Do you believe in instalove?

[lovetoread]

can one fall in love immediately or does it take time to actually fall in love?

my favorite romance books have instalove and one true mate tropes. i love them to death. i also think you can know someone is different when you meet them.

i also think instalust is something different - you can want to fuck someone without wanting a relationship

 

[AnnyMouse28]

I'm not sure I believe in love at all. So NO I don't believe in love at first sight.

Lust. Is not Love.

 

[Just4AFriend]

I'm not sure I believe in love at all. So NO I don't believe in love at first sight.

Lust. Is not Love.

So instant LUST!
I know this exists

 

[AnnyMouse28]

So instant LUST!
I know this exists

Yes. We’ve all meet someone who instantly made us wet/hard.

 

[HisArpy]

Attraction can happen instantly, love takes longer.

 

[Goldenfinger]

I don’t know about instant love, but I’ve met people and after a short time I thought that this is a person I could fall in love with.

 

[nowisthetime]

It only takes a minute girl (only takes a minute girl)
To fall in love, to fall in love (to fall in love)
It only takes a minute girl (it only takes a minute girl)
To fall in love, to fall in love

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BxtPbCYk-38

 

[ace195008]

Real love also lasts where lust can be only momentarily.

 

[rockcasbah]

can one fall in love immediately or does it take time to actually fall in love?

my favorite romance books have instalove and one true mate tropes. i love them to death. i also think you can know someone is different when you meet them.

i also think instalust is something different - you can want to fuck someone without wanting a relationship

I have fallen in love at first sight twice and both times it happened from 25-40 feet away. Ding. That's Her.

Lust for me is a different animal...it always includes close physical proximity and the instant knowledge that you both need to touch each other right fucking now. Hormones.

 

[Fermina_Daza]

No, I don’t believe an instant love. I Think too many people confuse new relationship energy with love. Then when it’s not fun anymore, they believe they have fallen out of love. The last 390 some days have shown me what love is. It’s not always fun or pretty.

I do, however, I have learned those which cause instant lust are best left on shelves unplayed with.

 

[stickygirl]

Always thought love starts with lust and turns into respect, but I'm old fashioned and single so wtfdik

 

[patient1]

I think people can fall in love rather quickly. The trouble is that we can fall in love with an illusion, an assumption, or a single facet of a multisided gem.

In other words, we can fall in love before we really know each other.

 

[Hrairoo]

Not a fan of instalove or mate bonds in romance books. It's boring and annoying. It is incredibly lazy and the author usually tries to validate it with sex instead of genuine chemistry. And both parties are usually head over heels in the most insipid, obnoxious way.

"I'm so in love with her! She's making me into a better man!"

You've known about her for 24 hours, Gerald, and you fucked for 4 of those. You're almost 30 but you sound like a teenager. Get back to me when you know something about her other than what color her nipples are.

 

[MrZeno]

Instant attraction not love.

 

[With_David_Bowie]

Yup, you can only articulate the reasons why later.

 

[Jada59]

I'm 61. I have never fallen in love. I do love people and I have fallen in lust. Ha.

 

[lovetoread]

Not a fan of instalove or mate bonds in romance books. It's boring and annoying. It is incredibly lazy and the author usually tries to validate it with sex instead of genuine chemistry. And both parties are usually head over heels in the most insipid, obnoxious way.

"I'm so in love with her! She's making me into a better man!"

You've known about her for 24 hours, Gerald, and you fucked for 4 of those. You're almost 30 but you sound like a teenager. Get back to me when you know something about her other than what color her nipples are.

eh, i must disagree

when they do fated mates, its not about love - its about the magic that bonds people together

fated mates is my one trope that i will die on a hill for

 

[Nyquietman]

I don’t believe in instalove. I beleive you fall in love after missing someone u lusted for and they come back in your life and you don’t want to let go.

 

[FataMorgana]

eh, i must disagree

when they do fated mates, its not about love - its about the magic that bonds people together

fated mates is my one trope that i will die on a hill for

You romantic bastard.

 

[With_David_Bowie]

You romantic bastard.

Wierdly, I do think it's a Stephen King thing.

 

[LLCox]

I always start with lust... the large majority of the time it ends there.

 

[liqiye]

eh, i must disagree

when they do fated mates, its not about love - its about the magic that bonds people together

fated mates is my one trope that i will die on a hill for

Kind of agree. There are some with whom you have that that instant connection which cannot be explained.

 

[Rockymtnman]

Nah. Attraction isn’t love. You can fall in love quickly but not instantly.

 

[HardRunner85]

Definitely insta lust. I feel love takes time and effort to build.

 

[KJBooty]

I believe in insta-lust but not insta-love. I can see someone physically amazing and once we start getting to know each other realize we are not connecting and I am done. At the same time I can meet someone I am not initially attracted to and once we get to know each other feel deeply for them.