Hunger for intimacy and touch

[starbrand_74]

I've have been celibate for a long time, for various reasons. I've been talking recently with people in various communities about what I want, what I'm after, and need.

What do I want? I want a physical connection with a woman. I want to be intimate, I want to experience kissing, pressing bodies up against one another. I want to be naked with someone and explore their body, kiss every part of them. The experience may not end up with intercourse, but I would greatly enjoy any and all things in between. I want to feel that erotic energy with someone, give pleasure to them, and myself, and above all, let myself truly enjoy it. There are so many ways I could describe what I want it to involve. Very clear pictures in my head that I see, and I see, feel, and hear all of it. I very much want to experience it soon.

I thought I had found someone that I could experience that with, but she is on a different wavelength, at a different time in her life. She did admit that once not long ago, she wanted the same things, the same way, and helped a friend of hers have a sensual, rewarding experience with her, but is is not something she is able to give to anyone other than main lover in her life right now. I felt a connection with this woman because of conversations I had with her, found her to be interesting, compassionate, quite interested in helping myself (and others, it's part of what she does for a living) find what they are looking for.

So I thought I should join up here, put out there what I want, and perhaps someone will respond to me, and perhaps want to chat directly with me. As I said, there has to be some sort of connection initially. The connection could be built immediately, or over a few days, or weeks, it doesn't matter. And if the person wants to take things a step further, to meet up, to act upon things, then I will follow through.

 

[jedclampet69]

Girl Friend experience at the local brothel may help you out ..

 

[Wageslave]

I've have been celibate for a long time, for various reasons. I've been talking recently with people in various communities about what I want, what I'm after, and need.

What do I want? I want a physical connection with someone. I want to be intimate, I want to experience kissing, pressing bodies up against one another. I want to be naked with someone and explore their body, kiss every part of them. The experience may not end up with intercourse, but I would greatly enjoy any and all things in between. I want to feel that erotic energy with someone, give pleasure to them, and myself, and above all, let myself truly enjoy it. There are so many ways I could describe what I want it to involve. Very clear pictures in my head that I see, and I see, feel, and hear all of it. I very much want to experience it soon.

This resonates so deeply with me. I am in a relationship with the sweetest and most understanding women in the world, but due to her severe health issues we do not sleep together and haven't been intimate in about 8 yrs.
I wish you the best of fortune in your quest and that happiness comes your way soon

 

[muycurioso]

I miss intimacy with a woman, too. Had an angry wife for a few years, now divorced about a year and getting no where with women. Maybe now is the time to experience giving a BJ

 

[CuttingEdge]

When my wife left me, now an ex-wife, I was okay with being alone for 10 months, but then missed intimacy too. Not just sex, but all of it. Waking up beside someone. Back rubs. Going out to eat at restaurants, etc. Just having meaningful conversations.

I ended up going online and dating, and while it worked, for the first month it was disappointing. Woman at my age who are single tend to be very guarded, and for understandable reasons. Most it seemed just wanted one night stands. I gave in a few times, but it's not really what I wanted. How can you be intimate when you don't even know the person, or what she likes? Intimacy is more than just a sex act.

I have a great girlfriend now, and our "rule" is to kiss for ten seconds each day. It really keeps us close, sex or not.

It worked out for me in the end, but I would not resort to dating online again. I would do it a different way if I was to end up alone again. But without question, I understand what others are saying about craving intimacy.

 

[DL9german]

I just crave intimacy with someone that identifies as female I don’t really care, I just want someone

 

[hulmule]

I enjoy the closeness of a woman. Love kissing, touching. The feeling when your in love is awesome.Just funny how a lot of people are with the opposite type.

 

[Katch123]

I've have been celibate for a long time, for various reasons. I've been talking recently with people in various communities about what I want, what I'm after, and need.

What do I want? I want a physical connection with a woman. I want to be intimate, I want to experience kissing, pressing bodies up against one another. I want to be naked with someone and explore their body, kiss every part of them. The experience may not end up with intercourse, but I would greatly enjoy any and all things in between. I want to feel that erotic energy with someone, give pleasure to them, and myself, and above all, let myself truly enjoy it. There are so many ways I could describe what I want it to involve. Very clear pictures in my head that I see, and I see, feel, and hear all of it. I very much want to experience it soon.

I thought I had found someone that I could experience that with, but she is on a different wavelength, at a different time in her life. She did admit that once not long ago, she wanted the same things, the same way, and helped a friend of hers have a sensual, rewarding experience with her, but is is not something she is able to give to anyone other than main lover in her life right now. I felt a connection with this woman because of conversations I had with her, found her to be interesting, compassionate, quite interested in helping myself (and others, it's part of what she does for a living) find what they are looking for.

So I thought I should join up here, put out there what I want, and perhaps someone will respond to me, and perhaps want to chat directly with me. As I said, there has to be some sort of connection initially. The connection could be built immediately, or over a few days, or weeks, it doesn't matter. And if the person wants to take things a step further, to meet up, to act upon things, then I will follow through.

I really don't think you will find what you're looking for here. Social media has changed the way (women more so than men ) think about sex /relationships these days .

The traditional way is more difficult. Hookup apps are the way to go if you want to smash n go, Zero commitments. You may find what you want in the least likely of places. JMHO, good luck.

 

[lc69hunter]

I am recently a widower (going on two years), and the wife had been ill for almost the last 15 years, so I was celibate for that time, even though she told me to go find a girlfriend. It is tough getting back in the saddle, as the landscape has changed tremendously. Luckily, I had good female friends who have encouraged me, and challenged me, every step of the way (and one who keeps trying to set me up, thinking I need another wife). You will find that intimacy, and the two of you will have to find the parameters of the relationship that work for the two of you.