 

[newhere2learn]

Spell the alphabet on her clit. Slowly with the tip of your tongue.

 

[Diann_Mom]

Spell the alphabet on her clit. Slowly with the tip of your tongue.

Don't forget to dot the "I" and cross the "T".