The cross dresser question

[Escierto]

In our sexual relationship my transgender girlfriend takes the male role and I take the female role. I service her lovely cock like a woman satisfies her man, sucking her off or letting her fuck my ass. We make a great match.

Usually I get asked after people learn about our sexual relationship, do I dress in women’s clothes?

I have never worn women’s clothes and I have absolutely no desire to do so. I don’t see anything wrong with cross dressing but it has zero appeal for me. I would probably be more likely to wear a gorilla costume in public than women’s clothes.

Sometimes I get asked, do I dress in women’s clothes too, which may imply that my girlfriend is a cross dresser. Many people use cross dressing as a step towards a change in their gender identity but many people simply like to wear the clothes of the opposite gender.

I always point out that my girlfriend has worn women’s clothes since she was three years old as an expression of her female gender identity. She has never worn male attire in her life which says a lot about her parents respecting her desires even as a child. Every transgender child should be so lucky!

As for myself, although my girlfriend and I engage in some gender bending fantasies, that’s where it stops. In public, she likes us to appear as a normal opposite gender couple. I think for her there is a kind of validation of her gender identity as a woman by our appearance as a normal straight couple. Which is what we are. When we are not in bed together!

 

[muycurioso]

just for the record

In our sexual relationship my transgender girlfriend takes the male role and I take the female role. I service her lovely cock like a woman satisfies her man, sucking her off or letting her fuck my ass. We make a great match.

Usually I get asked after people learn about our sexual relationship, do I dress in women’s clothes?

I have never worn women’s clothes and I have absolutely no desire to do so. I don’t see anything wrong with cross dressing but it has zero appeal for me. I would probably be more likely to wear a gorilla costume in public than women’s clothes.

Sometimes I get asked, do I dress in women’s clothes too, which may imply that my girlfriend is a cross dresser. Many people use cross dressing as a step towards a change in their gender identity but many people simply like to wear the clothes of the opposite gender.

I always point out that my girlfriend has worn women’s clothes since she was three years old as an expression of her female gender identity. She has never worn male attire in her life which says a lot about her parents respecting her desires even as a child. Every transgender child should be so lucky!

As for myself, although my girlfriend and I engage in some gender bending fantasies, that’s where it stops. In public, she likes us to appear as a normal opposite gender couple. I think for her there is a kind of validation of her gender identity as a woman by our appearance as a normal straig couple. Which is what we are. When we are not in bed together!

I have a gorilla suit and have worn it many times

 

[Briefsencounter]

In our sexual relationship my transgender girlfriend takes the male role and I take the female role. I service her lovely cock like a woman satisfies her man, sucking her off or letting her fuck my ass. We make a great match.

Usually I get asked after people learn about our sexual relationship, do I dress in women’s clothes?

I have never worn women’s clothes and I have absolutely no desire to do so. I don’t see anything wrong with cross dressing but it has zero appeal for me. I would probably be more likely to wear a gorilla costume in public than women’s clothes.

Sometimes I get asked, do I dress in women’s clothes too, which may imply that my girlfriend is a cross dresser. Many people use cross dressing as a step towards a change in their gender identity but many people simply like to wear the clothes of the opposite gender.

I always point out that my girlfriend has worn women’s clothes since she was three years old as an expression of her female gender identity. She has never worn male attire in her life which says a lot about her parents respecting her desires even as a child. Every transgender child should be so lucky!

As for myself, although my girlfriend and I engage in some gender bending fantasies, that’s where it stops. In public, she likes us to appear as a normal opposite gender couple. I think for her there is a kind of validation of her gender identity as a woman by our appearance as a normal straight couple. Which is what we are. When we are not in bed together!

I respect that very much. Good on you both. I wish you all the joy and happiness your relationship can bring. Have fun, make love, enjoy life.

 

[Escierto]

I respect that very much. Good on you both. I wish you all the joy and happiness your relationship can bring. Have fun, make love, enjoy life.

Thank you!

 

[Easypeter]

Sounds like a great relationship. Both of you are happy in your relationship

 

[Escierto]

Sounds like a great relationship. Both of you are happy in your relationship

We started chatting in the spring of 2019 so it will be close to six years soon. Yes, we are happy.

 

[CD_Bree]

It's about who you are, and how you feel about it. I've been crossdressing for years. When I do, I like to feel feminine, when I don't dress I feel male maybe sometimes, feeling Im bi. You like what you do sexualy regardless of the clothes on your back! Too me its no different than a straight guy getting pegged or your girlfriend having the real deal!

 

[SPARTAN047]

Feminization isn't a part of most relationships.

 

[Escierto]

Feminization isn't a part of most relationships.

That's true. The only part of feminization in our relationship is the sexual part. I am the woman who sucks or is fucked by her man. In everything else, I am a normal masculine man. Which is what she likes.

 

[SPARTAN047]

That's true. The only part of feminization in our relationship is the sexual part. I am the woman who sucks or is fucked by her man. In everything else, I am a normal masculine man. Which is what she likes.

It should stay that way. Everything isn't porn.

 

[Escierto]

It should stay that way. Everything isn't porn.

