Come or Cum

[Beneaththesurface]

Is there a proper way of using come/cum or is it just a personal preference? I’ve seen it done both ways. Here is an example of how I used it, just wondering if I’m using the term correctly if the is a correct way.

Come as in the act of coming:
“Fuck me please! I need you to come inside me now! I’ll be good — I promise.” Her body begins shaking again and I remove the toys from both of her holes to stop her from coming once again.

The physical property:
The end comes first for my Devin — the whole scene sets him over the edge and he begins to spray his cum all over Britney’s face!

 

[SamScribble]

The way you have used them - come as a verb, cum as a noun - seems to be the most popular approach.

 

[Hypoxia]

Cum as verb: I'm cumming -- or -- I'm gonna cum. -- or -- Did you cum yet, honey?

I only use 'come' as a verb in past tense: I came, not I cummed. -- or -- I did cum hard.

Come, came, coming, all are ambiguous IMHO. Cum is quite specific. But for me, informal spoken language need follow no grammatical rules. We speak sloppily. My 1st-person POV-ers usually narrate formally, with no contractions either. But with speech, anything goes. Or comes.

There was a young fellow from Kent
Whose rod was so long that it bent.
So to save himself trouble
He bent it in double --
And instead of coming, he went.​

 

[yukonnights]

I go with "come" being the slang action verb for orgasm and "cum" being the slang for semen/ejaculate. This would hold for the male. The action verb would be the same for a female, but I'm not sure if any "fluid release" would be called 'cum'?

 

[Ranger3753]

I came, not I cummed.

I literally wretch any time I see someone say "I cummed"

 

[yukonnights]

I literally wretch any time I see someone say "I cummed"

Well, if'n you come from a dark holler and aint had no chance at some schooling cause Pa made ya work the cotton patch every day. Well then cummed is all yall would of knowed, ya know? But it is a powerful wretch'n word and that there is whut makes it a goodun!

 

[SimonDoom]

"Cum" as a noun, and "come" as a verb. That's how I do it. I cannot abide "cummed." If you can, that's fine. But I cannot.

 

[Ginlover]

I go with "come" being the slang action verb for orgasm and "cum" being the slang for semen/ejaculate. This would hold for the male. The action verb would be the same for a female, but I'm not sure if any "fluid release" would be called 'cum'?

I do. In my most recent story the first person narrator makes a girl squirt and as he is tasting it he thinks ' I'm addicted to a woman's cum.'

I think it's more common for a man to call a womans squirt or even extra lubrication after an orgasm cum than a woman call it cum.

 

[YDB95]

I prefer "come". Just my preference.

 

[yukonnights]

I do. In my most recent story the first person narrator makes a girl squirt and as he is tasting it he thinks ' I'm addicted to a woman's cum.'

I think it's more common for a man to call a womans squirt or even extra lubrication after an orgasm cum than a woman call it cum.

Thank you! I am always eager to hear these intimate details from a female perspective — loads it into my pack for future reference Silly me would have said; "I'm addicted to my lady's mess!" Now that I'm 'in the know', I think the use of cum is much more erotic.

 

[AlinaX]

His seminal fluid ejaculated over her mammary glands.

vs

His cum splashed across her tits.

?

 

[horrorotic]

Come for the action
Cum for the substance

 

[HeyAll]

As I always say, "come" is often right, but people want to read "cum." It's the buzzword people like.