She had a short lived relationship with a guy back in 2016 and he suggested to her that he liked to wear women's clothing. She was horrified and their relationship ended later.

 

[ToniTot]

my cross dressing is limited to dressing in lingerie only.. i do have a couple short skirts and a couple tops that raveal my small but growing breasts..the only time you will find me in said lingerie is when im home in the evening or when im with a partner that likes my feminine persuasion.View attachment 2501941

 

[Terrylipstick]

my cross dressing is limited to dressing in lingerie only.. i do have a couple short skirts and a couple tops that raveal my small but growing breasts..the only time you will find me in said lingerie is when im home in the evening or when im with a partner that likes my feminine persuasion.View attachment 2501941

You look great

 

[SPARTAN047]

She had a short lived relationship with a guy back in 2016 and he suggested to her that he liked to wear women's clothing. She was horrified and their relationship ended later.

Shame, but most trans girls seem to want men.

 

[TallOne]

Most trans girls I know are t4t...but neither wants to be the top.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Or that could be it. Yes, most don't want to be tops. I

don't think I've met many who want other trans women or sissies. They seem to ask for men to admire women. Maybe it's because men will top more?

 

[Escierto]

Or that could be it. Yes, most don't want to be tops. I

don't think I've met many who want other trans women or sissies. They seem to ask for men to admire women. Maybe it's because men will top more?

Most trans women are lesbians either with other trans or cis women. I think here in the US it's about 75%. Of course in the Philippines, most of them want men like my girlfriend does. I think for them, they see it as an affirmation of their status as women.

 

[SPARTAN047]

Most trans women are lesbians either with other trans or cis women. I think here in the US it's about 75%. Of course in the Philippines, most of them want men like my girlfriend does. I think for them, they see it as an affirmation of their status as women.

Very strange. Could I get a list of names and addresses to contact these lesbian beauties in the US or Europe?

I don't get it, maybe the ones in the Philippines, Vietnam, Indonesia, and other Asian countries are straight for men. Or maybe I'm mostly finding CDs, TVs and pre op TGs who happen to want men to confirm their status as women. Not the HRT TGs.

 

[TallOne]

Very strange. Could I get a list of names and addresses to contact these lesbian beauties in the US or Europe?

I don't get it, maybe the ones in the Philippines, Vietnam, Indonesia, and other Asian countries are straight for men. Or maybe I'm mostly finding CDs, TVs and pre op TGs who happen to want men to confirm their status as women. Not the HRT TGs.

Many are married and just stay in that relationship with their wife, it just becomes a lesbian one. Identity and orientation don't necessarily go together.

 

[Escierto]

Very strange. Could I get a list of names and addresses to contact these lesbian beauties in the US or Europe?

There are TS dating sites like TSMatch and others.

 

[Sol41]

This is the pitfall of labelsor at least over labeling.

Escierto, are you gay cause you enjoy anal, are you straight cause she also presents female?

Add to that societal expectations (such as the subs dressing in womens clothes or at least femininely) and it all quickly breaks down I feel.

In the end I think being us and leaving that undefinable is the preferable option. Because you never know how youre gonna develop down the line.

 

[Scooterlover]

In our sexual relationship my transgender girlfriend takes the male role and I take the female role. I service her lovely cock like a woman satisfies her man, sucking her off or letting her fuck my ass. We make a great match.

Usually I get asked after people learn about our sexual relationship, do I dress in women’s clothes?

I have never worn women’s clothes and I have absolutely no desire to do so. I don’t see anything wrong with cross dressing but it has zero appeal for me. I would probably be more likely to wear a gorilla costume in public than women’s clothes.

Sometimes I get asked, do I dress in women’s clothes too, which may imply that my girlfriend is a cross dresser. Many people use cross dressing as a step towards a change in their gender identity but many people simply like to wear the clothes of the opposite gender.

I always point out that my girlfriend has worn women’s clothes since she was three years old as an expression of her female gender identity. She has never worn male attire in her life which says a lot about her parents respecting her desires even as a child. Every transgender child should be so lucky!

As for myself, although my girlfriend and I engage in some gender bending fantasies, that’s where it stops. In public, she likes us to appear as a normal opposite gender couple. I think for her there is a kind of validation of her gender identity as a woman by our appearance as a normal straight couple. Which is what we are. When we are not in bed together!

I always feel that if it works for you what’s it got to do with anyone else. Love and live as makes you happy

 

[Escierto]

Escierto, are you gay cause you enjoy anal, are you straight cause she also presents female?

Reminds me of the old joke. Call me anything you want, just don't call me late for dinner!

 

[Sol41]

Reminds me of the old joke. Call me anything you want, just don't call me late for dinner!

I hear some wild ones sometimes. They get so out there that I swear sometimes Im like "Y'know what, just call me a f****t"

 

[Escierto]

I hear some wild ones sometimes. They get so out there that I swear sometimes Im like "Y'know what, just call me a f****t"

A long time ago, these labels actually mattered to me. It's hard to escape the social conditioning that takes place over a lifetime but it can be done. The fact that I consider her a woman was my Get Out of Gay Free card. Now, who cares? So I am gay. Whoopee!